u/Library_soul

My brain is constantly working. Even when I’m sitting quietly or when there’s nothing to do, it keeps talking to me. Sometimes it judges me, like I spoke too loudly, laughed too loudly, or overshared. I start thinking about what the other person must be thinking about me. Deep down I know people are mostly focused on their own lives and probably aren’t paying that much attention to me, but still my brain keeps judging me.

When I have an argument with someone, my mind immediately starts hating that person even if it was just a small fight. I overthink so much that I start telling myself I’ll never talk to them again, or I rehearse what I’ll say if they say something back.

It feels like my brain is never quiet. It’s always occupied with one thought or another. Sometimes, when I feel an argument might happen, I back away beforehand because I know I won’t be able to tolerate it mentally. My mind will keep replaying it again and again.

It doesn’t let me relax. It feels like mental fatigue, like my mind is exhausted all the time. Even on rest days, I never truly feel fresh.

Does anyone else experience this? How do you calm your mind or stop replaying everything constantly?

My brother is very irritating, and not a single cell in my body loves him. I hate him. He is 6 years younger than me but behaves like he’s my older brother. My parents always take his side even when he is wrong, and I feel like they’ve discriminated between us just because I’m a girl.

What happened today was that he said, “Tu ab zyada din nahi hai yaha, jaldi shaadi karke chali jayegi,” even though my parents have no plans of marrying me off anytime soon. He also said, “Tera kuch nahi hai yaha. Ek baar tu gayi toh gayi, baad mein kuch nahi milega,” referring to the property.

I mean, he’s just 17 years old, I think. Who even thinks like this at that age? Even though I don’t want anything from my parents, why does he keep saying these things again and again?

Is this normal? Am I the problem? How do I deal with him?

My brother is very irritating, and not a single cell in my body loves him. I hate him. He is 6 years younger than me but behaves like he’s my older brother. My parents always take his side even when he is wrong, and I feel like they’ve discriminated between us just because I’m a girl.

What happened today was that he said, “Tu ab zyada din nahi hai yaha, jaldi shaadi karke chali jayegi,” even though my parents have no plans of marrying me off anytime soon. He also said, “Tera kuch nahi hai yaha. Ek baar tu gayi toh gayi, baad mein kuch nahi milega,” referring to the property.

I mean, he’s just 17 years old, I think. Who even thinks like this at that age? Even though I don’t want anything from my parents, why does he keep saying these things again and again?

Is this normal? Am I the problem? How do I deal with him?

I have some doubts regarding SBI PO. I started my preparation in May, and now the SBI PO exam is going to be conducted in August. I don’t think I’m prepared at that level yet, though I had planned to give all six exams. But now I’m scared of SBI PO because it’s tougher than the other banking exams.

I also haven’t completed the entire syllabus and have covered only a few topics from each subject. I haven’t even started giving mock tests yet, so I’m confused about how I’ll manage everything. Should I skip SBI PO for now and start giving exams from IBPS PO instead?

At the same time, I also feel that if I skip SBI PO out of fear, I might regret not even trying. I know I’m not fully prepared, but I still want to push myself and see where I stand.

I have some doubts regarding SBI PO. I started my preparation in May, and now the SBI PO exam is going to be conducted in August. I don’t think I’m prepared at that level yet, though I had planned to give all six exams. But now I’m scared of SBI PO because it’s tougher than the other banking exams.

I also haven’t completed the entire syllabus and have covered only a few topics from each subject. I haven’t even started giving mock tests yet, so I’m confused about how I’ll manage everything. Should I skip SBI PO for now and start giving exams from IBPS PO instead?

At the same time, I also feel that if I skip SBI PO out of fear, I might regret not even trying. I know I’m not fully prepared, but I still want to push myself and see where I stand.

When is the right time to start giving mocks for bank exams? I haven't completed the whole syllabus yet, but some topics are done, like simplification, equations, number series, and percentage, along with a few topics of reasoning and English too. I'm solving their PDFs to improve my accuracy. I'm also targeting SBI PO. Please suggest some solutions.

“Hi, it’s my first time applying for SBI PO. Do I need an OBC certificate while filling the prelims form, or is it required later during document verification?”