u/Kitchen_Courage_4122

My boyfriend recently opened up to me about something very personal. He has a sister he hasn’t been in contact with for many years, probably over a decade. His family situation is complicated (his dad passed away and their relationship wasn’t good), and he didn’t really grow up close to his father or his sister.

Recently, he suddenly started feeling a strong desire to reconnect with her. He even saw her once recently and said she hugged him really tightly, which made everything feel more emotional for him.

The problem is, he only knows her name and surname. I tried helping him look for her online, but we couldn’t find anything. There’s no easy way to contact her.

He also can’t really ask someone from the family because things are complicated and he doesn’t have a safe or comfortable person to go to for this.

Now he really wants to reconnect, but he doesn’t know how—and I feel bad because I want to help him, but I also don’t know what the right thing to do is.

What is the best and most respectful way to approach something like this after so many years of no contact?

My boyfriend recently opened up to me about something very personal. He has a sister he hasn’t been in contact with for many years, probably over a decade. His family situation is complicated (his dad passed away and their relationship wasn’t good), and he didn’t really grow up close to his father or his sister.
Recently, he suddenly started feeling a strong desire to reconnect with her. He even saw her once recently and said she hugged him really tightly, which made everything feel more emotional for him.
The problem is, he only knows her name and surname. I tried helping him look for her online, but we couldn’t find anything. There’s no easy way to contact her.
He also can’t really ask someone from the family because things are complicated and he doesn’t have a safe or comfortable person to go to for this.

Now he really wants to reconnect, but he doesn’t know how and I feel bad because I want to help him, but I also don’t know what the right thing to do is.

What is the best and most respectful way to approach something like this after so many years of no contact?

My boyfriend recently opened up to me about something very personal. He has a sister he hasn’t been in contact with for many years, probably over a decade. His family situation is complicated (his dad passed away and their relationship wasn’t good), and he didn’t really grow up close to his father or his sister.
Recently, he suddenly started feeling a strong desire to reconnect with her. He even saw her once recently and said she hugged him really tightly, which made everything feel more emotional for him.
The problem is, he only knows her name and surname. I tried helping him look for her online, but we couldn’t find anything. There’s no easy way to contact her.
He also can’t really ask someone from the family because things are complicated and he doesn’t have a safe or comfortable person to go to for this.

Now he really wants to reconnect, but he doesn’t know how and I feel bad because I want to help him, but I also don’t know what the right thing to do is.

What is the best and most respectful way to approach something like this after so many years of no contact?

What do you think guys?

Cons:

\\-He might hit me in the future(he said he has no problem hitting his wife)
\\-he is sensitive and stingy
\\-I wont live the life i want/ i wint be an independent woman/i wont support my fam
\\-I wont be with a nerd one who will educate my children the way i want them to be educated(he cheats on his exams since the beginning)
\\-He misunderstands me a loot
\\-He doesn't check of. me if i go offline for days(i was in hospital and he knowes but he didnt even call me saying that he wants me to sleep tight
\\-He doesn't surprise me. He has never even given me a rose. (We were hanging out and a child asked him tobuy a flower and he said no she is allergic even tho m not)
\\-He gets mad quickly
Pros:
But i love him he is my first love, i had imagined a life with him since my childhood (2019)
he makes me laugh always but recently we have been in problems everyday

Guys li Deja khdem f NOTIONCALL CENTER vos avis elihoum? Wach salaire fixe(7200dh) ou non?