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What's going on in Italy?

As sad and disheartening as ‘men’s issues’ are, there is actually something worse…

And that is, the chronic lack of political will and interest in addressing such issues.

For example, male suicide remains the biggest risk to life for all men under fifty, claiming more than half a million (!!) men’s lives worldwide each year.

That number is impossibly large, and truly staggering.

But what is somehow more shocking, is that when national plans are announced to help combat suicide – such as earlier this month in Italy – somehow suicidal men are routinely left in the cold, with women made a ‘priority’ group instead.

That’s right…

Despite men being 78% of suicides in Italy, women will be one of the primary beneficiaries of Italia’s recently announced ‘National Plan for Suicide Prevention’ instead.

And for me, that is the most shocking part of this whole space.

It’s not that:
Men’s health is now worse than women’s by nearly every metric…

Or that boys are behind at every stage of Western education…

Or that men dominate in homelessness, incarceration, workplace fatalities, suicide, drug deaths, and as victims of violent crime…

The most shocking thing is that, when it comes to political conversation, all we seem to get is tumbleweed.

Of course –

This is doubly disorientating, as we are routinely told that “men” are the ones who benefit from political power, that men are the ones systemically privileged; and that men have built the system and written the laws, for eternity, as part of some omnipotent patriarchal male oppressor class.

Such claims certainly sound good on social media, or when bravely bellowed by your local feminist campaigner; but in reality, where our men and boys are silently crushed by both public and political malaise, such slogans seem embarrassingly far from the truth.

So why do our politicians and ministers keep on betraying vulnerable men?

And what on earth is going on in Italy right now?

What do you think?

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Source:
Italian policy announcement https://www.salute.gov.it/new/it/news-e-media/notizie/10-settembre-giornata-mondiale-la-prevenzione-del-suicidio/

78% of suicides in Italy are male https://countryeconomy.com/demography/mortality/causes-death/suicide/italy

Ana Redondo, “morally, ethically and constitutionally” wrong https://www.esdiario.com/nacional/240509/135661/ministra-igualdad-ana-redondo-hombres.html

Ana Redondo, “frivolous” waste of money https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/09/13/male-rape-centre-waste-of-money-spain-equality-ministry/

Aurore Bergé rejects request for first support line for abused men https://questions.assemblee-nationale.fr/q17/17-8484QE.htm

Jess Phillips laughs at mens issues https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8XX6ATwQv7Q&feature=youtu.be

u/Kuato2012 — 23 days ago
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Stuck bolts, replacing car suspension

I'm trying to replace the shocks and struts on a Toyota. I've got the car lifted, wheel off, full access to the bolts I need to remove... but they might as well be welded on.

I've hit them with PB Blaster about 10 times, waiting at least hour in between. I've also hit them with my impact driver (Ryobi PCL235), a butane torch for 30s, an 18" breaker bar, and a box wrench with a mallet. Two days of zero progress.

What am I doing wrong? Do I need a hotter torch? (The bolt never got red hot) A beefier impact driver? I'm willing to sink money into tools instead of someone else's labor, but I don't even know what to try next.

Edit: thanks for all the speedy replies! Looks like I'm off to do some shopping... hotter heat source, bigger impact wrench, steel pipe breaker bar extension, replacement fasteners, and... a crayon?

Edit 2: I got the bolts off! Upgraded to a 1/2 drive impact wrench with 1170 ft-lbs of torque. I'm going to pretend that all my previous efforts were still useful for softening up the job. Also, all the experienced tips here might still come in handy for the driver side...

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