u/Last_Statistician496

Location: Texas

Okay so basically I had a chemical pregnancy and when I went in for confirmation according to the OB I had a miscarriage.

The baby daddy paid 600 for the entire visit. He agreed prior that he could and would pay for any medical visits if i didn’t have insurance.

He is now saying i fabricated the whole thing and is saying that i owe him the 600 dollars (I don’t have this money) I told him I could pay 300 but I would not be paying the full 600.

Just for a little extra context. He was AT the appointment where the OB said I was having a miscarriage. She explained everything to him and he acted like he understood but as soon as we got into the car he started accusing me of lying.

Can he sue me for it/what would the legal process likely be?

Location: Texas

Okay so basically I had a chemical pregnancy and when I went in for confirmation according to the OB I had a miscarriage.

The baby daddy paid 600 for the entire visit. He agreed prior that he could and would pay for any medical visits if i didn’t have insurance.

He is now saying i fabricated the whole thing and is saying that i owe him the 600 dollars (I don’t have this money) I told him I could pay 300 but I would not be paying the full 600.

Can he sue me for it?

*THE VERY END OF THE POST COULD BE TRIGGERING*

Okay so I am very very early pregnant like 5 weeks. Me and the dad are not together at all. We are both only 19.

He thinks I am faking the pregnancy despite the fact of showing him the results of my blood tests and seeing the ultrasound pictures from the transvaginal ultrasound I had.

He wants me to PROVE that I am actually pregnant by showing him the patient portal at the hospital so that he can go through my medical records (word for word “I want to look at your portal so I can see all the tests you’ve had done”

Now I don’t know if he just doesn’t believe the babies his or he truly thinks I’m faking. But the way he’s acting makes me not want to show him anything anymore.

The last thing we talked about was him coming to a doctor’s appointment with me to prove that it’s real and he still wants to see the patient portal. Like I don’t seriously don’t understand why he’s so obsessed with my patient portal.

I will add another reason I don’t want him going through my medical records is because I had a miscarriage (not his) back in January and I don’t want anyone in my personal life knowing about it.

So would it be wrong if I just didn’t show him my patient portal?

So basically my partner says that I have vaginal odor and it makes him like not want to have sex with me. He says it’s present even when I’ve showered like an hour prior. I’m not sure why it’s the case but I want to change it. So is there anything any body is using specifically that could help me? Also like can someone answer if these like potential myths are true.

1. Drinking lots of pineapple juice/ cranberry juice helps
2. Taking apple cider baths
3. Making sure not to use scented body washes down there (I’m pretty sure this is true)

Okay so, I have a coworker both of us are 19. The entire time I’ve known him I thought he was attractive but kept my attraction at bay. We’ve spent time alone together and had really personal conversations (sex,dating life, family life, childhood trauma). However he’s a very open, funny, charismatic, he’s always smiling, He’s almost never not in a good mood. Over the course of the time we’ve worked together (9 months) there have been SOME times I think “what the hell why are you doing that” but also I’m delusional so I really can’t tell if he likes me. So here’s kind of a list of things that have happened that make me think he likes me and then the mixed signals he gives.

He likes me
- one time flex his arms and asked me which one of his biceps were bigger

- our job closes at 5 PM and is usually only open Monday through Friday. Me and him both came in on a Saturday and he stayed with me until 7 PM playing cornhole and playing games on our phone (less than a month of knowing each other btw)

- sometimes in the mornings during our morning meeting i’ll answered him and will make eye contact for a split second

- he has stayed late after work to help me pass a test

- i’ve done the same thing except it was a test that I’ve never taken before and I literally just stayed there with him until 7 PM talking and taking notes with him on one of the two nights that we study together for his test we ended up having a beer together

(The most recent thing that has happened and the only reason I am even asking this question and ever event following this started May 2nd)

- one day on a Saturday he texted me and I asked me if I was doing anything and then asked me to come in and help him organize his desk which I did and then I ended up staying a little bit longer and giving him a massage

- since giving him the massage anytime we text regarding the massage or just clarifying some things. He has to talk about it in person.

- he took a gummy started freaking out texted me asked me for help and wanted to meet in person so that I could distract him

- the following day after he took the gummy wanted to hang out again (this was yesterday on Memorial Day)

he doesn’t like me:

- doesn’t avoid me at work, but doesn’t make the effort to talk to me

- our conversations are very short around other people

- he said we need to keep things above board which I don’t totally disagree with

- before the massage, he never made an effort to try to hang out with me

ALSO
Just some minor context we got into an argument the weekend after the massage and so him reaching out to me was even more weird. like ME of all people you text ME for comfort after pretty much icing me out the week following (week of May 11th) but then (week of the 18th) acting like everything is fine and going back to normal.

Okay that’s kind of it. I get the feeling he doesn’t like me and if he does it’s only because of the massage or that at least heightened things

Okay so, I have a coworker both of us are 19. The entire time I’ve known him I thought he was attractive but kept my attraction at bay. We’ve spent time alone together and had really personal conversations (sex,dating life, family life, childhood trauma). However he’s a very open, funny, charismatic, he’s always smiling, He’s almost never not in a good mood. Over the course of the time we’ve worked together (9 months) there have been SOME times I think “what the hell why are you doing that” but also I’m delusional so I really can’t tell if he likes me. So here’s kind of a list of things that have happened that make me think he likes me and then the mixed signals he gives.

