u/Kita_yt

Hello, I recently finished university and am applying internships for September but in the meantime I am looking for editing work. I charge 20 uk pounds per project and am relatively fast on returns (a few days depending on sfx and scale). If anyone is interested please dm me on discord purrcifer_ and I can send my own channel where I have been editing since 2020.

So TW for SA, physical violence and mental abuse

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Hey, yeah this is weird but I got told to write all this down sooooo here we go ig.

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We met on a dating site and went on a few dates. She was fine at first but when it came to cuddling she'd have a habit of punching and kicking me away then pulling me towards her because "You don't hug me right" I never thought much of it but it escalated to kicking shortly after.

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I never thought it was an issue because "men cant be abused right? Yeah no thats not a thing, in media if the man's out of line he gets hit by a women" She'd stagnate on dates. Id go to her house or She'd come to mine, She'd bring snacks. Get naked, do the above, eat and scroll tiktok and then after demand sex. One time I said no because I was tired. She put the pressure on me saying that I didnt love her and itd be quick etc so I just let her do it. I closed my eyes until she finished and rolled over and immediately demanded hugs. I stayed silent the majority of that night and when she figured out why she said "oh come on, its not like I raped you" i just rolled over and didnt say a word.

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She tried to drive a wedge between family and friends. My mum was near my apartment and went to grab drinks with me. The whole time my phone would blow up with texts of her wanting to talk to me and being annoyed I wouldn't respond immediately. My mum became concerned and pointed it out as emotionally abusive. Same went for my friend, I went to watch a movie with him and came out to a barrage of texts scolding me for daring not to text back. She'd even do it whilst I was in lectures at my university.

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The final straw was an argument about our future. She made a comment i thought was a joke and she slapped me. We continued and She'd began beating my chest saying she didnt care what I wanted. We ended the fight by just getting some sleep. The next day it rained. I remember the smell the most. We held hands as she walked with me. She let go to grab McDonald's breakfast and get the next train as I entered the bus to go to university. I felt weird about the slap and told a friend the whole truth about the slap and the punching and kicking and learned it was abuse. I broke up with her via text and got a barrage of take me back texts to the point my mum had to contact her mum to ask her to stop.

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Kinda unrelated but I think necessary as a lighter funnier ending is she left her shit at my place and her mum wanted it shipped back to her parents about an hour away from mine and it wouldve cost 300 pounds to ship. Her mum was a Karen and was adamant to the point she'd text my mum constantly about it. So my mum bought the biggest purple dildo she could find, placed it on top of the bag and wrote, "either you pick this up in the next week or it goes in the trash. Safe to say we threw it away and didnt get a response from her again lmao 🤣

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I typed all this because ive just been struggling on and off for the past 3 years. So I feel its probably best to write it all down to process it all. Soooo yeah idk how to end these tbh. Thanks for reading ig??? Bye xxx