u/Illustrious_Rub_5795

Does it really work? Also hope you don't mind if I DM you

gng I studied and got this 😭😭 am i dumb

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Guys pls help 😭

Kal mera boyfriend thoda zyada hi romantic ho gaya aur neck pe love bite de diya 💀 Ab woh pura reddish-purple mark dikh raha hai aur gharwalo ko kya bolu samajh nahi aa raha 😭😭

Maine hoodie pehen ke cover kiya hai abhi but itna garmi me roz possible nahi hai 😭 Koi genuine trick bata do jisse jaldi fade ho jaye?

Aur pls judge mat karna yaar 🥲 first time hua hai mere saath.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianWoman/s/Ovqap6DuTj

This is the link of the post.

Now here's my theory: I think that the person this woman is dating is actually the incarnation of ayanokoji in real life. Hence all the descriptions about how the guy is supposedly so calm and reserved, but shows little to no emotional availability. What do you all think?

😭😭

Scored 92%ile in JEE

86% in 12th boards

Ik it's not that good or enough.. parents are shouting at me..

Am I a failure? 😞

First to clarify, this post is for people who scored anywhere above 85%ile, but less than 95%ile and about genuine reasons why someone might not have been able to get further than that.. (because if you got like 50-60%ile then you definitely actually haven't studied, so pls stop justifying your failure and I won't either)

Recently I saw a post on jee subreddit where someone was talking about how coaching doesn't matter at all, like not even 1%, and how only self study matters.. well guys I definitely want to hear your opinions on this because I very highly disagree with this statement in fact I almost think it's some kind of genius ragebait because it's infuriating me so much.

Coaching definitely does matter in my opinion, of course I wouldn't say that your entire result is determined by coaching itself (like I said this post is for people above 85%ile who had genuine reasons and this is one of the reasons), the coaching can definitely be a reason.. atleast it was for me. Like dude one day I opened the pdf of allen modules and I was like damn dude if I had this I would literally be unstoppable. I was in a local coaching, and while it wasn't particularly bad, it wasn't particularly good either, and the environment and lack of good peers really demotivated me.

In the last 7 months of preparation, I had severe tension headaches, the kind of headaches where you literally cannot study even if you want to. My parents dismissed it as an excuse I was making. Most people will say it's an excuse but I faced them I know it was a genuine thing that I simply couldn't push through 😭, I tried alot 😭 (btw I got 92%ile 🥀)

Basically what I'm trying to say is that you didn't fail JEE "just" because you didn't study... I especially hate these arrogant toppers who say you only failed because you didn't study, they are no better than parents who say "padhne wala kahi bhi padh leta hai" typa shii

There are alot of factors like coaching, peer pressure, environment, actual health issues, supportive parents etc etc. like you didn't fail only because of yourself (though if you got 50-60%ile then you definitely failed by yourself)

So what do you guys think? Do you feel that someone who scored 85%ile+ failed because they didn't study more, or because they literally *couldn't* study more...?

Well, my point is that people who scored 85%ile + after studying for 2 years but ultimately failed to reach more than 95%ile are usually looked down upon as if they commited some kind of crime. I'm talking about the pressure put on people who actually studied but ultimately failed.. which again not because they didn't study but because they fundamentally couldn't push themselves more or they'd break

Like I think if I studied more with my headache situation, I think my brain would've probably exploded at some point

PATA HAI AAJ KYA HUA.

I GOT SO TIRED OF ALL THESE RELATIONSHIP POSTS THAT NOW MY LIFE IS GOING ON IN A LOOP WHERE I KEEP CRAVING A RELATIONSHIP EVERY SINGLE DAY. SO PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP/NEVER BEEN IN ONE, ESPECIALLY BY THEIR OWN CHOICE, WHAT DO YOU DO AND HOW DO YOU NOT CRAVE A RELATIONSHIP? PLEASE TELL ME YOUR SECRET. HOW DO YOU DELETE THE DESIRE FOR WANTING A RELATIONSHIP COMPLETELY?

My other account has already been banned, and I recently received a warning on this account (I commented something related to physical harm) . I really don't want to lose this account?

So what I'm asking is what should one not do?

So I was talking to this girl online from December of last year and we had some flirty texts here and there but mostly it was related to studies like we were study buddies. But she ghosted me in March and I've not talked to her since. Also at the time she ghosted me I only sent her some normal messages related to how her preparation was going. She blocked me on telegram, but I'm still "unblocked" on whatsapp because I can see her profile picture. What should I do? There wasn't really any argument at the end. It's like she ghosted without any reason pls help me

Like we had pretty bad arguments before this but she always came back so I never expected ghosting from her

Title. I scored 92% ile this year 🥀🥀

We the real chads boys 😤😤

(And girls please dm us) 💀😂 jk jk

Just need someone to talk to.

Aur ha bhai mai ladki nahi hu 🙏

The most annoying thing I see aspirants doing is constantly victimizing themselves and constant rr about NTA, competition, cutoffs etc etc. Like as if you crying about it is going to change anything?

But I'm not going to only blame them. Let's see why people actually do this. Kyuki bhai jab 10th mai acche marks aarahe the tab toh tu nhi krra tha na ye sab? Toh ab kyu? I feel that the average jee aspirant always has a main character syndrome (especially 11th students). They start having this arrogance that I can change the world and shit. Which is not necessarily a bad thing but you're just another 16 year old preparing for an exam that lakhs and lakhs of people give every year so the probability that your opinion will change anything is well..basically zero. And let me know about this guys but I feel that the competitive exam questions themselves make you feel smarter than you are? Have you guys ever felt this?

Got 92 percentile. Main mistake was that I never really practiced tough questions. Always avoided them. Also I had health issue in the last 6-7 months, very bad headache, literally couldn't study, so I feel that my potential wasn't fully used. I know people will say it's an excuse but I really couldn't even I don't like to use health issue as a reason because I've always been a good student and pushed through anything that happened.

I am eligible for jee advanced (due to ews) but I am not giving it because no prep.

Parents are saying to focus on CET and get a good college through it and not take a drop