u/LoverOfE-Olsen

Image 1 — When someone responds like this after I come out
Image 2 — When someone responds like this after I come out

When someone responds like this after I come out

I'm 21F. This was an old childhood friend of mine that reached out after a couple years. He was getting slightly flirty so I worked it into the conversation that I only liked women, and yeah.. you see how that went. The conversation went on for a short while before I stopped responding at all because he was still adding sexual comments in the convo. I ended up deactivating my insta account that night (I do this a lot) and the next morning I had a WhatsApp text from an unknown number asking why I blocked them. It was him 💀. I asked how he got my number and he said he's had it since we were 12. I was pretty damn mildly infuriated, it's been a week and I don't plan on talking to him again

u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 2 days ago

I need book recommendations with these exact factors

Please help! I need new recommendations. I've read a lottttt of sapphic books, I just need to discover more and I'm so glad this subreddit exists! I just found it. I'm looking for any recs that have these factors:

• Happy ending please.

• Spice - I'm happy with vanilla or full on BDSM. Just as long as its either spicy or full of tension and yearning. No fade to black.

• Slow burn.

• NO love triangle. I am happy with anything monogamous or a throuple or more, or anything similar to Nights of Silk and Sapphire by Amber Jacobs. But no love triangle.

• I love a good plot with some tension and even some angst, but please nothing where one of the characters says or does something that should unforgivable.

• No childish toxic behaviour or red flags. This means when there is a character with the personality of a brick wall and cannot communicate for the life of them. As well as the characters purposefully trying to make each other jealous, I dislike that trope quite a lot.

• No Anna Stone (Not that I dislike her! She has quite a few books I liked. But I already know of all her books)

**What my favourites are:** This might help show what I've already read and what types of books I enjoy reading so this might help with the recs! <3

• Bloom Town 1 and 2

• Nights of Silk and Sapphire (part 1, 2, and 3)

• The Safekeep

• Iceberg

• The Lay of You

I'm also open to fanfic recommendations!

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u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 2 days ago
▲ 14 r/Palia

Can I have a ranch with just horses?

I am at ranching level 22 and I don't care much to get it any higher so I'm not actively raising all my animals to their best potential so that I can level up a lot, I've never been *that* invested in the ranching. I am, however, very invested in the horses.

I recently donated all my animals and got a bunch of horses, I'm currently at 16 horses but I saw the red notice that I have 16/10 horses and am over the limit for how many I am supposed to have. Will this do something if I stay over the limit? Will I one day go into my farm and suddenly the game got rid of all my horses except 10? Or can I just ignore that red notice and continue to raise as many horses as I want?

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u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 4 days ago

Any buyers in South Africa?

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I have some large lalaloopsy's to sell and two medium sized ones, if anybody is interested. I was hoping to sell to collectors on eBay but shipping internationally would cost me thousands, so I can't :') If anybody in South Africa is interested in buying, please pop a reply <33 This picture is just my large ones. I want to do a bit of a clean on my medium ones first before offering them

They're all 10+ years old, none are recent releases

All of them have their original outfits and shoes, part of Suzette La Sweet, she does not have her original shoes. None of them have any bumps or bruises or scratches. They are in near perfect condition aside from their clothes being a bit dusty or worn and some of them having a mark or two, but nothing highly visible

Patch Treasurechest boy - R350 (his sleeves are a tad yellow)(I can try wash it out)

Suzette La Sweet - R400 (her dress is in perfect condition)

Snowy Fairest - R400

Feather Tell-A-Tale - R370

I am happy to sell them separately, however I don't mind selling all four to one buyer for R1400 (should be R1520). I'm ABSA and I don't mind using PayPal or any payment method you are comfortable with

u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 9 days ago
▲ 7 r/Dolls

Any Lalaloopsy buyers in South Africa?

I have some old large lalaloopsy's to sell and two medium sized ones, if anybody is interested. I was hoping to sell to collectors on eBay but shipping internationally would cost me thousands, so I can't :') If anybody in South Africa is interested in buying, please pop a reply <33 This picture is just my large ones. I want to do a bit of a clean on my medium ones first before offering them

Also, all of these are 10+ years old, none of them are recent releases.

All of them have their original outfits and shoes, part of Suzette La Sweet, she does not have her original shoes. None of them have any bumps or bruises or scratches. They are in near perfect condition aside from their clothes being a bit dusty or worn and some of them having a mark or two, but nothing highly visible

Patch Treasurechest boy - R350 (his sleeves are a tad yellow)(I can try wash it out)

Suzette La Sweet - R400 (her dress is in perfect condition)

Snowy Fairest - R400

Feather Tell-A-Tale - R370

I am happy to sell them separately, however I don't mind selling all four to one buyer for R1400 (should be R1520). I'm ABSA and I don't mind using PayPal or any payment method you are comfortable with

u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 9 days ago
▲ 7 r/finch

Hi! I'm new to Finch, I'm only on a 30 day streak and I've had a couple questions that I'm a bit too nervous to ask on the discord incase they're dumb or get missed. If anybody is able to help, please do <3

  1. Is there a way to switch the lights in our home off during night time? I like to put my birb in her pajamas once it's around 21:00, and I like seeing that the windows show it's night time, but is there a way to put off lights in our room so it doesn't look like she's sleeping with all the lights on?

  2. Is there a blueberry themed bed? I have a blue door with blue flowers, a blueberry lamp, a blueberry carpet, and blueberry lights. Is there possibly a blueberry bed out there too to sort of complete the set?

  3. Is there a new event every month? Do the same ones repeat every now and then or is every event something that hasn't been done before?

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u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 19 days ago

Please tell me this is the solution to what I've been dealing with, I need to know if this has been happening to anybody else

I've (21F) been on Diane-35 since I was 18. Ever since the past 2 years or so, the skin on my face has gotten extremely sensitive. I'm white and a tad pale but I live in a country in Africa so I'm not exactly pale-pale and I've been in the sun all my life, but for the past 2 years my face would go extremely red on my cheeks, forehead, and chin if I'm either angry, anxious, or getting hot. And no, I don't mean "cute and rosy", I mean red to the point where it's hideous and sometimes starts going purple or to the extent where I looked bruised on my cheek bones. If I'm freezing cold and get under a blanket, my face reacts and gets heated and goes really red again

It has become my biggest insecurity and some people said it was maybe genes but it never used to happen to me, it's only been in the past 2 years and the only thing I can think of would have to be my birth control pills because it's the only thing I've been on. It isn't because of a type of face wash or lotion because I've been switching between different kinds of ones. I am about to stop my birth control because of this because I'm desperate for it to stop, I hate leaving my house because even just a tiny bit of heat or a tiny bit of anxiety makes my face heat up and react in an extremely obvious and horrifying way, I can't even confront anybody when needed or do public speaking because my face reacts in such an intense way

Please tell me, did anybody else experience this while on the pill?

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u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 20 days ago
▲ 687 r/movies

By "worst" I don't mean villains that are great at being terrible. I mean villains who were either super dumb, or maybe just terrible at carrying out their plans, or poorly cast. Or just a villain who was extremely poorly written

I know there are popular ones like the Joker from Suicide Squad (the Jared Leto one), Doctor Doom from the 2015 Fantastic Four movie, etc. I'm a big movie lover and I love a greatly written villain, I'm curious about who people think was the absolute worst

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u/LoverOfE-Olsen — 24 days ago