Gave it a crack, I'll try again in a years time I reckon.
36 years old. 3 years on T. 1 year on oral minox. Might be useful for some to see what this awkward in-between stage looks like.
Can we all spam u/KalvinGarrah until he hands the sub over to a moderation team? In the last few days alone I've seen child predators as well as a person sharing other peoples private nudes on here.
This has to stop.
If you are a minor - please do not use this sub, it's not safe here. Go to r/transmantips or r/FtMpassing
You guys were right, these are sick - I'm really enjoying this look. I can't wait to start stretching them. 14g initial piercing, they bled like a mofo btw (still a bit crusty in the photo sorry). Going to order a kit of glass plugs for dead stretching eventually for after I'm fully healed.
Really appreciated your reassurance and feedback about whether it would make me clocky to other trans men.
Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/transmanlifehacks/s/f2JV8PczR5
Pretty keen on starting my lobe stretching journey. Not too worried about what cis people think, I don't think they pay as much attention to clockiness - I pass in my day to day life. But would you notice that I'm trans?
3 years on T
Hey stealth trans man here. Here's a couple tips you might want to try if you've already got the basics down (yes you need to get a normal haircut and take your piercings out).
Voice - curve your tone down at the end of your sentences, kind of as if the bloods draining from your face by the time your sentence is finished. a bit monotone and slow is good. Also try talking in a way that vibrates your chest instead of talking thru your nose. simple way to test this is to talk normally, and as your speaking pinch ur nose. if ur voice changes, you're using ur nose to speak.
Heavy cotton T-shirts. great for hiding clocky waists/hips. 3 years of T and a beard and I'm still shaped like a fertile goddess fml haha. Nobody actually cares of course. But if you're in the same boat it might make you feel better
Get an overpowered escooter. Blokes love having a yarn with me whenever I pull up anywhere. Yack about speed, petrol savings, the missus, its great. This tip isn't really about the scooter, and more about having conversations with blokes. a) its affirming, b) you'll pick up mannerisms. Could be anything. Motorbikes/cars, guns, sports, beer - something real and offline.