u/Quick_Low_5913

Insert Misandry Claim

Misandrist options:

1. Deny it (Misandry doesn't exist)
2. Minimize it (Misandry is just some girl venting)
3. Whaboutism (Misandry is nowhere near as bad as misogyny)

In every, single, case of discussing this with a misandrist they always go for one of those 3 tactics. Some, will, play stupid and ask what you mean by misandry.

Now lets go through some common statements by misandrists!

"Misogyny kills, Misandry hurts feelings"

Man, this is a common one, not all misogyny kills, and misandry can kill. Misandrists love to use generalization as if that backs up male hate. Circumcision kills infant boys every year (and the lucky survivors must live with part of their genitals having been amputated). Suicide kills so many men (leading cause of death under 50 for men). Our social safety nets fail so many men (ever seen a men only DV shelter?). Homicide kills more men than women every year. I only added 1 comparison because I don't want to make this a hate Olympics. Now look at male rape victims and male domestic violence victims, or I guess male SA victims and male domestic violence victims because almost half the world has sex based laws on rape that legally don't allow women to rape men. Men are mocked, dismissed, and told to "man up" while their abusers walk free. Look at family courts where fathers are stripped of their parental rights by default. Look at how male homelessness and workplace deaths are never framed as gendered issues despite overwhelmingly affecting men. It also leads to women disfiguring, torturing and murdering men. What about the women who ripped their son's penis off and murdered him? (Proof: https://metro.co.uk/2019/06/17/mum-ripped-off-sons-penis-beheaded-reminded-dad-9974568/). What about the woman who poured boiling water over her husband because he forgot to pick her up late from church (Proof: https://www.zimeye.net/2019/08/17/shock-as-woman-scalds-sleeping-husband-over-failure-to-pick-her-up-from-church/). What about a woman who raped the 12 year old boy she was babysitting and then put him on child support for the kid born of that rape (Yes, I'm not joking. Proof: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-for-child-support). What about a woman who murdered and dismember her husband (Proof: https://people.com/where-is-melanie-mcguire-now-11889058). What about a woman who beat her 3 year old son to death (Proof: https://www.oxygen.com/crime-news/lashirley-morris-convicted-killed-toddler-bat-stolen-cupcake).

Its time to stop pretending misandry isn't harmful. Women are very vital as violent as men can be, but they're rarely held to the same accountability.

But even if you were to tell all of this to a misandrist, their reply falls into one of 4 categories:

A) Gaslight even more and continue the argument of how misandry just hurts feelings and continue the blatant minimization and generalization (Highly Common rarity!)

B) "Misandry doesn't exist, that's just misogyny" (Common rarity!)

C) "B-but it's men who set up that system" and then they'll take it as a win (Uncommon rarity!)

D) Agree your correct and they were wrong (Legendary rarity!) [Misandrists have big egos so this is very rare to see]

"Misandry doesn't exist"

If my last rant didn't convince you, oh well. But here, another piece of proof: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Krasnoyarsk_kindergarten_shooting

Again, the same 4 categories apply after reading this.

"Misandry is only on the internet"

This is yet another common one, I see this often but probably not as often as the misandry only hurts feeling statement. Yall do realize that the misandrists who are being misandrists online can also be doing it offline too right? And just look at 4b, both the online and offline community is extremely misandrist. I'd show specific screenshots but I don't want this to get taken down, so literally just scroll in that sub, you'll find some pretty easily. Also, if you didn't notice, everything from my first rant was offline misandry so...

Again, the same 4 categories apply after reading this.

Misandry is an issue and needs to be treated like one.

this number is obviously bs but let’s humor it for a second. around 48.7 percent of countries in the world have laws about gender based laws even if it’s not said explicitly. That’s almost 50 percent of the world that says that, men can’t be raped by women. Again this number itself can’t be trusted, but I do think its stupid when people bring up this number

Most men are in fact not pedophiles. to even attempt to prove something like this would require way more reasoning then whatever the heck this short paragraph is. And by the way the actual percent is 1 to 5, no where close to 50+

And before you say oh its only on the internet, the people who say this stuff online can act and do the same things in person.

If you couldn't tell I was being saracastic. There's so much wrong about this post, I don't even know where to begin. First of, peak fertility is from your twenties to thirties. Second, making a generalization is almost never true (see what i did there lol). Third, parents being 20 to the 30 years older than us IS A GOOD THING, because that means that they have a higher chance of raising us better since they've lived longer and are mature enough to be better parents. Not saying that teen parents are bad or anything but getting pregnant in ur twenties means ur just wiser about how the world works. Fourth, how the hell does getting pregnancy early stop women from aging rapidly??? Fifth, our world would probably get stupider if this happened because a lot of times in teen pregnancies women have to drop out of school to take care of their child/children so having kids at 16 would just mean that at the max women would have a 10th grade education, and assuming that the men are also 16 when they get married, they too won't be able to finish school (I take this at the scenario because if og op means they want 16 year old girls to marry grown adults, that just means their supporting pedophilia but I'll give them the benefit of the doubt). And finally, using religion to back up minor marriage and pregnancy is just messed up.