u/Illustrious_Ad_1973

Do you think that you have to be physically attracted to someone to pursue them romantically? For me I find that the type of guys Iam into aren’t into me. I go to CrossFit 4 or 5 days a week, eat generally healthy and look after myself. I’m still a bit bigger (200 pound at 168 cms tall), so I know I don’t look like I go to the gym. However I feel that the guys I’m into (generally physically fit and workout as well) just look at me and don’t want me because of the way I look. So I’m wondering if it’s possible to like and want to date someone even if you’re not attracted to them physically. And just for the comments I know are about to come… I have dated guys that don’t work out as well and are bigger, and that wasn’t the reason things didn’t work out.