u/LudirM

Hey everyone!

Relocating from Gurgaon to Hyderabad and joining as a Kindergarten Educator at a school in Banjara Hills from 1st June. Looking for a room in a shared 2–3BHK with 2–3 people. Moving in around 25th–31st May.

About me:

Male, 26, relocating from Gurgaon. I work with young children for a living — calm person, regular hours, easy to be around (genuinely, not just as a line). I cook, keep shared spaces clean, go to the gym, and love cafe-hopping and community spaces. I'm not the type to disappear into my room — I want a home that feels like one.

What I'm looking for in a flat:

• Room in a 2 or 3BHK shared flat
• Semi or fully furnished
• Kitchen access at any hour is a must — fine with a shared cook, but I need to be able to use it freely whenever.
• AC in room preferred
• Sunlight and ventilation matter to me — not negotiable either
• Rent share: ₹8,000–13,000/month
• Move-in: 25th–31st May 2026

Preferred areas (in order of priority):

1. Jubilee Hills (Road 10–15 belt)
2. Erramanzil Colony / AC Guards
3. Yousufguda / Srinagar Colony
4. Masab Tank
5. Khairtabad / Somajiguda
6. Himayatnagar / Nallakunta
7. Himayatnagar Extension / Narayanguda

All within ~25 min of Banjara Hills by bike. Open to anywhere in that window if the people and place are right — I'll figure out the commute.

What actually matters most to me — in order:

The people. I want flatmates who are working professionals, have something going on in their lives, are considerate of shared spaces, and are genuinely good to live with. I'm not filtering by gender, background, or profession — diversity is a plus, not a concern. I do care about the kind of humans I come home to.

After that — the neighbourhood. Proximity to a good cafe, a community space, a badminton court or swimming pool, a dance studio — these things matter to my quality of life more than saving ₹2,000 on rent.

FYI — I'll be bringing a study table, large monitor setup, and office chair via movers. No heavy furniture otherwise.

Landing in Hyderabad on 20th May and viewing places in person from Day 1. Happy to meet before deciding — and I'd expect the same from you.

DM with area, rent breakdown, and photos. Comments work too. Thank you!

Out of sight, out of mind is a cliché. For me it's a lived thing.

I have a friend who's really well-connected in education. Another who knows everyone in the startup space. A cousin who went through something hard last year. And I... just don't think about any of them until something external forces the thought.

It's not that I don't care. I care a lot. It's that my brain doesn't passively maintain people. They go quiet and they disappear, until a WhatsApp notification or a random memory brings them back.

I started looking for something that could help. Not a CRM, I'm not managing relationships like a sales pipeline. Something more like a memory extension. "Hold onto things about people so I can actually show up for them." I couldn't find it.

Something like a Telegram bot. You voice-note into it after a conversation, "just got off a call with Neha, she's going through a job transition, mentioned she wants to get into product", and it stores that. When you're like "who in my life knows about product roles?" it surfaces Neha.

I want to understand - has anyone else dealt with this specific thing? And if so, what have you tried?

Did you find any app that actually helps with this? A notes system? A habit?

Would love to know what's worked (or what's failed) for others.

Out of sight, out of mind is a cliché. For me it's a lived thing.

I have a friend who's really well-connected in education. Another who knows everyone in the startup space. A cousin who went through something hard last year. And I... just don't think about any of them until something external forces the thought.

It's not that I don't care. I care a lot. It's that my brain doesn't passively maintain people. They go quiet and they disappear, until a WhatsApp notification or a random memory brings them back.

I started looking for something that could help. Not a CRM, I'm not managing relationships like a sales pipeline. Something more like a memory extension. "Hold onto things about people so I can actually show up for them." I couldn't find it.

Something like a Telegram bot. You voice-note into it after a conversation, "just got off a call with Neha, she's going through a job transition, mentioned she wants to get into product", and it stores that. When you're like "who in my life knows about product roles?" it surfaces Neha.

I want to understand - has anyone else dealt with this specific thing? And if so, what have you tried?

Did you find any app that actually helps with this? A notes system? A habit?

Would love to know what's worked (or what's failed) for others.

Out of sight, out of mind is a cliché. For me it's a lived thing.

I have a friend who's really well-connected in education. Another who knows everyone in the startup space. A cousin who went through something hard last year. And I... just don't think about any of them until something external forces the thought.

It's not that I don't care. I care a lot. It's that my brain doesn't passively maintain people. They go quiet and they disappear, until a WhatsApp notification or a random memory brings them back.

I started looking for something that could help. Not a CRM, I'm not managing relationships like a sales pipeline. Something more like a memory extension. "Hold onto things about people so I can actually show up for them." I couldn't find it.

Something like a Telegram bot. You voice-note into it after a conversation, "just got off a call with Neha, she's going through a job transition, mentioned she wants to get into product", and it stores that. When you're like "who in my life knows about product roles?" it surfaces Neha.

I want to understand - has anyone else dealt with this specific thing? And if so, what have you tried?

Did you find any app that actually helps with this? A notes system? A habit?

Would love to know what's worked (or what's failed) for others.

Out of sight, out of mind is a cliché. For me it's a lived thing.

I have a friend who's really well-connected in education. Another who knows everyone in the startup space. A cousin who went through something hard last year. And I... just don't think about any of them until something external forces the thought.

It's not that I don't care. I care a lot. It's that my brain doesn't passively maintain people. They go quiet and they disappear, until a WhatsApp notification or a random memory brings them back.

I started looking for something that could help. Not a CRM, I'm not managing relationships like a sales pipeline. Something more like a memory extension. "Hold onto things about people so I can actually show up for them." I couldn't find it.

Something like a Telegram bot. You voice-note into it after a conversation, "just got off a call with Neha, she's going through a job transition, mentioned she wants to get into product", and it stores that. When you're like "who in my life knows about product roles?" it surfaces Neha.

I want to understand - has anyone else dealt with this specific thing? And if so, what have you tried?

Did you find any app that actually helps with this? A notes system? A habit?

Would love to know what's worked (or what's failed) for others.

Out of sight, out of mind is a cliché. For me it's a lived thing.

I have a friend who's really well-connected in education. Another who knows everyone in the startup space. A cousin who went through something hard last year. And I... just don't think about any of them until something external forces the thought.

It's not that I don't care. I care a lot. It's that my brain doesn't passively maintain people. They go quiet and they disappear, until a WhatsApp notification or a random memory brings them back.

I started looking for something that could help. Not a CRM, I'm not managing relationships like a sales pipeline. Something more like a memory extension. "Hold onto things about people so I can actually show up for them." I couldn't find it.

Something like a Telegram bot. You voice-note into it after a conversation, "just got off a call with Neha, she's going through a job transition, mentioned she wants to get into product", and it stores that. When you're like "who in my life knows about product roles?" it surfaces Neha.

I want to understand - has anyone else dealt with this specific thing? And if so, what have you tried?

Did you find any app that actually helps with this? A notes system? A habit?

Would love to know what's worked (or what's failed) for others.