u/Legitimate_Celery_65

So I work in an group home setting with 3 clients. Two of our clients have 24/7 care but one of our clients has limited hours and only Personal Assistant services. My manager has been scheduling overnight shifts with only one staff member for all 3 clients despite us not logging hours for that 3rd client. We still have to prepare meds for him, cook for him, and are expected to do all the services we would provide for the other clients except charting. I have voiced my concern over safety issues of only having one staff member over night because if we have to take a client to the ER, which has happened before, there will be no one else to stay with the other clients and we aren't allowed to bring them with due to HIPPA. However the more I think about this situation, the more it feels like medicaid fraud. Also I'm only getting payed for one client despite taking care of 3, I know being payed hourly is standard for DSPs, but other positions in my company get payed per client.

My fiance and I are now less then 3 months out from our wedding and are focused on wrapping up all the small details. We sent out save the dates 6 months ago and invites 2 months ago however in the past 2 weeks we have had 5+ people telling us we need to make sure to invite certain people who were previously not on the guest list. Our venu is mostly outside with a covered Pavillion where people will be sitting, so it has a guest capacity limit of 65. We made sure that we invited all immediate family and close friends which fit almost exactly to that 65 limit. We knew some people wouldn't come so we did send out like 5 to 10 extra invites for those but like predicted, they said they couldn't come. I have explained all this to the people who are saying I should invite other people but the response I have often gotten is "well I'm sure they'd appreciate an invite even if they don't come", but the problem is what if they do? Then I'm stuck with a bunch if extended family who I don't really know all to well and a venue too small to hold everyone.

First it was an aunt or uncle saying "don't forget to invite cousin so and so" then my boss for some reason thought it was like a work event for all of our coworkers, and just in the past 2 days my parents and grandparents have brought up 6 different people they want me to invite and I have to reexplain why that's not possible.

Honestly it's not even mostly the venue size limit, I just don't want a bunch of people who I hardly know at such a special day in my life. Most of these people live 20 minutes away and there is like a 50% chance they'd show up just cause they were bored. I'm not a peoples person and the people I do like mean a lot to me, I just really don't want them there and they won't stop asking. I hate the idea of being a bridezilla but honestly I don't think this is me being controlling, I think I'm being perfectly reasonable.

So I'd like to preface this by saying I have ridden on and off through my life and just recently started proper lessons, however I have never owned a horse myself and therefore never had to really understand the difference between different trailers.

My question is, what is the differences between livestock trailers and horse trailers? I googled it and it mostly said that horse trailers are more comfortable because they have rubber mats on the floor and are a bit taller but I've always heard you don't want to transport horses in a stock trailer but never been told why. I'd also like to know how much nuance there is on the subject, like could you transport a horse in a stock trailer for a short distance like 1 hour away? If so, how far is too far? What are the risks other then it just being uncomfortable? Could you turn a stock trailer into a suitable horse trailer by adding padding and other amenities?

I do plan on buying a horse in the DISTANT future but not anytime soon so I'm not trying to transport a horse unsafely but I'd still like to know for the future.