u/Individual-Day-8877

I lost my dad 3yr ago, and my siblings calls me dada all the time. Sometimes I feel bad about it because it puts me under lots of responsibility and pressure. Recently one of my friend pointed it out by calling that if Im also acting husband to my mom? When I asked her why she said that? She mentioned many things and felt so. Before that i have read few forums online that sometimes elder child often gets into role of parent, and it is true. Now it is bothering me a lot.

Im 20 and my dad passed away. I used to live away from home ( Canada) and Im only child. So I brought my mom to Canada after dad left us. We both shared great bond like bestfriends but since dad left she is completely different person. She acts so emotionally immature & act like child. We also have constant arguments. Sometimes she gets mood swings also. It is taking mentally toll. Not sure how to handle this.

Im 20 and my dad passed away. I used to live away from home and Im only child. So I brought my mom to Canada after dad left us. We both shared great bond like bestfriends but since dad left she is completely different person. She acts so emotionally immature & act like child. We also have constant arguments. Sometimes she gets mood swings also. It is taking mentally toll. Not sure how to handle this.

My dad passed away and 1 month later, my mom found herself pregnant. She is due in 8 weeks. It is emotional phase for her and for me as well. I have been supporting her in every way I can but she is also manipulating me emotionally and indirectly tries to put responsibility on me to take care of her and my upcoming sibling. It bothers me a lot. She was depressed and wanted to change city, I agreed. I have no friends here and sometimes i also feel mentally exhausted to be with her all the time. Sometimes i feel angry towards my own mom and it makes me feel so guilty.

My dad passed away and 1 month later, my mom found herself pregnant. She is due in 8 weeks. It is emotional phase for her and for me as well. I have been supporting her in every way I can but she is also manipulating me emotionally and indirectly tries to put responsibility on me to take care of her and my upcoming sibling. It bothers me a lot. She was depressed and wanted to change city, I agreed. I have no friends here and sometimes i also feel mentally exhausted to be with her all the time. Sometimes i feel angry towards my own mom and it makes me feel so guilty.