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Serious Inquiry: Who's Single? (Read For More Information.)

Alright, gents. It's time I fess up:

Though I have dated across racial, height, weight, age, and varying hairlines, I do have a type:

Bald guys with beards.

...Well, one of my "types" is definitely bald guys with beards.

And it's 10000% because of these bald subreddits.

Now being completely genuine, transparent, and serious:

Multiple YouTube psychics did tell me that I would connect with my soulmate this week.

And I have a very slight feeling that I know who it may be.

That said, I've been wrong about many things before.

...And, interestingly, the guy I'm thinking of has a full head of hair.

***BUT—***before I get wifed up, I figured I'd cover my bases here just to be sure.

So if you're in love with me,

Or are just bald with a beard,

Or just want to give me free access to your OnlyFans,

my DMs are open.

40/gay male/PA/scorpio/INFJ

u/IcyLion2939 — 29 days ago

Someone beat me to it... "The Same Parts Remix"... Mutha ate.

And they're making fun business decisions.

The SHORT behind this RPDR sensation made its rounds way before this song dropped.

Great job, Tati and Kati. Loving the marketing.

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u/IcyLion2939 — 1 month ago

717 Upcycle Request: Podcast and DJ Equipment ♻️

Request / Call to Action

Do you have any of the following sitting around unused and available to donate?

  • Podcasting or vlogging equipment
  • DJ controller
  • Laptop(s)

Additional Information

Hi everyone,

717UP: The 717 Upcycle Network & Abundance Pantry has launched!

717UP turns unused value into shared abundance by connecting people, businesses, organizations, churches, and communities through surplus, upcycling, barter, exchange, gifting, discounts, and shared resources.

We've started by collecting discounts, complimentary offers, and giveaways from local businesses to build customer loyalty, increase foot traffic, and encourage people to support neighborhood businesses. Those offers are initially being shared with nonprofit staff, volunteers, and at-risk clients to help offset everyday living costs.

Our pilot nonprofits include:

  • Lancaster County Food Hub
  • Otterbein Church / Clay Street Shelter
  • YMCA
  • Tenfold

Now, we are preparing for the fall!

We are developing a community podcast studio and preparing for our November ExtraGive experience, House of Coherence, which merges DJ-led electronic dance and gospel music, live vocals, and spoken word into a reimagined, very progressive church experience.

House of Coherence intentionally celebrates QTBIPOC culture and community while remaining inclusive to friends, family, and allies.

I am meeting with my pastor on Thursday, August 20, to finalize and confirm details. In the meantime, I wanted to see what Lancaster may already have sitting around unused.

We are currently looking for:

  • Podcasting or vlogging equipment
    • microphones, lighting, backdrops, green screens, video equipment, stands, and related gear.
  • DJ controller
    • preferably a model from within the last five years.
  • Laptop(s)
    • preferably models from within the last five years.

If you have anything available for donation, please email lancastercitytoday@gmail.com. Drop off will be held at the church.

One person’s surplus can become another person’s opportunity. We're opening 717UP to the community late 2026/early 2027.

Thanks in advance!

u/IcyLion2939 — 2 months ago

Has image creation gotten significantly worse?

Title.

I'm going back and forth in ways that used to take a prompt or 2.

Has image creation gotten significantly worse?

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u/IcyLion2939 — 3 months ago
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For the Record: Which one of y'all said Cynthia wouldn't be first chair?

Yes, I know she is second chair. I know, I know.

But some of y'all said LAST chair.

The disrespect, the disrespect, the disrespect.

Mutha deserves so much better from us.

Specifically: Y'all.

This is why I'm Mutha's favorite.

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u/IcyLion2939 — 4 months ago

Prove Me Wrong (/s): Endo Cafe is the best cafe in Lancaster City.

Last year, I was having a stressful day. Stopped in for the first time. I shared briefly when they asked me how I was doing. The baristas went out of their way to give me free drugs (kidding->CBD). I've gone consistently since, and the experience has been annoyingly good.

