u/Ijustlovejellyfish

Hi,

I'm sorry I know this question must be asked a lot of times, so I understand if you don't want to take the time to answer don't worry !

But I'm very lost, and scared. I feel like maybe I'm AroAce, but I'm scared that maybe I'm not because people will tell me that I was faked, or just an attention seeker. So I want to be sure if I'm AroAce or not, because I don't know if I'm valid enough to say that I am.

Okay so, I'm a young adult now, and since always I never fall in love or have sexual and romantic attraction to anyone, even fictional characters. I mean, yeah I found some people really cool and good looking but it's different from romantic and sexual attraction no ? When I was a child I always wanted to be in love, because my parents said that was the only reason to be alive, to be married and have kids. So I said that I was bisexual and I tried to forget about the AroAce label. But now that I'm mature enough, I realize that, yeah I want to have a strong bond with someone, but not necessarily romantic. It doesn't matter to me if I will never be married, and I don't want children anyway. So am I Aromantic or not ?

And I don't know if I'm valid enough to be in the Asexual community. Honestly I don't think I want to have sex at all. And I never feel the desire to be intimate with anyone. But, when I'm reading fanfiction (sometimes NSFW), I feel something, is it just libido or I don't know what it's called, or is it because I'm not asexual ?

I still think every gender is attractive but not in a sexual or romantic way, I don't know if it's understandable.

I'm really sorry to bother you all with this. I don't want to offend anyone by saying that I'm on a label that maybe I'm not.

I'm really sorry if I said something wrong !! That was never my intention.

Hi !

I'm very lost with myself, and I wanted to know what the difference between Omni and pansexual or bisexual ?

Also, is there a label for someone AroAce but the "little attraction" is for any gender with a stronger attraction to women ? (I'm a demigirl)

Sorry for wasting your time,

Have a great day/night !

Hi !

So it's my first time watching Supernatural in my life, and I'm on Season 3 episode 15 and I have a question about Bela. So we know that she made a deal with a demon (Lilith) to kill her parents. My question is why ? We saw a scene where I think Bela's dad went to her room and she is crying and afraid so I suppose maybe her dad beat her or maybe rape her. My question is, does someone know the truth about why she killed her parents ? Honestly you can spoil it to me but just this question not others spoil please !

Have a great day/night !

Hi !

I'm sorry to bother you but I had a question. (I use this flair even if I'm not writing a book but it's about an OC).

So yesterday, my friend saw my OC and she said that it's really offensive to black people and that I should be ashamed, I'm really scared now because I didn't want to do something bad, it was never my intention !! So for context, my OC is a half bird half human. She is inspired form a black bird. So I made her have black skin but black unnatural like Onyx or I don't know...black cat ? I'm sorry I don't know how to describe her I'm not good with words. And so my friend said that it's really offensive to make her this unnatural black color to black people, and my friend is white so I wanted to ask this subreddit about this, should I change the skin color of my OC, even if the bird is black and she is half bird (she doesn't have external ears for exemple, she has wings) ? In the universe where she lives, there is an OC who have green skin and another one who have light pink skin.

I don't want to be offensive at all it was never my intention, but if it's offensive I promised I will change her ! I'm sorry if I did or said something wrong !!

Have a good day/night and take care of yourself !