



I take on pet sitting as a sort of casual thing as I work freelance myself! Sometimes there are lulls in my projects so I’ve been very grateful to the platform for the side opportunities.
As a caveat, I usually do not take such last minute bookings but I’ve cat sat for these people before for a period of 1O days. They contacted me Tuesday morning asking for a cat sitter over the weekend as they forgot they are going to their sisters wedding and left it super last minute.
I agreed since it’s only a few days over the weekend and we only live about 20 minutes walk away from each other.
Since it was so last minute my week has been packed as work has been scheduled for weeks, this morning I message the couple to ask how abouts to get the keys to their flat as the catsit starts tomorrow.
The husband messages back that he will be on the high street later in the afternoon, we live on either ends of this high street and he said he can drop off the key to me.
I’m on set all day today working and won’t be back till around 9 or 10 pm, so I said to him that he could just pop the keys in my letterbox since I live in the whole house, it’s perfectly safe to do so and many of my other cat clients have done the same for me.
The husband then messages back with “in that case come and pick them up tonight” and the wife then adds “anytime before 10”.
Normally I don’t get offended or peeved so easily, I know people have their ways/quirks/worries but I just felt like “duuuuuude- you can’t meet me half way???” Like I know you’re paying me and what not but come on, you sit at home selling crypto all day, can’t help me out a little?
I’m on break at the moment and it looks like we might run over … so I might be a little later tonight and I’m so anxious to message them 😭
Edit/ just to add
Got off work on timeish and went straight to their flat to pick up keys.
Guy was on his way out for a run in the park which he has to go past my house to access.
Didn’t want it at first … then seeing all the pics wish I had ordered it.
But hey… I have this bag. It’s kinda the same no? 🤣
What is going on at Baggu?
Anyway… they did finally reply but at least now they are offering options to have orders shipped again but in September 😭
Why is Strutton so rotund and cute?! I love him~~
Found a shirt I’ve been wanting for a while.
Item doesn’t pop up that often, this brands sizing is wildly different from item to item.
I guess even the seller acknowledges this because they put in the description to ask for measurements first.
I ask… they ignore.
I leave it but come back to the item after a while ask again… still no answer ?!
Why are people like this? A lot of people get so much flack on here asking why sellers are so flakey.
But if you’re actively listing things I think you’re making a sort of commitment to offer a sort of service.
I totally get that people have lives (as do those who are buying) we’re not expecting big corporation style service with next day delivery and things wrapped in paper and bows. Just a little common courtesy.
When they turfed Trafalgar Square?!
I was thinking about it the other day and my friends think I made it up but I found a Polaroid I took of it today!
I think it was around 2006/2007 or 2008.
Had a bunch of cute paper scraps left over from my bookbinding endeavours.
With a little fast drying book binding glue, used them to cover my passport sizes notebooks!
I love the traveler’s notebooks, find them so handy but more and more I never even use the leather cover anymore haha
Just shove one in the plastic sleeve and throw it in my bag. Also because I’m quite minimalist and don’t like carrying too much stuff, so always trying to find ways to make things as compact, simple or light as possible 🤪
So I’m across the pond in the UK! It’s not so easy for us over here haha
Luckily I managed to get this bag brand new with tags off of my neighbour! She brought it originally for her granddaughter who said she hated it lol
I feed her cat when she goes on trips. One time she had a pile of stuff she was going to donate to the local charity shops in her hallway, she said I was welcome to help myself to anything from the piles and I found the bag!!! The bag of my dreams 🥲 (and some good books too)
I offered to pay her but she refused!
So that’s how I procured the Sandy Liang crescent bag!
I love love love this plaid print in this colour way. It’s such a good way to just give that pop of colour to outfits. Also when I was traveling earlier in the year, wore it in Hong Kong - I got a lot of compliments from aunties and uncles in the market haha.
Felt undecided about the new pink though… even though I love pink, I’m not sure why it just didn’t appeal.
Maybe it’s the shade. I prefer the blue but at the same time also not sure about the shade of blue?! Haha
Love the plaid print but the new colours are not really for me… so my wallet was safe this time around 🤣
So took the bag out for my errands today.
Firstly I chucked all my dry cleaning in it and hauled it to the cleaners.
Bag is so roomy! 2 raincoats, 2 jumpers and a dress - no problem.
It folds down well, small enough to shove into my crescent baggu, then I skipped off to meet my friend for a coffee and do a little shopping.
Aha! Found a cushion that my cat would like… spotted some jelly shoes that my mother was after.
So you know when you didn’t plan to buy anything but end up picking up bits here and bits there and actually turns out to be a lot?
This bag is perfect because it’s huge and then you aren’t carrying loads of individual bags.
No bag lady look here! Just one large bag!! So much so I even chucked my crescent bag in there.
Also so.many.people complimented the bag and asked where I got it from! People really love the look!
It’s actually not that crinkly and less noisy than I thought. Straps are comfortable, long ones for shoulder and short ones for hand carry. Both are great, nice to have the options. Also seems to hold its shape well!
