u/Just-War7270

▲ 38 r/Advice

My (18m) GFs (19f) parents keep asking me about my sex life

Hi all, my gf and I have been dating for 5 months now, it’s been great! I met her parents about a month ago, and they asked to speak to me privately and I said okay. They pulled me to the living room and flat out asked me
“how many times have you had sex before?” I lied and said “never” because that’s not really their business.

But almost every time I’ve gone over since either her mom or dad will pull me to the side and ask something weird like “have you ever shaved down there?” “Have you made out with my daughter?” And it’s just makes me feel weird but I don’t want to say anything to them because I don’t want them mad at me so I just laugh it off and pretend it doesn’t happen. My gf thinks it’s weird too but is too uncomfortable to say anything which I can’t really be mad at lol I’m too uncomfortable as well.

Her mom asked me last night “when is the last time you masturbated?” And that was kind of my last straw. I got up and said “it’s really none of your business seeing that is very personal please stop” she got bright red and starting crying and ran to her room.

I dont know how to act or be now IF i go back. We may just be hanging out at my house now. How do we move on from here?

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u/Just-War7270 — 3 days ago

I (19m) have been seeing an older woman for 3 months and no one knows

Hi, for the last 3 months me and ‘K’ have been dating, she’s 27. She’s amazing. She takes care of me, makes me feel loved. Honestly probably has something to do with my mommy issues but I don’t care. She’s kind, she’s funny, she’s pretty. We have so much fun together. I want the world to know but I know it would be frowned upon. I sleep at her apartment most days, she lets me sleep in and stay while she’s at work.

I work from my computer as a freelance graphic designer so I stay curled up in her bed, and I love it. She takes me out all the time, she’s just perfect. We talked for about a month before we started dating and I’m so so happy. I want to tell my friends and family soon but I’m scared they won’t approve so I’m telling strangers instead

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u/Just-War7270 — 4 days ago
▲ 157 r/sex

My (19M) GF (25F) is asexual, and my therapist made me feel bad about it.

Hi all, my GF and I have been dating for about 6 months now and when we first started dating she told me she was asexual and gets nothing out of sex, she just finds it amusing but if she’s in the mood to help me out she’s okay having sex she just doesn’t feel anything. So we do have sex and it’s fun and I said something in a passing comment to my therapist and they questioned it and said I should stop because I’m clearly pushing her to have sex. Now I feel guilty. What should I do?

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u/Just-War7270 — 9 days ago

19M looking for hard of hearing friends!

Hi all I’m Ethan and I’m 19, I’ve been hard of hearing my whole life and I’ve been wearing HAs since I was 4! I love music, graphic design, reading, pretty much anything lol. Don’t have many friends… anyone?

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u/Just-War7270 — 10 days ago
▲ 156 r/whatdoIdo

I (19m) accidentally exposed myself in front of my GFs (27f) neighbor

Today, I woke up around 4:30AM from my GF waking me up to tell me she was going to work but I could stay at her place as long as I wanted. So I went back to sleep. I woke up again around 8:30AM. I got up and stretched while standing on her bed for some reason. Right behind her had is a floor to ceiling window with its curtains wide open, and if you look at the apartment complex from above it looks like an E so this window faced right into a neighboring apartment, and I happen to sleep naked. So I was stretching, naked, and a poor older lady saw…

My GF received a message from the apartments HOA informing her there would be fine and that her window will be monitored closely for any “bad behavior”. I didn’t realize that the windows faced each other like that and I was just stretching. I jumped down off the bed and put my clothes on and left. My GF is kind of upset with me but not too mad because I simply did not know and I mean I was in the comfort of her apartment. She’s nervous to go home in case the lady is waiting for her or the apartment manager.

What do I do to recover from this? Do I apologize to the neighbor? Go explain to the apartment manager? What do I do to make this up to my GF?

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u/Just-War7270 — 11 days ago