u/L1ttle_Behemoth

I started T in like…April. My hair is now noticeably thinner. I’ve got an appt with a dermatologist but there’s no fucking way I’m damn near bald that quick, right??? (And yes, I have already looked up the posts in this sub, which is why I’m asking.) I started oral minox but I’m not gonna lie. I’d give up T before I give up my hair. I’m too damn insecure about my hair and T just isn’t worth it to me. But it’s way too early for that, right??? Am I going fucking crazy?!

Editing to say thank you for all of your comments. My anxiety has gone down alot since my initial post, and I’m going to take a bit to think about my options. Yall have seriously helped a lot 🫶🏻

I’m also going to add this because it seems people are mistaking this as me hating baldness. That is absolutely not the case. At all. Not only do I know plenty of bald men (and women), but I’ve also found plenty of bald people attractive. Just because I myself do not want to be bald does not mean I find anything inherently wrong with it. None of you have actually asked “why don’t you want to be bald?” You’ve just jumped to “I can’t believe you hate bald men!” Like…seriously? Use your damn brains and consider maybe there’s a personal reason behind it. And at the end of the day, THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH NOT WANTING TO BE BALD. JUST LIKE THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING BALD. Jesus.

Hey so uh…have any of you ever experienced facial hair only growing on one side of your face? I mean literally hairy ape on one side and bald as a baby’s butt on the other? Is this just because I’m just starting out or is it something I should look in to? The hair right above my side burns on that side also looks thinner, but thickens significantly as it goes back behind my ear. It’s the weirdest thing ever.

Edit for update: so we’re all just body/facial hair lefties. Got it 😂

“I’m under XYZ height so I’ll always get clocked” or “how often do y’all get clocked if you’re under this height” or “I’m so dysphoric because I’m not a fucking Goliath sized MAN™️”

Like…yall realize people literally come in all shapes and sizes, right?? Some men have big hips and big asses. Some men are short. Some men have bigger chests. Some men are shaped like captain fucking America and some men are shaped like jack black and Doc the dwarf had a baby. And you know what? They’re all fucking valid. We really need to stop fucking perpetuating this idea that to be a Man™️ you need to be a 6ft tall Adonis with washboard abs and a chiseled jaw line. Like…seriously. Knock it the fuck off.

Well. It finally happened. I can hit those George strait and Cody Johnson deep notes now, but almost my entire karaoke playlist is shot because as soon as I try to belt or hit anything higher than maybe a low alto level, my voice completely cuts out. Not screeches, actually like…stops. Like I’ve got laryngitis. What do I do?!?! I freaking love singing.