Potentially it could be a bit huge on those who are vertically challenged, eg/ I’m about 5”1 and it does look very large. (Photo included last slide when I was waiting for my friend on the hunt for a whimsy beaded bag in tk maxx).
If you’re anything like me and hate carrying lots of things, this is a great carry-all.
If we’re being honest an ikea bag does the same job but is not as cute.
So personally worth the price just for the cute and the compliments.
They have such cute miffy things at the moment.
Was really really contemplating that water bottle but I have so many?! Do I need another one just because it’s miffy?! lol still thinking I should go back for it since it’s such a unique hexagon shape.
Price is not outrageous either - £13.80
Going to put a few signs on my road tomorrow because I found someone’s baggu pouch !
I know I’d be so sad if I lost mine… also we’re in the UK where they don’t send replacements.
Hope I can reunite it with its person~~
Edit- found in NW London (if you lurk here slide into my messages)
In the middle of a spring clean and didn’t realise I had so many.
My favourite was the berry sticker which was on a laptop that was stolen 🥲 kicking myself that I stuck it on my laptop haha
Happy to trade the ones I have duplicates of if there are ones you are interested in?
Let me know! I’m in the UK!
I just love clear plastic stuff, caved and got the errands bag haha.
It’s crinkly but less than I thought?!
So I think with time as the plastic softens up with use (like ikea bags) I think it’ll be okay!
Not sure I’m allowed to to post this here, if not sorry 🙇🏻♀️
My aunt sent me a photo of this bag (apologies for the bad quality haha… it looks like she took the photo on a potato… she is quite old)
She *thinks* (can’t remember because she brought a lot of bags in the 80’s and 90’s) it was purchased maybe 30 or 40 years ago, anyone know anything about this bag? Or know roughly how much they are selling for on the second hand market?
It hasn’t been used much, she said probably a handful of times… maybe even less, in almost new condition!
I’m also super bad at research, so I turn to you all!
Thanks so much in advances :)
She decided to go digging in the soil, so had to put her in the bath to rinse her paws lol~
She deep sighs like a diva when she’s not into it haha
Sorry if this is a bit long but I just need to vent a little too.
I was friends with this person for maybe more than 15 years. We called each other best friends, we chatted everyday, travelled together a few times too.
I have spent most of my life just worrying about her, thinking of her because she’s very… let’s say drama prone? Like if it’s not guy problems, it’s friends… work … family and actually I spent a lot of my time supporting her, advising her best I could as a friend.
I know I’m a bit more introverted and don’t tend to open up easily about my own problems (a totally me thing!!) but as the years went on, our roles in the friendship was just me being agony aunt all the time and I didn’t feel like I had the space with her to share my feelings because she is the focus.
Anyway, jump forward to a few years ago.
My grandma passed away and at the time she was going through some family and relationship problem.
Without going into too much detail - she was involved with a married guy and she was arguing with her family because they didn’t approve. Pretty big things happening in both our lives.
But I was still trying my best to be supportive even though I didn’t think morally what she was doing was right. I tried to advise her before it all blew up but of course love is love! She said she found her soulmate.
I just remember even though staying up late at night making funeral arrangements still looking at all her messages and trying to console her.
Shortly after this I experienced burn out, sort of living life on autopilot . If anyone asked me if I was okay, I would say of course! Because I honestly thought I was fine. Everything that year became sort of a blur, I had some pretty heavy brain fog too, like now I think back I don’t even really remember what I was doing at work or if i did anything fun or significant.
As me and this friend do not live in the same country, we relied heavily on emails and messages.
I started to not reply, give really vague answers and eventually I stopped replying at all.
I was so exhausted. I know it’s really awful to ghost people and not give an explanation But I was so spent I literally had nothing to say. I couldn’t really explain what was going on because I just felt pretty numb. Couldn’t explain so didn’t say anything.
It wasn’t until one evening I was walking home and I had like a really morbid thought, “like what if I jumped off this bridge” despite it being a glorious summer day and I had just had some drinks with friends. I came to a realisation that maybe I needed some help and that I hadn’t been feeling completely myself for sometime.
I sought help after that, got into therapy, had my meds adjusted, started working out! Lost a lot of weight and started to return to my baseline.
Yesterday this friend sent me some very long messages telling me I was immature and a terrible friend because now she knows I didn’t value our friendship like she did.
She ended the message telling me she deserved better.
I sort of get that it was horrible of me to just cut her off. But I also don’t really regret it because in the last two years i’ve managed to make so much progress on myself and my mental health. I just really needed the space and not have to explain.
My friends who are around me gave me so much grace and time to let me be. I’m so grateful and no one ever forced me to explain myself which I really appreciated.
Now with this friend, she’s a lot more dramatic.
Like she always sent me really long intense emails whenever something happened in her life.
Just like the messages she sent me last night, long and intense.
I know I’m in the wrong for disappearing for a while without explanation and I do feel slightly guilty, she does deserve better so maybe I just let the friendship go completely and there’s no need to explain.
Should I just explain anyway?