u/Ill-Audience-4013

hey, just curious how much do u guys have saved up?

assets + savings

Why should I be sober?

I don’t have kids or a partner or any dependents but I still feel guilt when I use. I want to quit but I will lose many friendships. So please give me done reasons to quit

I broke sobriety for the first time in a year. It was influenced by a family members passing. It was safe like at a friend’s house. I’m good friends with the ppl I went out w so I feel like I will go out w them in a few months when I start to miss again.

One of the guys in the group has a gf but he kinda flirts with me. He spent majority of our time together on his phone which pissed me tf off because we haven’t seen each other in a long time and he wanted me to hang out for ages and when I finally agree I find out he has a gf and he pre much ignores me the whole time.

And when he doesn’t ignore me he touches my face, puts his legs on mine cause he knew my feet were cold. I let this all just happen because I was not inthe right state of mind. Nothing else happened

I never wanted to be in a relationship with him but now that he is committed to someone else I find myself feeling jealous that I have to share his attention w someone else

His gf has his location which he doesn’t like so he discussed getting second phone. He did not tell her that he was going out w a group that included women and when she found out she called him and cried on the phone w him for over an hour.

Any advice of what now? Continue being friends? Tell him how I feel?