u/LuffyDmeat

I‘m emotionally struggling to get over someone who wronged me. Can you please make dua for me for Allah swt to heal my heart and to give me the outcome he has planned for me 🤲🏼

Thank you 🌸

Hey,

ich habe gemerkt, dass viele Männer direkt sexuell werden und es verwirrt mich, da ich weder sexuell wirke, noch so aussehe, noch solche Andeutung mache. Es ist wirklich nur normales Kennenlernen. Ich glaub vom Aussehen her bin ich auch nur normal, trage kein Kopftuch etc.

Was mich mehr verwirrt ist, da ich Muslima bin, versuche ich dementsprechend jemand muslimisches kennenzulernen. Aber es ist jetzt das 3. mal in kürzester Zeit (obwohl es eine muslimische Dating App ist), dass die direkt über Sex sprechen bzw. mir das anbieten. Teilweise betteln, obwohl sie Anfangs noch von daten Richtung Ehe etc. reden

Hab ich etwas verpasst oder ist das alles irgendwie ein Grenzenaustesten? Ein Machtspiel? Oder mache ich etwas falsch? Oder ist das normal… Ich hab mit 30 Jahren leider auch nicht sooo viel Erfahrung.

Danke für jede Hilfe 🤲🏼

I got my heart broken recently and am very much suffering because of it. I also have an upcoming travel, where I‘ll be travelling alone for 2 weeks until I can go to my grandma and the anxiety is killing me. I don‘t know what‘s wrong with me, please make dua for me

Hey I‘m F30 from Germany (am originally Turkish and Kurdish though) and will be travelling without anyone ever for the first time in my life. (Ok I went to Paris alone once but that‘s been 10 years ago)

I‘m travelling to Istanbul 24th July to 31st and Antalya 31st to 6th August 😭

I also might start stayin 31st July till 3rd or 4th ofAugust in Side, Turkey and then stay in Antalya until I have to leave for the travelbus!

If anyone‘s here who wants to group up, let me know 🥲 I‘m scared as hell haha eventhough Turkey is my second home

Hey I‘m F30 from Germany (am originally Turkish and Kurdish though) and will be travelling without anyone ever for the first time in my life. (Ok I went to Paris alone once but that‘s been 10 years ago)

I‘m travelling to Istanbul 24th July to 31st and Antalya 31st to 6th August 😭

I also might start stayin 31st July till 3rd or 4th ofAugust in Side, Turkey and then stay in Antalya until I have to leave for the travelbus!

If anyone‘s here who wants to group up, let me know 🥲

I got to know someone (muslim guy, same cultural backround) at the beginning of the year and serious mutual interest started around April/May. I'm 30.

For a lot (and I mean A LOT) of reasons it didn't work out. Him not being able to commit truly, long distance and not being able to compromise. I don't want to leave the proximity of my family for a man since my mom doesn't have the best health and I'm the oldest daughter. He did me a lot of injustice as well. Ultimately he dumped me.

I had my heart broken 10 years ago and refused any sort of love in my life. I literally banished it and went on about university, work, friends and family. But I clicked so much with him, even if he stole a lot of my Haqq as time went on.

I'm mourning the future and possibilities. I don't trust men but I trusted him. I'm trying to change my way of thinking because it's just what Allah swt decided for me. But I can't help but feel betrayed and heartbroken by this man. I don't know if I can ever forgive him for how he played with my emotions and treated me unjustly. I still always allowed him back eventhough other people would've cut contact with him a long time ago. All of that just to get left. I had very serious intentions with him…

How do you deal with this? I feel like I'm too ugly to be loved, I feel like something's wrong with me.
There's a blockade; something keeping me from opening up to someone. In real life no man really approaches me or shows interest.
All of what happened these past months really tanked my self esteem.

Thank you if you've read everything up until now and if you have any advice how to proceed ♥️

Was mir aufgefallen ist, ist dass ihr auf jeden Fall eine jüngere Stadt seid als Hamburg. Gefühlt seh ich hier wesentlich häufiger junge Erwachsene etc. als in Hamburg (als 30 jährige)

Dazu auch - ihr seid wesentlich mehr aufgetackelt als wir im Norden haha, war echt krass geflasht, dass der Süden da so anders ist im Vergleich zu uns. Hab den Eindruck wir im Norden sind etwas "chilliger“ drauf.

Gibt es bei euch auch mehr Influencer als bei uns? Kam mir so vor!

Und eure historischen Altbauten sind natürlich Zucker :)