u/ImportanceWorking244

currently 19 with a 70/30% FXAIX/QQQM split, but I’ve noticed the overlap so right now I’m thinking,
FXAIX/FZILX 60/40%?

I’m a avoidant personality type. I can socialize but for some reason I just hate talking. I don’t think I’m an introvert because I get energy from talking to people but for some reason I always isolate myself. I’m not shy as I always push through with what I want to say/do or else I feel like a btch and a loser and I can comfortably public speak.

I currently work at the post office as a non career. I’m doing two college courses online as a student rn for the summer but I haven’t received my FAFSA yet as my hs still haven’t sent out my transcripts despite the 100% refund date passing.

Looking back I realize how shi my high school years were, as I was living them I feel like it was great but that was because my middle school years were terrible so in comparison It was alright to me then. Missed out on prom but I didn’t really care for it. It’s me missing out on gradbash that screws me up. I badly wanted to go but the people I were cool with didn’t participate in anything and it was already too late to make new friends as groups were already long established and I didn’t want to be that one guy who kind of forced himself to be in a group, especially when I lowkey pushed everyone away as I didn’t really care about the whole socialization thing unless it was done on my own terms. Lowkey wished I had put myself out there more but I was always told that you wouldn’t see 99% of the people you talk to/see in hs so I never saw the point in being in big groups, I was constantly invited to thing and most of my peers were cool with me and chill but I just didn’t care on interacting wit them. When I did it was fun and we would laugh but idk.

I’m 19, still a virgin, can’t get a gf as my only option now is to meet thru my 2 friends but they don’t talk to anyone like that, and I don’t go to in person school so I can’t do it on my own terms.

I’m 5’7 so dating apps are a no for me. Only hope I have is to do casual stuff at parties and or cruises but idk.

I’m planning on buying a used Honda to go places but something is telling me that that going to clubs and restaurants and parks by myself isn’t going to work well, especially since I live in a city where unless you knew the person since you were in your dads ballsack good luck even trying to hold a conversation with them.

What advice would you give someone like me?

I keep hearing my mom's friends refer to my grandma as this

"ma-gou-yez"

I don't know if I spelled that right, but what does that mean? Can I get a direct translation?

I want to send money home, but I don't want it to be paper, so people don't try to take my mother out of her rightful money.

Also, can anyone walk me through their first time experience sending money online to Sogebank? I want to know about informations like does the app give you a number similar to how when you do it through westernunion the agent usually circle a number and tells you to send a picture to the person in haiti or? would my mother be limited in how much money she would be able to take out or would she be able to take out all the money sent in one day? is it better to do it through a bank or to just do cashpickup?

Tryna see something 👀

What shop did yall go to and how’s the tattooing process like? Did you regret it? Did you walk in the store with an idea and the artist took the driver seat afterwards or did you have to know everything?

I’m black (sort of redish/brown skin so I don’t what just anyone playing with my skin)

Is there any uncommon things I should know before tattooing? I want a forearm tattoo and one on my head near the pinky

Trying to see how much I need at a minimum so I can fix my teeth.