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Ill share a personal experience I feel other communities are jealous like Hindus I feel christians idk haven't faced or heard anything from them but maybe them also idk

(like i can share an example, officeil pokuna samayath cab van ,shared cab it is , while we were waiting to pick the other person ,

the cab driver saw , there was another building there opposite which was constructed to where we parked while waiting for the passenger to come

and told see now all these muslims will put mahalu and palli and claim the area and get gulf funding and grow ,and the passengers behind me were agreeing saying yes avarku paisa ond and are rich through illegal means , always sidelining us and toehr community and saying where do they get from all are shady and everything and proceedimg to share all racist and went on wanting

I just looked there a board was there infront of the building

It was written Mashallah in arabic

, and i just was shocked at them the literal thoughts they had about us , I asked what's wrong in construction they were like u don't understand they gatekeeping and won't include anyone and make it a muslim area and all ,

I just kept quiet and they went on until the other passenger came ( they ig forgot that I'm a muslim ig because the way they spoke i understood that others carry a lot of hate in their mind or jealousy for us? )

I was left wondering

Do all religions or community feel like this to other and bias or anything if anything let's speak out rather than hating or making assumptions please

Hi ,I started prep this month from basics

I know it's too long my message but any advice or tips is appreciated

Can u also me assess my profile and say whether realistically do I stand a chance at any tier 1 college and best shots and prep strategy

? Anything would be helpful even prep mba and post mba profile building as ik feeling scared whether I can even get a good college as I'm very weak in all 3 and isn't consistent or able to study much with my job

GNEM

10th: 94.2% CBSE

12th: 89.6% commerce, CBSE

BCom : 67.2 %(tier 2 college) no gap year

Workex: 24months (still working ,currently working in my 3rd company in hr , had previously worked 1 year in consulting and 1 year in accounts)

Extracurriculars: 0/5 , no other achievements or ngo or volunteering or sports or anything

I'm confused about the learning process itself and also the strategy to prepare and also while with job as my job timings are 1pm to 10 pm . Should I watch QA/DILR concepts first or pause & solve along? Detailed notes or short revision notes? After lectures, practise/revise/rewatch? For solution videos, just understand or solve along? How often should I revise/recall since I forget formulas/concepts quickly? Should I reattempt solved questions/sets after a few days? Also, how should I analyse mocks (currently \~20–30 overall, negative in QA/DILR), handle unstudied topics from mocks, and decide which mock questions to reattempt?”

Hi ,I started prep this month from basics

I know it's too long my message but any advice or tips is appreciated

Can u also me assess my profile and say whether realistically do I stand a chance at any tier 1 college and best shots and prep strategy

? Anything would be helpful even prep mba and post mba profile building as ik feeling scared whether I can even get a good college as I'm very weak in all 3 and isn't consistent or able to study much with my job

GNEM

10th: 94.2% CBSE

12th: 89.6% commerce, CBSE

BCom : 67.2 %(tier 2 college) no gap year

Workex: 24months (still working ,currently working in my 3rd company in hr , had previously worked 1 year in consulting and 1 year in accounts)

Extracurriculars: 0/5 , no other achievements or ngo or volunteering or sports or anything

I'm confused about the learning process itself and also the strategy to prepare and also while with job as my job timings are 1pm to 10 pm . Should I watch QA/DILR concepts first or pause & solve along? Detailed notes or short revision notes? After lectures, practise/revise/rewatch? For solution videos, just understand or solve along? How often should I revise/recall since I forget formulas/concepts quickly? Should I reattempt solved questions/sets after a few days? Also, how should I analyse mocks (currently ~20–30 overall, negative in QA/DILR), handle unstudied topics from mocks, and decide which mock questions to reattempt?”

Hi ,I started prep this month from basics

I know it's too long my message but any advice or tips is appreciated

Can u also me assess my profile and say whether realistically do I stand a chance at any tier 1 college and best shots and prep strategy

? Anything would be helpful even prep mba and post mba profile building as ik feeling scared whether I can even get a good college as I'm very weak in all 3 and isn't consistent or able to study much with my job

GNEM

10th: 94.2% CBSE

12th: 89.6% commerce, CBSE

BCom : 67.2 %(tier 2 college) no gap year

Workex: 24months (still working ,currently working in my 3rd company in hr , had previously worked 1 year in consulting and 1 year in accounts)

Extracurriculars: 0/5 , no other achievements or ngo or volunteering or sports or anything

I'm confused about the learning process itself and also the strategy to prepare and also while with job as my job timings are 1pm to 10 pm . Should I watch QA/DILR concepts first or pause & solve along? Detailed notes or short revision notes? After lectures, practise/revise/rewatch? For solution videos, just understand or solve along? How often should I revise/recall since I forget formulas/concepts quickly? Should I reattempt solved questions/sets after a few days? Also, how should I analyse mocks (currently ~20–30 overall, negative in QA/DILR), handle unstudied topics from mocks, and decide which mock questions to reattempt?”

I'm sorry to all girls and women

I used to be one of those guys who complained that women ignore "nice guys", choose playboys, and only want stable men when it's time for marriage, while they themselves were fooling around ,hooking up and having a past and high body count

For a long time, I genuinely thought women were being unfair.But after talking to female friends, cousin chechimar , female colleagues at workplace like genuinely trying to be friends or normally other girls also and other guys who have gfs , reading Reddit posts a lot and women perspective and actually paying attention to how dating works, I slowly realised I was judging everything from my own experience as a man, and avarde experiences and thoughts arinjapol it gave me a revelation and i tell u this didn't happen in a day or 2 these last year or so or idk honestly engane ayi actually i stopped being emotional and started analysis or being realistic

The biggest thing I underestimated was how different the dating experience can be for women.

A lot of women receive far more attention, messages, approaches and unwanted interactions than most men ever experience. If someone gets hundreds or thousands of likes on a dating app, realistically, how can they give everyone a fair chance? Most people would become selective too. The algorithm obviously makes this imbalance even bigger.

I also started noticing how some men behave around women , doing favours they wouldn't normally do, replying instantly, changing their personality, agreeing with everything, buying things, or pretending they only want friendship when they actually hope it becomes romantic.that made me understand why some women are cautious about men's intentions.

I also realised that a lot of men don't actually want friendship with women. They want a relationship, sex, casual/FWB, validation, attention, or at least the hope that it eventually becomes romantic. Sometimes the "friendship" is just the route to that.Ten when they're rejected, it's "nice guys finish last" or "she doesn't value me. I feel athukonda girls try to give us mild version or be evasive as they know men have inflated egos and theyve been trained from childhood not to speak back en

And when someone says no, doesn't reply, says they're committed or simply isn't interested, that's enough. Nobody owes us a reply, attention, affection, friendship, a date or a relationship, especially girls i understood

I understand the "not all men" point too. Obviously, not every man is the same. But it's always a man and we play victim mindsrt a lot now and if someone repeatedly has bad experiences with men, it's understandable that those experiences affect how they approach new people. You don't have to agree or say argue with girls for every reaction to understand where it comes from.

Same with women having standards. Men have preferences about looks, ( especially preferring really white skinned or fair girls ) , financially stable, personality, lifestyle, values, education, career, etc. So why shouldn't women have their own? I just realised I was judging women's behaviour using a reality that wasn't theirs.

And that changed my perspective on dating quite a bit.