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F1 Fan Trying Indycar - Help!

Hiya. Ive been an F1 fan since the 2025 season start and am wanting to get into Indycar since i like fast cars, racing, and its closer to home than F1 lol.

I am going to my first F1 race later this year and am attending the Nashville indycar race coming up in a couple weeks. So currently, no irl race experience. Bought the tickets in March, got great seats......but I technically know nothing.

Going to try and watch the race tomorrow once i figure out where the races stream..... but if you had one piece of wisdom/advice for someone going to a race for the first time / coming in new.....what would it be?

I am impressionable, mold me! Lol. Srs thx though :)

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u/LostandParanoid — 1 day ago

Writing Community Tomorrow 6/28!

Come join us tomorrow to meet fellow local creative and writers. Grab a drink, have some conversation, write for a little bit, and expand your network!

All experience levels welcome! See you there :)

u/LostandParanoid — 9 days ago

Be honest

Edit Update: Thank you everyone for the wonderful advice, input, suggestions, kind words, and well wishes. I did not expect for so many people to see this or comment. I thought id get a few responses and then delete this post in shame.

I feel so seen and supported (just like the girls are, I promise lol. Alterations are in process haha). I dont have a strong network so ive been trying to deal with this alone and gosh im just so grateful for you wonderful kind souls. If I dont say thank you to your comment, its because I got busy with my goldens who require attention. Thank you and sending all the positive vibes back at you!

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Please be honest, even if its brutal. I need input.

  1. Fantasy wedding theme. Warrior princess vibe. May even wear a sword on my hip - TBD. Veil is a cape/hood/shoulder armor combo and I love that sort of vibe.

  2. Dress was intl shipped, verrrry expensive, and wedding is in 4 months. There is no changing or returning. Was custom sized.

  3. There have been issues with quality. My seamstress is amazing and fixing the waist area. And I am working with the designer to make things right for the other quality issues.

  4. I ordered it a bit larger than I am which is the waist problem (extra fabric bunching up) because as I was ordering i had a pregnancy and miscarriage and bloated up 80 lbs in a very short amount of time. Pcos + pregnancy + miscarriage has been rough.

I see so many of you beautiful plus size women. Glowing and gorgeous.....and i just wanted to feel that way too. I dont feel special or beautiful....I feel I just look wide and bloated.

Girls, please be honest with me. How bad is this? I dont have people in my life to get feedback from. The few people I do have I know they will always say supportive stuff. Not sure if its body dismorphia as usual or if im justified in it not being a good look. If you agree I dont look great in it, any ideas on how to improve (outside of waist area which will be fixed).

u/LostandParanoid — 10 days ago

Clarksville Writers Nook

See you there! If you haven't any questions please ask below and/or join one of our social links via the qr code in the attached image!

u/LostandParanoid — 23 days ago

Local Writers Community. Meeting #2 Sunday 5/24 at 12pm

Hey yall! Life is so freaking hard sometimes and finding time to write, create, and socialize feels impossible most days. Then if you do find the time writers block strikes or creativity feels absent.

Thats why we made this local writing community. We spoil ourselves with a nice coffee, good vibes, and a little bit of writing and workshop time.

If you have 1.5 to 2 hours this Sunday, 5/24, and want to take a chance on a newer community, Clarksville Writers Nook, is meeting at Wesbrooks on Tiny Town from 12 to 2pm ish. Grab a drink if you want, write some, and workshop with like minded folks.

All levels of Writers welcome, and it is a safe and inclusive space to take time for you and your writing craft. If you have any questions feel free to ask here, on our fb page, on our meetup group, or in our discord, which I recommend joining!

See yall there :)

Attached is a breakdown of how Sunday is gonna go! Our 3rd meetup in early june will lean heavier on writing time with optional sharing.

https://discord.gg/uXTJNqVyZc

u/LostandParanoid — 2 months ago

Local writers feel free to swing by tomorrow for our first community meeting at Wesbrooks! One sentence contest as well!

One sentence submittal must be in person, prize will be announced afterwards and will be for the next meeting!

Prompt: "At midnight, the city changed......"

u/LostandParanoid — 2 months ago

Burnt out and afraid

I am in my 30s and I have been working full time since I graduated highschool, with only 1 week without a job while moving in 2014. I grew up in a very very poor abusive home and have had 0 support system. I built up a successful career from nothing, got my bachelor's in a diff field at the same time and bought a house all by myself. Moved across the country twice, all alone.

My work doesnt fulfill me and it never has. In the past year or so a new boss at work has made it even harder to soldier through. I am too tired to do the things that fulfill me during the work week, and the weekend is just never enough to fill my cup truly. I sit at the computer working and I feel empty to the point of exhaustion. I am not taking care of myself as best I could because of the cycle of stress and depression the work week causes me.

My fiance is so supportive and wants me to quit so I can have a break and find myself again and be happy. He is the most wonderful man and human being I have ever met. He can support us both, even through our big milestone events coming up.

Easy right? But im afraid that if I quit......I will be judged poorly, I will have less value, and ill strain him (even though i know all of this isnt true logically).....

I need advice. Im afraid im wasting away, but im also afraid of taking the leap and losing everything ive worked for.

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u/LostandParanoid — 2 months ago

Hey, we are a newly formed local community writing group, Clarkaville Writers Nook. We have a discord group, a fb page, and a meetup account!

First in person meeting is Sunday 5/10 at 12pm at the Wesbrooks on Tiny Town! Come be social, write, and share if you want.

Join our discord for collaboration writing, chit chat, event notifications, and future contests!

https://www.meetup.com/clarksville-writers-nook/

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/14bNLBduYBK/

Scan the qr code for discord!

u/LostandParanoid — 2 months ago