u/Incongnito_5

Hey guys 👋🏾 male 21 (straight/softboy/ maybe feminine male??) I’ve been questioning myself for a while in terms of my sexuality and what I like in a relationship. So I find only women attractive ( nothing wrong if you don’t) however, I do find masc women attractive and I become a lot more feminine and enjoy being feminine when it comes to dating masc women. With non masc women I still enjoy being soft/submissive but probably not as feminine as I would be. Maybe I’m an effeminate male not sure, sometimes I’m a bit embarrassed especially as a blk male society forces me to fit into a certain stereotype. Are there women who would date a man like me ? What would you say my sexuality is ?

Just wanted to see what anyone’s thoughts would be as this is the only space where I feel I can express myself.

Hey guys 👋🏾 blk male 21 (straight/softboy/ maybe feminine male??) I’ve been questioning myself for a while in terms of my sexuality and what I like in a relationship. So I find only women attractive ( nothing wrong if you don’t) however, I do find masc women attractive and I become a lot more feminine and enjoy being feminine when it comes to dating masc women. With non masc women I still enjoy being soft/submissive but probably not as feminine as I would be. Maybe I’m an effeminate male not sure, sometimes I’m a bit embarrassed especially as a blk male society forces us to fit into a certain stereotype. Are there blk women who would date a man like me ? What would you say my sexuality is ?

Just wanted to see what anyone’s thoughts would be as this is the only space where I feel I can express myself.

Hi guys 21 blk male straight (softboy/submissive m) I’ve got a question for bi-masc/bi-women in general why do someone of you feel embarrassed about being attracted to men? I get that maybe it might be due to bad experiences which is understandable. However, I feel like it’s the hate and pressure you receive for example I saw a video on TikTok where a lesbian women was insulting women for finding men attractive she also talked about bi-masc women looking “fruity” and questioning why they would be in a relationship with a man which I think is rude. I think a lot of bi women get pressured by other women to not like men due to their own experiences which I think is sad, you might not have the best experience with men but who said someone else won’t have a better experience. Also I think some women who have that sort of mentality can be quiet small minded for example not all men are your typical stereotype for example im definitely a lot more feminine than I am masculine 😂 not everyone will fit the traditional stereotypes. Also I’ve realised that my taste in women is very different to a lot of men in general I do tend to find many different ranges of women attractive I just love Women but in many different forms. And I’m sure there are many men out there who’d agree with me.

I’d like to hear from your perspective

Also don’t feel pressure or embarrassed it’s totally fine as long as you find someone who loves you and appreciate you that’s all that matters ❤️

Hi guys softboy/submissive man this is a question for my masc/dominant women what do you like your men to look like. Do you like your men extremely feminine/ fem presenting or would you be open to someone who isn’t feminine presenting but their mannerisms are feminine. I was just wondering how can I attractive more masculine/dom women I’m not very fem presenting however, I do enjoy being submissive and soft and when I see a masc/dominant women I find attractive I begin to melt inside. 😩🤣

What do you think , what do you prefer ?