u/Idontknoooow0

So i M22 got to know this girl online F22, we live far away and was willing to meet when we get the chance and we knew each other and we are Muslims so I was planning for us to get engaged so we can know each other closely and in person. But I broke up with her because of these reasons.

Good thing about her:

1. She loves me.

2. She is kind-hearted.

3. She apologizes when she makes mistakes ( not always ).

4. She always motivates me.

5. She is very intelligent.

Bad things about her:

1. She is selfish, and she has admitted that she is selfish.

2. She threatened to block me if I broke my word, even though the matter was trivial.

3. She initiated a fight with me on my birthday over a very minor issue.

4. She compared me to that same friend and once told me that I was just like him after misunderstanding me, even though I had done nothing wrong.

5. We had an argument before a very important exam of mine, and she did not talk to me until after the exam. She did not wish me good luck or say anything supportive beforehand. The only thing she sent was an Instagram reel, and only afterward did she ask how my exam went.

6. She changes the meaning of promises and says that she meant something different.

7. She argues and then goes to sleep without resolving the issue.

8. When she gets upset I try to so everything to make her light up but she is so stubborn she won't no matter what ( most of the time ).

9. She constantly warns me about herself and says that she is the villain and a bad person and that I would be better off without her.

10. She has a male best friend who likes her. We agreed from the beginning that she would remove him from her social media accounts, but she said she would gradually reduce contact with him. That did happen, but whenever I brought him up, she would say, "I'll remove him in 2025." When 2026 came, she said she would not remove him because she had a research project with him and also owed him a favor that she wanted to repay first (with telling me what it was). I don't know why she wasn't honest with me from the beginning. I clearly told her that this person's presence was harmful to me and my mental well-being, and that I wanted her to remove him, but she refused.

11. Most of her friends on Twitter are males.

12. She asked for a breakup multiple times during our arguments.

13. She hid certain things from me and said that her intentions were good. ( I dont know if I believe her or not tbh but i still sees it wrong no matter what her intentions were)

14. Sometimes she emotionally withdraws and get completely cold and detached.

15. She once told me, "You don't understand me," and said that this alone was enough reason for us to stay away from each other, even though she said that because I was trying to comfort her because she was feeling low for some reason but I guess my comforting wasn't enough or good for her and it hurt me like a blade.

16. She is so stubborn and says that she knows its bad sometimes for her to be like that.

So i M22 got to know this girl online F22, we live far away and was willing to meet when we get the chance and we knew each other and we are Muslims so I was planning for us to get engaged so we can know each other closely and in person. But I broke up with her because of these reasons.

Good thing about her:

1. She loves me.

2. She is kind-hearted.

3. She apologizes when she makes mistakes ( not always ).

4. She always motivates me.

5. She is very intelligent.

Bad things about her:

1. She is selfish, and she has admitted that she is selfish.

2. She threatened to block me if I broke my word, even though the matter was trivial.

3. She initiated a fight with me on my birthday over a very minor issue.

4. She compared me to that same friend and once told me that I was just like him after misunderstanding me, even though I had done nothing wrong.

5. We had an argument before a very important exam of mine, and she did not talk to me until after the exam. She did not wish me good luck or say anything supportive beforehand. The only thing she sent was an Instagram reel, and only afterward did she ask how my exam went.

6. She changes the meaning of promises and says that she meant something different.

7. She argues and then goes to sleep without resolving the issue.

8. When she gets upset I try to so everything to make her light up but she is so stubborn she won't no matter what ( most of the time ).

9. She constantly warns me about herself and says that she is the villain and a bad person and that I would be better off without her.

10. She has a male best friend who likes her. We agreed from the beginning that she would remove him from her social media accounts, but she said she would gradually reduce contact with him. That did happen, but whenever I brought him up, she would say, "I'll remove him in 2025." When 2026 came, she said she would not remove him because she had a research project with him and also owed him a favor that she wanted to repay first (with telling me what it was). I don't know why she wasn't honest with me from the beginning. I clearly told her that this person's presence was harmful to me and my mental well-being, and that I wanted her to remove him, but she refused.

11. Most of her friends on Twitter are males.

12. She asked for a breakup multiple times during our arguments.

13. She hid certain things from me and said that her intentions were good. ( I dont know if I believe her or not tbh but i still sees it wrong no matter what her intentions were)

14. Sometimes she emotionally withdraws and get completely cold and detached.

15. She once told me, "You don't understand me," and said that this alone was enough reason for us to stay away from each other, even though she said that because I was trying to comfort her because she was feeling low for some reason but I guess my comforting wasn't enough or good for her and it hurt me like a blade.