He likes me
- one time flex his arms and asked me which one of his biceps were bigger

- our job closes at 5 PM and is usually only open Monday through Friday. Me and him both came in on a Saturday and he stayed with me until 7 PM playing cornhole and playing games on our phone (less than a month of knowing each other btw)

- sometimes in the mornings during our morning meeting i’ll answered him and will make eye contact for a split second

- he has stayed late after work to help me pass a test

- i’ve done the same thing except it was a test that I’ve never taken before and I literally just stayed there with him until 7 PM talking and taking notes with him on one of the two nights that we study together for his test we ended up having a beer together

(The most recent thing that has happened and the only reason I am even asking this question and ever event following this started May 2nd)

- one day on a Saturday he texted me and I asked me if I was doing anything and then asked me to come in and help him organize his desk which I did and then I ended up staying a little bit longer and giving him a massage

- since giving him the massage anytime we text regarding the massage or just clarifying some things. He has to talk about it in person.

- he took a gummy started freaking out texted me asked me for help and wanted to meet in person so that I could distract him

- the following day after he took the gummy wanted to hang out again (this was yesterday on Memorial Day)

he doesn’t like me:

- doesn’t avoid me at work, but doesn’t make the effort to talk to me

- our conversations are very short around other people

- he said we need to keep things above board which I don’t totally disagree with

- before the massage, he never made an effort to try to hang out with me

Okay that’s kind of it. I get the feeling he doesn’t like me and if he does it’s only because of the massage.

Okay so I just want to start off my saying I know I’m in the wrong. I know I’m dumb I just need to talk about it.

About a week ago (Saturday) I 19f gave my 19m coworker a massage and we both enjoyed it (or so it seemed)

The following Monday he pulled me aside and said “that was unprofessional we need to keep it above board” I agreed but then he compared our situation to the (for privacy I’m using a fake name) “Jacob situation”. Jacob assaulted a girl at work but he thought it was consensual but she said it made her very uncomfortable and she reported him.

That scared me and my friend who I don’t work with suggested I get clarification and I should also tell a manager just in case 19m says something contradictory to what I thought it was. Well I texted 19m and told him how I felt and he said let’s talk about it in person and so we met up at our office job (we were completely alone and it was yesterday Sunday so no one was going to come in). My friend then suggested I record the interaction just so I had it if anything happened.

I did record him saying it was consensual but I kept recording the WHOLE time. I recorded us playing hide and seek and then playing doctor (he was the doctor I was the patient) and everything was great until he saw me recording and got upset.

Just for context he is the funniest and playful person always smiling and never really takes anything serious. The look he gave me broke my heart I’ve never seen anything that hurt so much. He told me “I can’t trust you anymore like at all you broke my trust” and kept asking me why I did it and I told him why and the explanation made him more upset and he stormed out of the office. I texted him and apologized twice and he just said “that was really fucked up of you but there’s no need to talk about it anymore”

I know I’m reaping the consequences of my actions but i miss how he looked at me before. Now he barely looks or talks to me unless he has too and he just seems more guarded.

I know I need to leave him alone which I have been but I don’t know what else to say to him or if I should say anything.

Okay I have a coworker who is the same age as me (19) we’ve worked together for about eight months and in those eight months, he’s kind of giving me mixed signals. I came in on a Saturday and he also came in and the place where we work is closed on a Saturday typically so we were basically alone the whole day and I got there at like 11 o’clock in the morning and then he came in around noon. We stayed and ended up hanging out until like 7 PM and I don’t really remember like what happened during that except for that we played cornhole in the office and he like flexed his muscles and asked me which one of his biceps were bigger. He’s also helped me study for test. We’re both very sarcastic and really blunt so we tease each other a lot and we’ve confided in each other about certain things there have been times when I thought that maybe he liked me, but I wasn’t for sure but today I’m like really confused.

Around 2 PM he texted me and asked me if I was busy today and wanted me to help him organize his desk at the office I told him I wasn’t busy and I went and I helped him organize his desk and then after I organized his desk with him, he was “like I’m gonna stay here for a little bit until I have to leave, You’re more than welcome to stay if you want” and I was like “do you just want somebody to hang out with.” he said “sure” so we went into one of the little rooms

We started kind of talking about our lives and recently he’s been sort of in a situation with this girl, but he told me today that he’s been leading her on and he told me that he didn’t want a girlfriend anymore and he didn’t wanna have any hoes.

He then told me that his back was hurting and his shoulders were hurting and I was like well come here I’ll give you a massage and he accepted and I gave him a massage for a good like 30 minutes and then he like unzipped his shirt a little bit and had me like sort of massage him with his shirt off and also like his arms and then he laid it on the ground and like sort of took off his shirt so that I could massage his whole back. And while I was massaging him, he made the comment “this is better than sex” which really threw me off.
When I stopped massaging him, he was like “OK one last request. I want you to massage my hair.” and I said. “Do you just someone to play with your hair” at first he said no and then a few seconds later said yes.

We then started talking about random things, but it was a little bit awkward but I’m pretty sure that was just me because he straight up, asked me “why are you smiling so awkwardly? Why are you being so awkward?”

So I know it kinda like sounds stupid and maybe he probably does like me, but I’m really bad at telling that stuff and I kind of sort of feel like he’s maybe messing with me just because of how our dynamic is. We barely talk at work and outside of work, but then when we do talk or we are alone together, we’re like sort of friends. I don’t really know how to explain it.