Has anyone else unblocked their ex and felt nothing? Like you’ve moved on and think it’s time to unblock. I did it and looked at their profiles and felt nothing positive or negative. Time really will do the work for you. It’s like now she’s just a random person on social media that I’m not friends with and that’s all she is. Anyone else?
When you start seeing someone that also used to date a narcissist and you can talk about things that bother you and boundaries. It’s so refreshing. I’m not sure if anything will come of it but it’s so nice to talk to someone that has been through the same things as you.
Don’t believe the coaches that tell you no contact works. It’s been 2 months and she never reached out to talk. Come to find out she started seeing a guy within days and they’re now in love. I know that’s monkey branching and what narcissistic people do. It just hurts! I broke up because of the way she was treating me then tried to go back and she said “it’s been 5 days! If you had reached out within one or two but I’ve adjusted to being single” and then shut down all communication. Now two months later she’s in a serious relationship and I’m still in pain. I’ve blocked everywhere and honestly hope I never talk to her again. How do I take this and completely detach and move on after thinking oh maybe she’s going to come back. Please help!
Does anyone hate their ex so much that you hope you never talk or see them again? Like moving on as fast as she did makes me not even want to see her in heaven one day. I know those feelings will fade but I’ve never hated someone more in my life. Then what does that say about me?
She started seeing a guy within days after we broke up. What a piece of shit that claimed she loved me but moved on so quick. I hope I never see you or speak to you again MR! I wish I never responded to your text last summer.
Is it a good idea to block your narcissist/avoidant ex after two months of no contact? She’s only reached out a few times but it was always about telling me to stop reaching out and never about us. I’ve learned so many negative things the last few weeks that has helped me move on and that she’s a terrible person. Even after everything I still want her for some reason and I feel like blocking everywhere is now the only way to move on for good and stop thinking she might come back after no contact. What’s everyone’s thoughts on this?
I feel like if she ever does want to break no contact and reach out then a woman like her will find a way.
Btw it’s wild to step back and take your blinders off to see just how shitty of a person she was and how bad she treated me. She pushed me far enough and I ended it. A few days later I tried to talk about the breakup she went cold and refused to talk. I’ve broke no contact for a couple times the last few weeks and she responded in a nice way but the responses were just polite with no indication to continue the convo.
Sorry it’s long but wanted to give details