u/IdkIjustneedadvise

Ok this is going to sound really stupid but since I prefer She/They pronouns and I'm AFAB I've never really experienced dysphoria. Sure some days people calling me a girl is kinda annoying, but I don't really tell people so whatever.

But something that gets under my skin is putting 'F' on job/volunteer applications. Now usually I just put "prefer not to say" or something like that but there have been times internal BS got the better of me and I just put 'F' and my god I felt awful after. I genuinely cannot explain the feeling but I'm sure y'all know what I mean.

Weirdly enough that's the ONLY THING that makes me feel like this. I'm (mostly) fine with it on legal documents too. I genuinely do not know why applications specifically get me.

I don't know why but whenever I flare I just don't feel hungry or if I do nothing looks appetizing. Does anyone else deal with this? Asking because I know SLE affects everyone differently.

I'm going to college in a couple of years and WSU is at the top of my list right now. This is, however, a big decision because I am not from Washington.

I have a couple of questions for people who have gone to WSU:

1. How is the area? I've seen some people complaining about Pullman being small, but I'm from a much smaller town so that isn't an issue with me.

2. How are the dorms? From what i've researched, they look very nice but i'm aware that can be deceiving.

3. How are the disability resources? At the other school I'm looking at, I know they aren't the best, so the bar's pretty low on this one.

4. What are some activities for students?

5. Are there opportunities for people going into the medical field? Specifically medical prerequisites.

I'm aware some of these questions are pretty specific so if you have advice or anything else about WSU then go for it, any information from students about the school is appreciated!

(Sorry if any of this is poorly written)

I'm planning on getting my medical prerequisites done at NAU. Any advice from people doing the same would be greatly appreciated!

(Also for MANY personal reasons I can't go to ASU, U of A, or GCU, even though I've heard they're the better colleges for pre med)

In fan fiction terms, TOOTH ROTTING FLUFF. I want my teeth to literally fall out. Every and any "overdone" trope in the book.

(Preferably SFW and NO MEN GETTING IN THE WAY!)

To be completely honest, I don't really read much but I really want to get better about it! If anyone has any recommendations, please send them my way 🙏

(Also, sorry if I didn't tag this correctly)