Looking for positivity

Looking for positivity

I (35) recovered from a severe illness and everything in my life is better than ever except for my relationship with my belly. I feel gassy and big on most days, and there is some (life saving) fat that needs to be there but makes me feel insecure about myself. I never had this shape before and I'd like to rewire my brain into a kinder frequency.

If you went through something similar, how did you reach the other side?

u/Huge-Nobody-4711 — 14 days ago

Colors and styles that go well with the exposed plumbing, other than grey or industrial?

I'm going to remodel my all-in-one 2.7 sqm bathroom and am stuck with choosing tiles. I like warm colors but the plumbing will stay exposed after the remodel and I feel weird about combining steel with warm shades.

What should I do with this? I just want a pretty bathroom 😅

u/Huge-Nobody-4711 — 1 month ago

Snoring?

Has anyone else started snoring in recovery?

I've (35, NB) been in recovery for a year and weight restored for some ten months now, and somehow I've started snoring when I sleep on my back. It didn't happen before.

It feels weird that I'm a snorer now. To be honest, I'm disappointed with myself that my partner has to hear it and I can't help it.

Should I go see a doctor now? It's so confusing.

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u/Huge-Nobody-4711 — 3 months ago

How should I get my hair styled with this outfit? (Wedding guest)

Hi!

My sister's wedding is coming up and I want to balance the androgyny of the suit with a nice hairstyle. What would you suggest?

The glasses will stay and I'll get my makeup done by a professional.

u/Huge-Nobody-4711 — 5 months ago

I'm making a top to go with this burgundy suit to wear for my sister's wedding. But! The pattern I've been testing looks bulky on me and it makes me look more heavy set than I'm comfortable with.

What would you suggest? Should I maybe not tuck it or go for a refined jersey top instead?

u/Huge-Nobody-4711 — 6 months ago