r/everydaymisandry

I thought they hated the stereotype that all women were naturally inclined to be caretakers….

And as if every group of 7 men ever would hurt an intoxicated woman…

Not only do they put women’s safety first, they even put women’s feelings first. They cater to the notion that women are more likely to be victims of everything and put so much more emphasis on sexual violence than any other kind of violence - and there’s a nonzero chance that that’s because women are affected by the former.

Saying “everyone deserves to feel safe” in response to “women deserve to feel safe” (note that they say “feel” and not “be”, because, as usual, it’s always about FEELINGS) is gonna result in a response that sidelines men in spite of the fact that the people that experience almost every other type of violence are men. Yet society continues to obsess over the protection of women in ever circumstance ever, meaning that important issues affecting men are treated as second-tier if they’re acknowledged at all.

The whole thing was much worse. It talked about latinas raping white men and white men being grateful. People in the audience cheered, just like the comments. Then she said rape is the female n-word as if only women experience rape.

The problem is that it reinforces the idea that men always want sex, even if it’s not consensual. That men raped by women, especially attractive women, are lucky and should be grateful. The fact that she’s joking about it shows they don’t see it as “real rape”. It’s not tragic and traumatising. You would never see an attractive male talking about how women love being raped by him.