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I’m back again. Today my husband chewed me out because I lock his dog in the guest room when he leaves to go to work. I don’t care, maybe if you would train this big stinky lab dog then I wouldn’t have to. The dog literally is making my pregnancy a living hell. It keeps getting into the garbage can and I have to pick up all its mess. Barking all night so I don’t get sleep. It eats all of my stuff if I leave it for two seconds. I’m so tired of this and I just can’t stand this dog. I cry every day because of how destructive this dog is and I just want it gone. I’m at my breaking point I’m at the point where I’m giving my husband an ultimatum it’s either me or the dog. I’m fine with whatever he decides but if it’s the dog then I’m out of here. I can’t keep stressing every day and crying over this damn dog I can’t do it. I want to be as healthy as possible for my baby.

So I don’t know the gender of my baby yet but my husband and I really want a boy and we are debating on names. For me I want Nathaniel and my husband wants Seth. Which one would you choose?

I’ve written on here I few times but I wanna talk about a situation that happened to me that I’ve talked on her before. I’m pregnant right now and my husband’s dog is making my life a living hell. Well I tried to vent about it on tik tok and another subreddit and got my ass chewed out. People were literally going as far as to say I hope you have a miscarriage or have an abortion because I said by the time that my baby gets here I’m getting rid of this damn dog. Why do people care more about replaceable animals than their fellow human. I’ve seen people say they’d much rather save their dog than to save a random baby. My husbands dog had worms which we are finally getting that fixed because i chewed his ass out, his dog keeps tripping me because he’s a big ass lab, his dog eats up my food if I set it down unattended, his dog barks in the middle of the night which I’m already having a hard time sleeping with this pregnancy and the dog ain’t making it better, the dog is always getting into the trash can which means I’m picking up trash 24/7, it drolls, it poops, it bites my babies clothes up, my clothes up, my babies bassinet, and he’s just a terror. I expressed my feelings about that and people had a hissy fit. I don’t get the appeal to dogs I never liked them and never will. Society needs to stop acting like dogs are children because they aren’t. They die in like 10 years and they aren’t a good investment. I hate seeing dogs in public especially in stores around produce. People expect you to say awww your dog is so cute but I purposely ignore dogs because they aren’t cute and I can’t stand them

I don’t know maybe because I’ve struggled with smoking vapes and drinking for about 3 years now it’s driving me crazy that my husband just walks around drinking beers and smoking his cigars. I’m kinda hurt I told him that we will stop together but he continues to smoke his dumb weed products and drinks. A lot of the time he doesn’t just flat out do it around me but I can just smell it on his breath. He also eats sushi and sandwiches ugh. Why did God make it so hard for us women I wish men had some part of pregnancy. I’m struggling to not just break down and look for my vape when I see my husband smoke. For my baby though I quit cold turkey after smoking every day since I was 19.

I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant and I know that’s super early but I’m tired of cramping for hours through out the day. I mean I thought I was going to get away from period cramps and here I am with a bad back ache and mild stomach cramping lol.