(23M)is making my (21F) birthday trip stressful already thoughts?
so me and my boyfriend are planning to go to Vegas for my 21st birthday and part of me doesn’t want me to go because of him I expressed since I’m turning 21 this year that I just like wanted to experience going to a club and him coming with me, he doesn’t wanna come with me. He’s telling me that I can go alone, but to expect him to be upset at me because he doesn’t believe in club culture and people in relationships and go to clubs which I understand but I’m literally offering him to come with me to give him that reassurance that you know I’m not gonna do anything because I’m not. I also just want to have fun like for God sake I’m going to Vegas. and we just like keep having the same argument and just going back-and-forth in circles so we haven’t really dropped that and I’m buying some clothes for the trip and he wanted me to like show him and there’s a particular dress that he doesn’t like that I’m wearing and it’s pissing me off because it’s like dude it’s not your birthday!!!!! My gosh … and I wanted to be there for four days. He suggesting that we’d be there for three because he feels like five or more days or stretched out and we wouldn’t know what to do and he was telling me yesterday that he’s not trying to spend 2 to 300 a day it was just like he’s making us all about him. I was just like so annoying and it honestly makes me like not even wanna go anymore and just the whole thing about like commenting on what I bought like saying you don’t like it.. and for context I’ve just been under a lot of stress this year with work and just life . And the fact that this is stressing me out too is just the cherry on top so I don’t even know what to do. I still want to enjoy my time out there because I do wanna be out of town because like I don’t know anymore.