Things are moving really fast
I just got out of a marriage that I'm slowly realizing was probably worse than I thought. My self-esteem was pretty low, because my partner would routinely make passive aggressive comments about my aging looks (I'm in my 40s), my weight, hair, etc. I'm now alone, and decided to join hinge mostly just for some human interaction.
So I was frankly shocked (and skeptical) when I matched fairly quickly with a really beautiful woman, who's also smart (and in higher tax bracket) I decided to skip the endless messaging and proposed meeting for drinks. We hit it off great. We went on a second date and we ended up sleeping together (which was also great?)
But now my head is kinda spinning, because I have no idea quite how I got here? She's telling me that I'm attractive, and a little voice is back there saying "there's a catch! This is too good!"
I know I'm lucky to have this "problem" but I just can't quite wrap my head around all this.