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I have very high FE as ENFJ.

I can't control it sometimes. Every time I see someone in need. I hear a nagging old man who's also me scolding me to help.

And I'm addicted to listen and read about people's problems. So technically I'm self sabotaging my happiness.

HELP. I NEED TO STOP. IT HAVE TO STOP MEME INSERTED.

How do I feel happy without self position my self in a position where I can provide help.

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u/KalerReddit — 2 days ago

Labuan hangout.

Anyone from here wanna hangout this weekend. I got no plans and really need to socialise. I'm very extroverted. Preferably movies or beach or just chill. Guy or girl. Don't care. I'm a guy.

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u/KalerReddit — 2 days ago

30 [M4F] #Malaysia, local or long-distance relationship and eventually IRL

Hi everyone. I'm a nerd + geek. Yes. I'm a tech fanatic.

I play allot of games. Even join tournaments before.

I love marvel movies tho. Don't really like DC.

On the weekends I jog for a little exercise.

I'm also into writing poetry. So if you want romantic cheesy poetry every morning. You know who to latch with.

Honestly. I'm just looking for my player 2 to play coop games. Or Minecraft or whatever coop games. And purpose in life. For better healthy mind.

About me.

184 cm. Glasses. Blood type 0. Chicken lover. Cat lover. Pc user. Nerd + geek.

About you.

Just be you. Don't need to pretend. If we like each others. Why not start a relationship and eventually can meet up.

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u/KalerReddit — 8 days ago

30 [M4F] ENFJ - Malaysia/SEA or South Asia - cat fanatic, Tech & nature lover looking for a life partner to cook, travel, and share life with.

Hello everyone! Writing these intros isn't exactly my forte (I even tried using AI, but it felt too robotic), so I'm just going to speak from the heart.

I’m a 30-year-old, 184 cm tall ENFJ guy looking for my partner in life—preferably someone who is also an extrovert so we can match each other's energy!

About Me & My Hobbies:

*Tech & Geek Stuff:

I'm definitely a tech enthusiast and a bit of a geek. I love keeping up with technology, gadgets, and new innovations.

*Music:

I love rock and classic alternative rock. You'll usually find me listening to bands like Coldplay, Paramore, Nickelback, and My Chemical Romance.

*Cooking or baking:

I love to cook, and my absolute favorite thing to make is a homemade chicken burger—there are just so many ways to perfect it! If you enjoy baking, we could team up and make the buns together.

*Creative Outlets:

I enjoy drawing (I sketch house plans just for fun), reading, and writing—especially romantic acrostic poetry. It’s how I express my inner world and share it with others.

*On the Screen:

My movie tastes span across action, romance, and horror (I'm a massive fan of The Conjuring).

*Career:

I work in the forestry section of the government. My job takes me out into the woods constantly, and I absolutely love nature and being surrounded by green.

*Down Time:

I love playing co-op games like Minecraft for fun when I want to unwind, relax, and just be myself.

Dreams & Perspectives:

I love learning about different cultures and understanding what makes them unique. I recently traveled to Japan and was fascinated (and a bit confused!) by how cash-dominated it still is, especially coming from a country where seamless QR wallet scans work everywhere. My next dream travel destinations on my bucket list are South Korea and anywhere in Europe!

Ultimately, my goal is to travel the world and help people. If I ever strike it rich, I want to fund a program that gives out free food every day—because absolutely nobody should have to go hungry.

My Approach to Dating:

I really value the experience of going out, having fun together, and building a shared history. For me, dating is all about creating lasting memories and genuinely getting to know each other through those shared adventures.

What I'm Looking For:

A meaningful, deep connection with a genuine woman. Distance-wise, I’m preferably looking for someone who isn't too far from Malaysia.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to hit me up! I'd love to get to know you and see if we click.

P.S Max range I would go is 3 hours away aka india.

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u/KalerReddit — 11 days ago

30 [M4F] ENFJ - Malaysia/SEA or South Asia - cat fanatic, Tech & nature lover looking for a life partner to cook, travel, and share life with

Hello everyone! Writing these intros isn't exactly my forte (I even tried using AI, but it felt too robotic), so I'm just going to speak from the heart.

I’m a 30-year-old, 184 cm tall ENFJ guy looking for my partner in life—preferably someone who is also an extrovert so we can match each other's energy!

About Me & My Hobbies:

*Tech & Geek Stuff:

I'm definitely a tech enthusiast and a bit of a geek. I love keeping up with technology, gadgets, and new innovations.

*Music:

I love rock and classic alternative rock. You'll usually find me listening to bands like Coldplay, Paramore, Nickelback, and My Chemical Romance.

*Cooking or baking:

I love to cook, and my absolute favorite thing to make is a homemade chicken burger—there are just so many ways to perfect it! If you enjoy baking, we could team up and make the buns together.

*Creative Outlets:

I enjoy drawing (I sketch house plans just for fun), reading, and writing—especially romantic acrostic poetry. It’s how I express my inner world and share it with others.

*On the Screen:

My movie tastes span across action, romance, and horror (I'm a massive fan of The Conjuring).

*Career:

I work in the forestry section of the government. My job takes me out into the woods constantly, and I absolutely love nature and being surrounded by green.

*Down Time:

I love playing co-op games like Minecraft for fun when I want to unwind, relax, and just be myself.

