u/LaRougeRaven

Ive seen and read other posts on this, many have said they hold on to the tree friends, because you never know who might just be on a break.

But I feel it should be safe to assume finches that are still Baby, Toddler, or Teen with a month of inactivity, are not coming back?

Maybe they didnt like the app and just left their bird.

Adult finches Im more inclined to keep as they could be on break, but yeah.

Curious on your thoughts about inactive tree friends that have not yet become adults.

For the colours and colour palettes, do you choose one palette at the start and each item after is only from that palette, or is it that each item you get to choose which palette?

I love the free colours for the rooms, but am I forced to pick a palette and stay with it the whole month? The official post and video example of picking a palette has confused me.

Thanks.

Also, I understand the dislike or even hate that some currently have. Im excited for this month. Please no bashing, different strokes for different folks.

I am so thankful for Finch right now. Im going through a really tough time right now. I don't want toto do anything, I dont want to work (more than usual lol), don't want to eat, I have massive anxiety right now can't think, on and on and on.

But because of Finch, I have forced myself to do my morning hygiene routine, eating, cleaning, keeping myself going.

I would be an absolute wreck right now.

TL;DR: Finch has helped me become more productive and better at handling conflict. Now I want to work on my automatic cynical thoughts and stop assuming the worst about people. Has anyone used Finch for this, or have any tips?

So Finch has helped me so much in the last 56 days from starting.

Its done wonders for my productivity throughout the days Im actually doing chores, things ive been putting off.

On thing I was shocked about is the change in my attitude and being able to have more control over them. When I get into arguments, many times Ive been able to talk it out. I used to not be able to do that.

Im hoping to use this app to help control my jaded, cynical brain. My life had been shit since I was a child, and Ive done a lot to be a better person than those that ruined my life. Problem is, there is still such a loud cynical side to me, that I assume the worst from people.

I work at a clinic, Im always nice when I speak with people, but when i get off the phone or out of ear shot, will complain about them doing something stupid.

Example: yesterday I spoke with a woman, she needed to move her appointment because she never was given the instruction book. But then seeing the person who originally booked her and has OCD, doubt she was telling the truth. Then found I had rescheduled her the first time and thought it would be weird that I would not email it to her. She kept saying no she didnt get anything. Found my original email showing when I sent it, and she was shocked that I had proof that shes been given the instructions.

My thoughts after the phone call was "why did you lie, just say you lost it. Why try to convince me that we didn't do our jobs. We have to write the appointment time and date on the book, we dont just book you and say see you.

Things like that, that dont matter, honest mistakes and whatnot. But cynical/jaded thoughts pop up first. I do try to pause and change my frame of thinking. But I dont want cynical thoughts to be the first thought.

I want to make a goal, but im not sure exactly what or how to set up that kind of goal.

I was wondering if there are others in the same boat, and if they have been able to create goals or have tips.

I just want to be a better person.

Hello,

Im 55 days new and I am testing different parts of the app out.

Today I tried out the loading my backup file.

I am a little confused. I saved my backup this morning before I tried loading.

I had some completed tasks when I saved.

But when I loaded it, the correct file, it loaded, but it loaded yesterday's day. I remember because someone had sent me a gift yesterday, and thats what I was greeted with.

Its a bit sad, because I had received a gift this morning, and thought it would be safe with backing up and loading my back up.

Did I do something wrong? Is there a way for my file to actually load the correct day?

I am so angry with PC Optimum. Last fall or winter, I noticed my points went to zero, when I had over 15000 points. I tried to call, but I got frustrated trying to get through to a person, I wanted to do it when I had time.

Of course I forget, I tried a few more times, but I picked the worse times, when I didnt have time to focus on trying to reach a person.

Finally I tried last week. I hope I guess expecting that they can look beyond 45 days to see point history. But I must be stupid for expecting that, because they cant. Nor can the supervisors.

When the entry level person couldnt look, they pushed it to a supervisor. FIRSTLY, when you miss a call and the voicemail says "hi this is [insert name], please call me back at # and say what day I called." Called back less than 30 minutes. Supervisor not available. So I wait for another call. Missed another call. This is when I found out, it was Claude trying to reach me, and that doesnt matter if I missed it by a minute, you cant just be patches through.

I waited for the 3rd time, expecting they would call around the same time, when to turn my phone on, and realised they called me at 730am, while I was getting ready for work and missed it. And even though I called back immediately, they closed the case, even though the person I spoke to said they would add a note to call me after 630pm.

Finally have someone call me this morning. Still cant see history past 45 days. That they dont see anything weird with the fact my uneven number of points went missing. Its basically my fault for not monitoring my points MORE than a normal person should. I mean, when I worked at Shoppers, I had a valid reason to look at my points and app every day, but I dont anymore, and go to shoppers maybe once every few months. So why would I look at my points when Im not actively shopping at Shoppers or PC?

They expect me to still have a receipt from over a year ago, which would prove I had points, but still cant prove that I didnt use the points. So would that mean, if I spent $100 worth of points, waited until 46 days, called in and said "hey im missing my points, they were there 3 months ago, but now they are not. Here's my proof I had the points". Are they supposed to just go off their word? Because if thats the case, they hey! I learned a trick to double the points to spend.

It is so frustrating. If someone used my points, there's no way it would have gone down to zero.

So Im hoping I have some hidden receipt somewhere and show them I had these points. But I doubt it. I dont keeps bandaid or a soda receipt.