u/LegitimateCraft7689

I know...it sounds insane and now I'm going through a mid-life crisis coz I do want babies. Whenever we try, I get a pain as though im getting stabbed even before it actually goes in. Went to the gynac and she said my vag is normal and its only coz of fear(Been 2 years since that visit). My husband gets frustrated when i tell him it hurts and to stop(even before it actually goes inside). Coz of this we avoid even trying everyday coz of the frustration that comes out of it. So psychologically Im unable to overcome the pain. What else do u think I should try? Dilator therapy? Lubes seem useless as they dry quicker and vaseline doesn't seem to help much as well. And yes we do foreplay.

p.s and TMI: I do help him release in other ways. Like we literally do everything except have actual sex