u/Leggo0fmyEggo

I miss my cancer. I feel I found the true one that got me for me he’s a cancer sun, Scorpio moon and Pisces rising); I’m a Taurus sun and moon, with Scorpio rising.

We pushed each others to the edge, had plans for the future, we were crazy for each others and omg the best sex of my life and idk if I can ever find the same again. I lost a caring man by pushing him away bc I got scared and I want him back.. I thought about texting him that I regret my decision and want us to have an honest conversation and a real plan this time, as I felt we have been leading to nowhere after 5 years. I’m not someone too in tuned with my emotions and I’ve recently mentally destabilized him a lot as he says. I don’t want to give up ... 🥺

Hello all, I am to receive 1M for inheritance and not sure what to do in terms of investment. I already have 350k invested at COTE 100 (not too happy with them, open to suggestions). I am 30 years old, don't know if I want to spend my life in Canada for context/background.

Is it better with private investment firms, or go with the bank simply ? I'm open to diversifying my portfolio with a mix of low and high risk. I don't have anyone to talk about this with and don't want to tell my friends/boyfriend.

Hello all,

Spiralling over a break up decision I made 2 months ago. I broke up with my ex-bf on a reaction after being told "he doesn’t know if he’s continuing things out of habits or love" and I said well if you don’t know what you want I don’t want to stay while you figure it. We had a tumultuous relationship of 5 years (30f, 31m) and we were best friends. I feel like I lost a part of me when I took that decision and it’s been incredibly hard ever since. And he says the same thing that he is losing his best friend and we both cried after that for hours.

I know he has avoidant tendencies, but I also have my own individual issues that I am actively working on; but Idk what about myself bothers him.

I stayed upset over an event that happened regarding a brain scan where I needed him to be there because I was scared I had a tumour, but we had a fight the night prior and told him to not bother. I stayed upset over the fact the morning after he didn’t offer to be there and was playing video games with a girl I didn’t like (and told him to delete); could never sit right with me bc that if we were to have a family I believed the man that I’m supposed to be with should be "my rock" bc of the hormones and all that. I know it’s very demanding, but roles reversed I would not have acted that way. I’m very lost. Everyone tells me this is the right decision, but I feel very conflicted on the "if he wanted to, he would". I can be told I’m crazy it’s all good lol

Kind of just wondering, seeing a lot of women message my bf and wondering why I've never met any of them. It's something I approached and he said "Idk". I didn't insist, but felt odd to me.

My ex-bf and I separated in March. We dated for 6 years. Nothing concrete ever moved, we never moved in and we were together for our twenties. I feel saddened because a lot of our problems were due to lack of communication, but also waiting for him to figure things out (his career). Resentment grew within me when he prioritized playing videogames instead of coming to a brain scan with me. I. His defense, we had a fight and I told him to not come, but roles reversed I would have insisted. Our chemistry completely nullified after that event bc I didn’t feel supported. Many events happened where I felt I wasn’t considered a factor in his decisions. For example, we had plans of moving in and then he just quits his job, but we can’t move in because he doesn’t have an income and then blames me for "being expensive" when I’m asking for dates.

I decided I had enough and broke things off. He even unfollowed me on LinkedIn, which is ironic bc he would not delete a specific girl I asked him to. I’m trying to move on from someone who tells me they’ll forever miss my goofy personality and that they will always love me. How do I recover from a trauma bond like that. I hate it here, I miss him, but I don’t have anxiety anymore