u/Jealous-Implement-51

Im a man in my early 30s, single, and Ive been struggling when it comes to relationships.

The pattern I keep noticing is that whenever I start getting close to someone, they seem to need a lot of attention through texting or being on the phone every day. I understand communication is important, but I’m honestly not someone who likes being on my phone all the time.

I enjoy my own time. I like reading books, doing my own things, and having quiet moments without constantly checking my phone. But if we’re physically together, im happy to spend time with my partner. I dont mind them joining me in whatever im doing. It’s just the constant texting/calling part that feels difficult for me.

Sometimes I wonder is this just how relationships work now? Do most people expect their partner to be available on the phone every day? Or am I just meeting people who have a different communication style than me?

I don think I dont care about my partner. I just show affection differently. I prefer quality time together rather than being connected through a screen all day.

Has anyone else experienced this? Is it about finding someone who matches your personality, or is this something I need to work on if I want a relationship?

I work in banking services, and recently came across a credit card application where the applicant's EPF contribution was around RM3.5k per month. That amount alone is already close to my net salary.

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Genuinely curious, how are these people in their late 20s working in to reach this level of income? Is this common or am I just seeing the higher earners?

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Not trying to compare, just curious how people's career progression looks like.

I work in banking services, and recently came across a credit card application where the applicant’s EPF contribution was around RM3.5k per month. That amount alone is already close to my net salary.

Genuinely curious, how are these people in their late 20s working in to reach this level of income? Is this common or am I just seeing the higher earners?

Not trying to compare, just curious how people’s career progression looks like.

EDIT: Title mess up. Should be "How are..."

My company has been pushing agentic coding quite heavily lately. More and more work is being done by AI agents and developers are moving towards reviewing, prompting and steering rather than writing the code directly.

I'm curious how common this is in the .NET community right now. Are many teams already working this way, or is it still mostly limited to certain companies?

One thing I'm struggling with is whether I need to fully embrace this to stay relevent as a developer. I genuinely enjoy coding and solving problems myself. The dopamine from finally figuring something out, fixing a bug, or building a feature is a big part of why I got into software engineering in the first place.

With agentic coding, sometimes it feels like asking someone else to play a game and clear the level for you. Sure, the level gets completed, but you miss the experience of actually playing it. Thats the part I'm finding hard to adjust to.

For those of you already using agentic coding day to day:

• Do you still spend a meaningful amount of time coding yourself?
• Do you think this is the future of software development?
• Are we heading towards developers becoming mainly reviewers and decision makers?
• Or do you think there will always be a place for engineers who enjoy writing code directly?

Interested to hear how other .NET developers are seeing this trend.

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Edit: Origin - Kuching Destination - KL

As the title says. I need to tv to a new location by myself(not through any services). The original box was damaged, so I need to find a new one.

Anyone knows where can I get a new one? Or even the packaging services that offer the same thing as well.

Thanks in advance.

Edit: Not looking for a device, looking for a cupboard box to pack a tv.

So, like the title says, I'm heading to Thailand next week, and I heard people there aren't too keen on big bills from tourists. I've been trying to find a currency exchange that has smaller notes than 1k, but everywhere I go, they only have 1k notes.

Anyone know a spot that has smaller bills? Thanks for the help!