u/Independent-Knee958

Ex being difficult re getting name of house title

Hi friends, and please be nice. I am a nice person.

So in a nutshell, my abusive narcissistic ex is being extra hard to communicate with, even though they have agreed to their name being off the title.

Basically, they’re making it extremely hard for me. Eg won’t provide ID to get the ball rolling, and is making me do all the heavy leg work with the documentation.

Finally, they work in the other side of the city & uses that to get out of talking to me. It is frustrating.

Has anyone been through this and can help me navigate this situation? Not expecting any sympathy. Just looking for answers. In particular, I’d like to know how much this is going to cost, as I’m obviously having to pay for it all and it is not cheap. Ex is not bothering with a lawyer. Thanks in advance.

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u/Independent-Knee958 — 3 days ago

Mum boobs!

What are you ladies doing to tighten up your boobs after stopping bf?? I am suffering anxiety atm due to the changes after feeding two babies now. Lol. I love my kids to bits, and I am grateful for the opportunity to have nourished them but yeah shit’s hard. What cream are we using to at least make them firmer? TIA.

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u/Independent-Knee958 — 4 days ago

So how was your day? 😊

And what are some interesting things that you’ve seen or heard this week thus far? For me it was catching two students pushing a sandwich down a lab sink whilst guzzling soft drink during a health lesson. Then being called “babe” by the mother when I called home (who has only met me once, in interview attire).

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u/Independent-Knee958 — 5 days ago

When does it stop hurting?

Please be kind, because I am already dying, but he’s blocked me on Facebook which has kind of helped. I suppose he did me a favour. But I’ve got to move on.

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u/Independent-Knee958 — 6 days ago

My 15MO wakes multiple times a night and I’m losing my mind

Please be kind, as I’m already super tired. So as per the title, bub starts off okay and in his own bed, but will wake, not kidding you, an hour or two later. Then continue to wake every hour, even when co-sleeping (as he screams blue murder if I try to put him back in his own bed again). I work now & am at my wits end.

Extra info for some context: he’s teething and yes I give him the appropriate doses of Dymadon and baby Nurofen at different times of the night. His bed is comfortable, nice and warm. He’s a bit of a mummy’s boy and likes me holding him the majority of the time when I am not working. Whines when I put him down.

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u/Independent-Knee958 — 7 days ago

I hate it. I wish I was asexual. 42F and YES I AM CELIBATE but not by choice (had to leave a toxic r’ship with kids). How do I not think about sex 24/7??

I’m doing all the right things by not talking to any males, even ones that hit on me. So as to lie to society that I’m one of those proper ladies lol. 😅

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u/Independent-Knee958 — 21 days ago

Please send help 🙏 I left a DV a few months ago, with a 3.5YO and 15MO. I am currently struggling to get them to sleep in their shared room! ATM they are sharing a bed with me - I work 3 days a week because I have to right now, and I am getting next to no sleep. Both cry when I put them to sleep in their room. TIA.

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u/Independent-Knee958 — 24 days ago