u/Hour-Entry6557

Having a tough time with parental support. The day after my wife died, I visited my parents for dinner for the hopes that I would get some sort of support. For context, my wife and parents never had the best relationship but it’s not without reason. They tried to schedule our wedding rehearsal dinner at a Brazilian steakhouse (even though she was vegetarian), they tried to force wedding invitations to people not on our list, and my mom threatened to not show up because it was a 21+ wedding.

After the dinner, my dad (part of the Q conspiracy) went on a 6th tirade about how ivermectin is the cure to cancer and said (but not actually saying it) that she would still be alive if she would’ve taken it in the first place. He previously promised to never bring it up again after the 3rd time. Followed it up by saying that he was “glad” that Hannah saw how 401Ks were scams because of tax penalties in withdrawals. For context, she wanted to cash out her 401Ks but chose not to because she knew I would get hit with the tax penalties next year.

I thought I could get past this, but when I invited my mother out to a Mothers Day brunch the next day, she said that brunches were too early and they would call back with a backup plan. She didn’t even let me revise. All she said was “you can join us for dinner, if you want”. They never called with the backup plan.

I’m supposed to meet them for a nice dinner and a baseball game at the end of the month, but I don’t want to anymore and I just can’t deal with them right now. They offered to help with my move, but I don’t want them around for that either.

Met the most amazing girl and how she said yes to me, I will never understand. Yes to the first date, yes to marrying me, yes to getting a house….all gone. 5 years of being together.

I held her hand when she took her last breath, only ten days short from our second wedding anniversary.

Now I’m moving out of her parents’ house after spending the last year with them as they supported us during her treatments. Moving into a single bedroom space where it’s only me and our dog, all alone.

I have no one to truly support me. My own parents have been extremely unsupportive, none of my friends can relate to this pain, and when I meet other widowers, it’s about how insane it is that I’ve been dealt this hand before I even touched my 30s.

I don’t know exactly what I’m looking for but I just wish she was here to help me and give me one last back scratch or cuddle.

About to move into the north Houston area and looking to join a private golf club. Looking to pay something reasonable (so NOT The Woodlands CC) but perhaps looking at The Clubs of Kingwood.

Anyone have any recommendations for clubs in north Houston that would be worth checking out? I’m still young in my professional career, so not looking to splash cash.

Reddit is great for many things, but one thing that kills me about this app is the amount of bots and OF bate accounts. I heavily prefer talking to F, but it feels like whenever I message them or vice versa, the next message is to join telegram or they link their OF. Just my rant for the day.

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Hi there! Based in CST USA. Some fun facts about me include being biracial (if that matters), sports nut, love trying new coffee shops/bars, foodie, gaming, and you can find me playing soccer or golf if I’m not doing any of those things.

Happy chatting!