u/Kitchen-Ad-9676

Ever been someone so observant that you could see the writing on the wall?

How did it make you feel to just sit there in limbo while you watched everything playout in a way where the only thing that was avoidable - was people assuming you were too naive to see it?

I, personally, find this kind of obtuse 'maintaining' the status quo as disrespectful.

I have seen it a few places in my days:

- A job I ask if I am going to be replaced from, and they say no... until they do.

- A relationship that is already separated in all but name?

- A divorce where families try all kinds of "fixes" that just end up being prolonged torture until the inevitable.

I feel like when you are the unwilling bystander to the train you can see speeding towards you down the track - but cannot get out of the way; is when it crosses the line of for your own good, or "committed to trying".

Bonus points if you have ever been gaslit on the other side of it for being an "overthinker" or for being a "Self-fulfilling prophecy" who by raising concerns and standard foresight ability - suddenly went from having zero control over the situation - to being the orchestrator of the outcome.

Anyways - just the philosophy of the day.

Do you have a similar story? I'd like to hear it.

Ever been someone so observant that you could see the writing on the wall?

How did it make you feel to just sit there in limbo while you watched everything playout in a way where the only thing that was avoidable - was people assuming you were too naive to see it?

I, personally, find this kind of obtuse 'maintaining' the status quo as disrespectful.

I have seen it a few places in my days:

- A job I ask if I am going to be replaced from, and they say no... until they do.

- A relationship that is already separated in all but name?

- A divorce where families try all kinds of "fixes" that just end up being prolonged torture until the inevitable.

I feel like when you are the unwilling bystander to the train you can see speeding towards you down the track - but cannot get out of the way; is when it crosses the line of for your own good, or "committed to trying".

Bonus points if you have ever been gaslit on the other side of it for being an "overthinker" or for being a "Self-fulfilling prophecy" who by raising concerns and standard foresight ability - suddenly went from having zero control over the situation - to being the orchestrator of the outcome.

Anyways - just the philosophy of the day.

Do you have a similar story? I'd like to hear it.

Hi.
My name is Epic. I am a code-builder and I made a thing.

I don't like sales, I like to build.

I would like to ask every person if they need this thing,

And if they don't need it right now, I don't want to try and sell them on it.

They might need it later - and it will be here.

Do you need this thing I made? It is called
Active Writing.

Very fast - no chores - way to deal with painful thoughts.

Instead of compressing them and internalizing them - which does not work (it makes them worse). I built a way to use the positive aspects of social media (witness writing) in an app that stimulates you the same way posting anonymously, or live online does.

Except - it only goes online to be 'witnessed' if something permanent happens to you (like the final curtain) - THAT is when you get witnessed. Once all the pressure is off and it doesn't matter what you say, to whom, or how loud you scream it to the world.

My app makes sure it goes out to the world the way you wanted it to be said.

Without you needing to check in on it, or update it (no chores - remember). Though you can update it - anytime you have an intrusive thought, have a bad feeling, or find yourself in a risky situation - you just change it.

No one knows what you said - but Active Writing (and the possibility that if you die - you will be witnessed) Is very effective for getting it out of your head AND giving you relief.

This is why I built it. I think people need it.

You might not. But if you do - would you download it?
It's Free. It is secure and private. I spent 5 years learning how to code and encryption to build it properly. It has like 3-layers of device side, transit, and client E2E.

Maybe you know someone might need it. If you do - you can share it right from the app too.

That would help me out in finding every person who might need it. To at least ask them once.

If you do download it (and no pressure if you don't need it) - could you leave a reaction here - or comment?
I would like to know I helped someone.