16. She is so stubborn and says that she knows its bad sometimes for her to be like that.

So i M22 got to know this girl online F22, we live far away and was willing to meet when we get the chance and we knew each other and we are Muslims so I was planning for us to get engaged so we can know each other closely and in person. But I broke up with her because of these reasons.

Good thing about her:

1. She loves me.

2. She is kind-hearted.

3. She apologizes when she makes mistakes ( not always ).

4. She always motivates me.

5. She is very intelligent.

Bad things about her:

1. She is selfish, and she has admitted that she is selfish.

2. She threatened to block me if I broke my word, even though the matter was trivial.

3. She initiated a fight with me on my birthday over a very minor issue.

4. She compared me to that same friend and once told me that I was just like him after misunderstanding me, even though I had done nothing wrong.

5. We had an argument before a very important exam of mine, and she did not talk to me until after the exam. She did not wish me good luck or say anything supportive beforehand. The only thing she sent was an Instagram reel, and only afterward did she ask how my exam went.

6. She changes the meaning of promises and says that she meant something different.

7. She argues and then goes to sleep without resolving the issue.

8. When she gets upset I try to so everything to make her light up but she is so stubborn she won't no matter what ( most of the time ).

9. She constantly warns me about herself and says that she is the villain and a bad person and that I would be better off without her.

10. She has a male best friend who likes her. We agreed from the beginning that she would remove him from her social media accounts, but she said she would gradually reduce contact with him. That did happen, but whenever I brought him up, she would say, "I'll remove him in 2025." When 2026 came, she said she would not remove him because she had a research project with him and also owed him a favor that she wanted to repay first (with telling me what it was). I don't know why she wasn't honest with me from the beginning. I clearly told her that this person's presence was harmful to me and my mental well-being, and that I wanted her to remove him, but she refused.

11. Most of her friends on Twitter are males.

12. She asked for a breakup multiple times during our arguments.

13. She hid certain things from me and said that her intentions were good. ( I dont know if I believe her or not tbh but i still sees it wrong no matter what her intentions were)

14. Sometimes she emotionally withdraws and get completely cold and detached.

15. She once told me, "You don't understand me," and said that this alone was enough reason for us to stay away from each other, even though she said that because I was trying to comfort her because she was feeling low for some reason but I guess my comforting wasn't enough or good for her and it hurt me like a blade.

16. She is so stubborn and says that she knows its bad sometimes for her to me like that.

Do you think I made the right decision? Honestly

So i M22 got to know this girl online F22, we live far away and was willing to meet when we get the chance and we knew each other and we are Muslims so I was planning for us to get engaged so we can know each other closely and in person. But I broke up with her because of these reasons.

Good thing about her:

1. She loves me.

2. She is kind-hearted.

3. She apologizes when she makes mistakes ( not always ).

4. She always motivates me.

5. She is very intelligent.

Bad things about her:

1. She is selfish, and she has admitted that she is selfish.

2. She threatened to block me if I broke my word, even though the matter was trivial.

3. She initiated a fight with me on my birthday over a very minor issue.

4. She compared me to that same friend and once told me that I was just like him after misunderstanding me, even though I had done nothing wrong.

5. We had an argument before a very important exam of mine, and she did not talk to me until after the exam. She did not wish me good luck or say anything supportive beforehand. The only thing she sent was an Instagram reel, and only afterward did she ask how my exam went.

6. She changes the meaning of promises and says that she meant something different.

7. She argues and then goes to sleep without resolving the issue.

8. When she gets upset I try to so everything to make her light up but she is so stubborn she won't no matter what ( most of the time ).

9. She constantly warns me about herself and says that she is the villain and a bad person and that I would be better off without her.

10. She has a male best friend who likes her. We agreed from the beginning that she would remove him from her social media accounts, but she said she would gradually reduce contact with him. That did happen, but whenever I brought him up, she would say, "I'll remove him in 2025." When 2026 came, she said she would not remove him because she had a research project with him and also owed him a favor that she wanted to repay first (with telling me what it was). I don't know why she wasn't honest with me from the beginning. I clearly told her that this person's presence was harmful to me and my mental well-being, and that I wanted her to remove him, but she refused.

11. Most of her friends on Twitter are males.

12. She asked for a breakup multiple times during our arguments.

13. She hid certain things from me and said that her intentions were good. ( I dont know if I believe her or not tbh but i still sees it wrong no matter what her intentions were)

14. Sometimes she emotionally withdraws and get completely cold and detached.

15. She once told me, "You don't understand me," and said that this alone was enough reason for us to stay away from each other, even though she said that because I was trying to comfort her because she was feeling low for some reason but I guess my comforting wasn't enough or good for her and it hurt me like a blade.

16. She is so stubborn and says that she knows its bad sometimes for her to me like that.