You know when the team and vibe are so outstanding that you're like... "Omg... Enough already. Take my money. I get it." From the dog wall, to the pick up window, to the ongoing donation requests for the homeless, to the NO ADDITIONAL CHARGE for milk. Leadership and staff communicate consistently: "We see you. We're real. We want you here."

Plus: The baristas are cool, kind, and SUPER SMART. SMH. I'm legit annoyed that I'm fangirling over this freakin' cafe.

I should have known that this is "the spot" when trans and nonbinary folx were visibly and consistently present. I mean, I'm pretty dramatic, but the place has felt so sacred that I will get up if I'm in a regular's seat.

I refuse to kill the vibe. Thank you, Endo.

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u/IcyLion2939 — 4 months ago
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Prove Me Wrong: Yovanna Deserves A Second Scene or New Show.

I don't know what happened here.

Yovanna was the ONLY reason why the Snake Gate season was worth watching. Especially because Snake Gate was slop anyway and went on WAY too long.

Even though she isn't really a HW and clearly not connected to the circle at all, she deserves to be on TV for carrying Snake Gate - amongst Nene, Kenya, AND Marlo. That's not easy.

Maybe Traitors? House of Villains? Honestly, I want some kind of "Friend Of" competition show where the one season wonders compete and call the HWs/work with different HWs for support. Kinda like The Apprentice meets Traitors, but dumber/more fun.

I heard some place that Yovanna was "THAT BITCH" in college.

But will she return to become "THAT BITCH" on Bravo once again?

Probably not.

Just the same & with earnest respect:

Team Yovanna. Yovanna from Clark. CAU.

Yovanna was THAT BITCH.

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u/IcyLion2939 — 4 months ago
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Nene can't come back...

Nene needs to do a RHOA Legacy project. How is the HBIC going to return to a cast that already has a different rhythm? I want her on my screen and in that role. But I don't want everyone to lose their personality by bowing down to Nene. AND I don't want Nene to feel like she has to fight for the top spot.

Nene needs her own show or a legacy project, but I don't think she offers anything to the new dynamic other than nostalgia that doesn't really fit now that the cast is so new.

...Or have her start a new franchise some place else in the country.

That said, though I'm not a ride or die Sheree fan, I wouldn't mind her back.

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u/IcyLion2939 — 5 months ago
▲ 11 r/RHOA

RHOA fam, I hear you.

I understand.

I get it, I get it, I get it.

Shamea is corny. Cringey. Kooky. Weird. Dorky. A try-hard. Cornball.

BUT THAT'S THE POINT!

She generates a unique feeling. She's the friend in your friend group who you love, but you spend a lot of time side-eyeing because they do too much of nothing. But! They round out your circle.

I get it, because I fall into that role. I'm the corny, tryhard, genuine friend that you make fun of. But that's kind of my role in the group. And that's why I appreciate Shamea. She represents a version of Blackness that we recognize, need, but often gets overlooked for the Porsha's/Angela's/K Michelle's.

She creates a contrast on the cast. She's the equivalent of "Bad, Caucasian Dad Humor". And, I agree, she's more of a "friend of", but IMO she's a "Friend-of-Peach-Holder".

If that makes sense?

Shamea isn't Beyoncé. Or Kelly. Shamea is Michelle. But Michelle can hold her own. (I bet you you know more of Michelle's verses than Kelly's!)

"Friend-of-Peach-Holders" are the HWs that are in the grey area of the group like Shereé or even Cynthia. They're woman who balance out the energy of the cast by offering genuine nothingness or complete delusion that you side-eye (e.g. friendship contract) while being able to hold their own in an argument and carry a bone or two.

All of this to say, Shamea is supposed to be cringey. She's supposed to be corny. Shamea is cringey-corny-white-dad-humor. It's okay for you to judge her. She's supposed to be laughed at. And, I think the producers are doing a really good job of defining her character on the show.

She represents the Michelle in all of us.

Shamea represents the Michelle in YOU.

We are all Shamea Morton Mwangi.

Yup. This is exactly the hair she chose. SMH. #PoorShameaMichelle

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u/IcyLion2939 — 6 months ago