(23M)is making my (21F) birthday trip stressful already thoughts?

so me and my boyfriend are planning to go to Vegas for my 21st birthday and part of me doesn’t want me to go because of him I expressed since I’m turning 21 this year that I just like wanted to experience going to a club and him coming with me, he doesn’t wanna come with me. He’s telling me that I can go alone, but to expect him to be upset at me because he doesn’t believe in club culture and people in relationships and go to clubs which I understand but I’m literally offering him to come with me to give him that reassurance that you know I’m not gonna do anything because I’m not. I also just want to have fun like for God sake I’m going to Vegas. and we just like keep having the same argument and just going back-and-forth in circles so we haven’t really dropped that and I’m buying some clothes for the trip and he wanted me to like show him and there’s a particular dress that he doesn’t like that I’m wearing and it’s pissing me off because it’s like dude it’s not your birthday!!!!! My gosh … and I wanted to be there for four days. He suggesting that we’d be there for three because he feels like five or more days or stretched out and we wouldn’t know what to do and he was telling me yesterday that he’s not trying to spend 2 to 300 a day it was just like he’s making us all about him. I was just like so annoying and it honestly makes me like not even wanna go anymore and just the whole thing about like commenting on what I bought like saying you don’t like it.. and for context I’ve just been under a lot of stress this year with work and just life . And the fact that this is stressing me out too is just the cherry on top so I don’t even know what to do. I still want to enjoy my time out there because I do wanna be out of town because like I don’t know anymore.

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u/LavishnessAdept5594 — 1 day ago

i’m sick and tired of being a service provider

i’m a licensed esthetician and lash tech and i’m sick of it. I want to put my tweezers down and honestly become a nurse or stay at home wife. Business is inconsistent some months , the always hustling, posting , marketing trying to fill in spots for the month is honestly stressing me out and so tiring. I’m emotionally and physically exhausted.
The cilents i get sometimes get on my fucking nerves . Being a service provider makes me realize how so many people don’t fucking read and or respect your time. Last minute rescheduling, no shows etc . OH AND PEOPLE POCKET WATCH ME. Asking how much i make in a or trying to calculate how much i make by the cilents i take and it just irritates me because i just want to fucking work
don’t ask me how much i make!!!!!!!!! just lay your ass down. shit is so weird to me i don’t even profit off all my money because i have to constantly market and buy supplies , taxes ETC they just think i pocket all the money . I like doing lashes. Don’t give me wrong but the people I get make me so fucking sick of it and just like the little things just like make me explode like people huffing and puffing when I’m doing lashes like people trying to last-minute reschedule or same-day reschedule people not respecting my policies which is too much and I don’t think I can do it anymore because I think one day I’m really going to like spaz out

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u/LavishnessAdept5594 — 6 days ago
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i’m sick and tired of being a service provider

i’m a licensed esthetician and lash tech and i’m sick of it. I want to put my tweezers down and honestly become a nurse or stay at home wife. Business is inconsistent some months , the always hustling, posting , marketing trying to fill in spots for the month is honestly stressing me out and so tiring. I’m emotionally and physically exhausted.
The cilents i get sometimes get on my fucking nerves . Being a service provider makes me realize how so many people don’t fucking read and or respect your time. Last minute rescheduling, no shows etc . OH AND PEOPLE POCKET WATCH ME. Asking how much i make in a or trying to calculate how much i make by the cilents i take and it just irritates me because i just want to fucking work
don’t ask me how much i make!!!!!!!!! just lay your ass down. shit is so weird to me i don’t even profit off all my money because i have to constantly market and buy supplies , taxes ETC.

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u/LavishnessAdept5594 — 6 days ago

is this game worth it?

debating on buying Pokémon Scarlet or violet. I’m currently playing Pokémon shield for the first time and kind of disappointed on how easy it is…. Will I be disappointed with Scarlett and Violet or should I just wait until the newest game comes out on the switch 2?

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u/LavishnessAdept5594 — 22 days ago

i 20F and boyfriend 22m My boyfriend got upset over a TikTok I posted and now I feel controlled — am I viewing this badly

I (20F) and my boyfriend (22M) have been together for 2 years now and we recently got in an argument over something i posted on tik tok.
Lately i haven’t been feeling as confident like i was when i was in high school or a teen, i don’t take pictures like that anymore and just haven’t been feeling like myself , a few days ago me and him went to disney. I had a white v neck top , black capris and i even did my makeup (which i haven’t done in a while) i took hours to get ready ( hair etc,) long story short i took a video of myself in the car because i genuinely felt pretty , posted it on tik tok and showed my boyfriend because he usually hypes me up saying i look good etc ,
his vibe changes like he’s upset
i ask him what’s wrong and he basically says he didn’t like the video i posted , says my cleavage was out and my top was “too much” and he was gonna tell me that before he went to disney and he decided not to. He said I was basically thirst trapping in the video and to watch what i post … I explained to him how i haven’t felt pretty in a while and wanted to post my face and said “so why didn’t you just post your face ?” long story short the conversation didn’t really go anywhere , we just solved it by having sex and i’m really starting to think i can’t wear certain stuff or post certain stuff without him getting mad and idk what to do i do love him but it’s just certain things that just really annoy me .

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u/LavishnessAdept5594 — 3 months ago
▲ 359 r/Sephora

why is everyone so obsessed with rhode?

genuinely asking, I see a lot of people I about the skin care and other stuff. I have one Lip tint, the jellybean one and I don’t really grab it like that because it feels really grainy on the lips due to the glitter or maybe it was just that one shade that I have I don’t know thoughts?

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u/LavishnessAdept5594 — 3 months ago

did i do something wrong

I (20F) and my boyfriend (22M) have been together for 2 years now and we recently got in an argument over something i posted on tik tok.
Lately i haven’t been feeling as confident like i was when i was in high school or a teen, i don’t take pictures like that anymore and just haven’t been feeling like myself , a few days ago me and him went to disney. I had a white v neck top , black capris and i even did my makeup (which i haven’t done in a while) i took hours to get ready ( hair etc,) long story short i took a video of myself in the car because i genuinely felt pretty , posted it on tik tok and showed my boyfriend because he usually hypes me up saying i look good etc ,
his vibe changes like he’s upset
i ask him what’s wrong and he basically says he didn’t like the video i posted , says my cleavage was out and my top was “too much” and he was gonna tell me that before he went to disney and he decided not to. He said I was basically thirst trapping in the video and to watch what i post … I explained to him how i haven’t felt pretty in a while and wanted to post my face and said “so why didn’t you just post your face ?” long story short the conversation didn’t really go anywhere , we just solved it by having sex and i’m really starting to think i can’t wear certain stuff or post certain stuff without him getting mad and idk what to do i do love him but it’s just certain things that just really annoy me .

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u/LavishnessAdept5594 — 3 months ago