Dreams & Perspectives:

I love learning about different cultures and understanding what makes them unique. I recently traveled to Japan and was fascinated (and a bit confused!) by how cash-dominated it still is, especially coming from a country where seamless QR wallet scans work everywhere. My next dream travel destinations on my bucket list are South Korea and anywhere in Europe!

Ultimately, my goal is to travel the world and help people. If I ever strike it rich, I want to fund a program that gives out free food every day—because absolutely nobody should have to go hungry.

My Approach to Dating:

I really value the experience of going out, having fun together, and building a shared history. For me, dating is all about creating lasting memories and genuinely getting to know each other through those shared adventures.

What I'm Looking For:

A meaningful, deep connection with a genuine woman. Distance-wise, I’m preferably looking for someone who isn't too far from Malaysia.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to hit me up! I'd love to get to know you and see if we click.

P.S Max range I would go is 3 hours away aka india.

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u/KalerReddit — 11 days ago

30 [M4F] ENFJ - Malaysia/SEA - Tech & nature lover looking for a life partner to cook, travel, and share life with

Hello everyone! Writing these intros isn't exactly my forte (I even tried using AI, but it felt too robotic), so I'm just going to speak from the heart.

I’m a 30-year-old, 184 cm tall ENFJ guy looking for my partner in life—preferably someone who is also an extrovert so we can match each other's energy!

About Me & My Hobbies:

*Tech & Geek Stuff:

I'm definitely a tech enthusiast and a bit of a geek. I love keeping up with technology, gadgets, and new innovations.

*Music:

I love rock and classic alternative rock. You'll usually find me listening to bands like Coldplay, Paramore, Nickelback, and My Chemical Romance.

*Cooking or baking:

I love to cook, and my absolute favorite thing to make is a homemade chicken burger—there are just so many ways to perfect it! If you enjoy baking, we could team up and make the buns together.

*Creative Outlets:

I enjoy drawing (I sketch house plans just for fun), reading, and writing—especially romantic acrostic poetry. It’s how I express my inner world and share it with others.

*On the Screen:

My movie tastes span across action, romance, and horror (I'm a massive fan of The Conjuring).

*Career:

I work in the forestry section of the government. My job takes me out into the woods constantly, and I absolutely love nature and being surrounded by green.

*Down Time:

I love playing co-op games like Minecraft for fun when I want to unwind, relax, and just be myself.

Dreams & Perspectives:

I love learning about different cultures and understanding what makes them unique. I recently traveled to Japan and was fascinated (and a bit confused!) by how cash-dominated it still is, especially coming from a country where seamless QR wallet scans work everywhere. My next dream travel destinations on my bucket list are South Korea and anywhere in Europe!

Ultimately, my goal is to travel the world and help people. If I ever strike it rich, I want to fund a program that gives out free food every day—because absolutely nobody should have to go hungry.

My Approach to Dating:

I really value the experience of going out, having fun together, and building a shared history. For me, dating is all about creating lasting memories and genuinely getting to know each other through those shared adventures.

What I'm Looking For:

A meaningful, deep connection with a genuine woman. Distance-wise, I’m preferably looking for someone who isn't too far from Malaysia.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to hit me up! I'd love to get to know you and see if we click.

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u/KalerReddit — 17 days ago

30 [M4F] ENFJ - Malaysia/SEA - Tech & nature lover looking for a life partner to cook, travel, and share life with

Hello everyone! Writing these intros isn't exactly my forte (I even tried using AI, but it felt too robotic), so I'm just going to speak from the heart.

I’m a 30-year-old, 184 cm tall ENFJ guy looking for my partner in life—preferably someone who is also an extrovert so we can match each other's energy!

About Me & My Hobbies:

*Tech & Geek Stuff:

I'm definitely a tech enthusiast and a bit of a geek. I love keeping up with technology, gadgets, and new innovations.

*Music:

I love rock and classic alternative rock. You'll usually find me listening to bands like Coldplay, Paramore, Nickelback, and My Chemical Romance.

*Cooking or baking:

I love to cook, and my absolute favorite thing to make is a homemade chicken burger—there are just so many ways to perfect it! If you enjoy baking, we could team up and make the buns together.

*Creative Outlets:

I enjoy drawing (I sketch house plans just for fun), reading, and writing—especially romantic acrostic poetry. It’s how I express my inner world and share it with others.

*On the Screen:

My movie tastes span across action, romance, and horror (I'm a massive fan of The Conjuring).

*Career:

I work in the forestry section of the government. My job takes me out into the woods constantly, and I absolutely love nature and being surrounded by green.

*Down Time:

I love playing co-op games like Minecraft for fun when I want to unwind, relax, and just be myself.

Dreams & Perspectives:

I love learning about different cultures and understanding what makes them unique. I recently traveled to Japan and was fascinated (and a bit confused!) by how cash-dominated it still is, especially coming from a country where seamless QR wallet scans work everywhere. My next dream travel destinations on my bucket list are South Korea and anywhere in Europe!

Ultimately, my goal is to travel the world and help people. If I ever strike it rich, I want to fund a program that gives out free food every day—because absolutely nobody should have to go hungry.

My Approach to Dating:

I really value the experience of going out, having fun together, and building a shared history. For me, dating is all about creating lasting memories and genuinely getting to know each other through those shared adventures.

What I'm Looking For:

A meaningful, deep connection with a genuine woman. Distance-wise, I’m preferably looking for someone who isn't too far from Malaysia.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to hit me up! I'd love to get to know you and see if we click.

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u/KalerReddit — 17 days ago