Childhood toileting issues
My son is 9 years old but struggles to know when he needs to go to the bathroom. I have to enforce bathroom time after each meal but there are times when he has accidents in school, or when around other children. I'm really terrified about how he will be treated as he gets older in school. He is in mainstream , he is a bright articulate boy with ASD 1 and ADHD. He has been tested for irritable bowel but it's not that. It's like he can't sense it coming.
Has anyone been through this , or have any tips about how to educate him about it. He is very resistant to me helping him and although he feels bad when accidents happen, he doesn't have the focus or interest to try to learn how to prevent it.