
I have a long term relationship and it's just bland
I'm 27, my girlfriend is 24. She studies I work full time.
Case is I really like her, she also shows me a lot of affection. It's just really unremarkable, we go to movies, fuck, eat and sleep. She's fun to be around but really boring in some ways. Everything has to be pre-planned, everything has to be talked about, we went to a festival once and she brought a suitcases of bullshit, and when I went before knowing her all I had was a some bills in my walet and a bottle of vodka.
I used to travel around Europe, I once quit my job just to hop in my friends car and drive from a gas station to a gas station and we ended up in Andora. Ever since I've started this relationship (like 4 years ago) I've done nothing but go to work, and do chores. I refuse to live like this. (Maybe one trip to Prague which I been to like 15 times, also we did most touristy stuff imaginable)
And the case is, it also projects onto our relationship. It's just just as exciting as eating unsalted tofu.
I won't break up, she's my favorite person in the world but I need to find some way to do something for once. Live a little for a change. I feel like we have really different characters and I'm just biting the bullet to make her happy and it's getting infuriating.