▲ 13 r/AMBW

Chicago-Based Seeking a Genuine, Long-Term Connection

Hey everyone! 😊
I figured I’d give Reddit a shot.
I’m a 30-year-old African American woman living in the suburbs of Chicago. I’m 5’5”, plus-size (size 14), and work in healthcare. I’ll be starting medical school next year, so life is about to get busy, but I’m hoping to find someone to build something real with.
Outside of work, I love traveling, trying new cafés, exploring new restaurants, taking weekend trips, and experiencing different cultures. I’m the type of person who enjoys both staying in for a movie night and planning the next international adventure.
I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage and a family. Communication, kindness, emotional maturity, and honesty are really important to me.
If you’re around my age (late 20s to mid-30s), live in or near the Chicago area—or don’t mind long distance if things click—and you’re also looking for something serious, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to get to know you!

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u/Lanky_Biscotti4436 — 19 hours ago

30 F4M [CDT] Illinois, USA/Anywhere, looking for a serious relationship.

Hey everyone! 😊
I figured I’d give Reddit a shot.
I’m a 30-year-old African American woman living in the suburbs of Chicago. I’m 5’5”, plus-size size 14, and work in healthcare. I’ll be starting medical school next year, so life is about to get busy, but I’m hoping to find someone to build something real with.
Outside of work, I love traveling, trying new cafés, exploring new restaurants, taking weekend trips, and experiencing different cultures. I’m the type of person who enjoys both staying in for a movie night and planning the next international adventure.
I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage and a family. Communication, kindness, emotional maturity, and honesty are really important to me.
I am only interested in getting to know East Asian men especially Korean, Japanese, or Chinese.
If you’re around my age \(late 20s to mid\-30s\), live in or near the Chicago area—or don’t mind long distance if things click—and you’re also looking for something serious, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to get to know you!

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u/Lanky_Biscotti4436 — 1 day ago

30F | Arlington Heights, IL | Looking for Genuine Friendships

Hi everyone! 😊
I’m a 30-year-old African woman living in Arlington Heights, Illinois. I was born in San Ramon, California, but I’ve been living in Illinois for about 12 years. I’m looking to build genuine, long-term friendships with kind, down-to-earth people.
A little about me:
I work in healthcare and will be starting medical school next year.
I love traveling and hope to see more of the world.
I’m currently learning Mandarin because I enjoy learning about different cultures.
I love trying new cafés, restaurants, and exploring new places around the Chicago area.
I enjoy talking about travel, food, different cultures, healthcare, life goals, and just about anything interesting.
I’m also a Christian, and my faith is an important part of who I am. That said, I’m simply looking for genuine friendships—not a Bible study group or anything like that. I’m open to people of all religions and backgrounds and believe everyone deserves kindness and respect.
If you’re local, it’d be great to grab coffee, try a new restaurant, or explore the area together. If you’re not nearby, I’m always happy to make online friends too.
If you think we’d get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I’d love to meet some new people! 😊

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u/Lanky_Biscotti4436 — 7 days ago
▲ 4 r/AMXFs

Healthcare Professional Looking for a Genuine Long-Term Relationship

Hey everyone! 😊
I figured I’d give Reddit a shot.
I’m a 31 -year-old African American woman living in the suburbs of Chicago. I’m 5’5”, plus-size (size 14), and work in healthcare. I’ll be starting medical school next year, so life is about to get busy, but I’m hoping to find someone to build something real with.
Outside of work, I love traveling, trying new cafés, exploring new restaurants, taking weekend trips, and experiencing different cultures. I’m the type of person who enjoys both staying in for a movie night and planning the next international adventure.
I’m looking for a serious, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage and a family. Communication, kindness, emotional maturity, and honesty are really important to me. No FWB
I have an attraction to East Asian men (especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, Thai)
If you’re around my age (late 20s to mid-30s), live in or near the Chicago area or don’t mind long distance if things click and you’re also looking for something serious, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to get to know you. Only serious people.
Please be genuine. 😊

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u/Lanky_Biscotti4436 — 7 days ago