u/M0r1ne

Hello fellow redditors. Last night my mom figured out and straight up told me that she knows I(18M)am gay and she suspected I have a boyfriend.

We were having a conversation and she repeatdly asked me in the past months if I am not gay. I always said no. I called my sister because she knows im gay. Meanwhile my mom texted me who knows from my friends that im gay. And minutes later another text that I should keep it in secrete and i'll go study elsewhere next year, which I was already planning. I replied to that, that I agree. Then she barged in my room full on crying hugged me, kissed me and said she'll always love mé. She asked about my boyfriend if we're together and I said yes and if his parents know. After that my sister called me and said to me that I shouldnt tell her that we're together (WHOOPS). Before she left she turned around and I smiled on her out of shock. She just kind of looked down and looked disappointed – I understand her, her image of my entire future of how she imagined it just got destroyed. After that she went to balcony. My sister called me again and said that mom called her. I cant clearly recall what she was saying sadly.

Through the night she texted me that I should go to sleep that I have work tomorrow and similar stuff. I heard her sobbing from her room to mine, which is a bit of distance. She already has health problems and i dont want her to get worse but at the same time I know I would still need to tell her one day anyway and the reaction would be the same.

I felt reliéf when I told her and I kept laughing during the night when I told 3 of my friends, which I think is a defense mechanism. Now I feel stressed and shook.

We're probobly talking when I come home from work, if she's ready.

Any advices and opinions are welcome (did I do the right or bad thing?)

Hello everyone, me (18M) and my boyfriend (19M) are going long distance from september since he is

starting med school.

Im extatic for him but at the same time I'm scared.

Ik we're young and have our whole lives ahead of us

but we still want to give our best. By the time he

leaves we will be together for just 4 months. I

wanna be there for him everyday and support him

but can a relationship survive the entirerity of med

school? Does anyone have any experience with

dating a med student?

The long distance should last for a year. Im graduating this school year and applying for uni in

the city he will study in (second choice) and a city

that is an hour away.

I plan to visit him every month. But that is just a plan. At home my parents dont know (mom suspects) Im dating a guy so that is an obsticle since the school is across the country (around 6 hours by train)

We've both talked about it and we're scared. We dont know if seeing each other once per month will be enough and if it will satisfy our emotional and physical wants and needs. I plan to send him little handmade gifts throughout the year so me wanting him arent just words but actions. He has also heard that most relationships open, which is a huge NO for me and for him as well

Any advice/comment/reply will be heavily apprciated. Thank you:)

Hello everyone, me (18M) and my boyfriend (19M) are going long distance from september since he is

starting med school.

Im extatic for him but at the same time I'm scared.

Ik we're young and have our whole lives ahead of us

but we still want to give our best. By the time he

leaves we will be together for just 4 months. I

wanna be there for him everyday and support him

but can a relationship survive the entirerity of med

school? Does anyone have any experience with

dating a med student?

The long distance should last for a year. Im graduating this school year and applying for uni in

the city he will study in (second choice) and a city

that is an hour away.

I plan to visit him every month. But that is just a plan. At home my parents dont know (mom suspects) Im dating a guy so that is an obsticle since the school is across the country (around 6 hours by train)

We've both talked about it and we're scared. We dont know if seeing each other once per month will be enough and if it will satisfy our emotional and physical wants and needs. I plan to send him little handmade gifts throughout the year so me wanting him arent just words but actions. He has also heard that most relationships open, which is a huge NO for me and for him as well

Any advice/comment/reply will be heavily apprciated. Thank you:)

Čaute, momentálne som v 3. ročníku na zdravotníckej škole, odbor farmaceutický laborant. Keďže nechcem pokračovať v odbore, ktorý študujem, na prijímacích skúškach sa odo mňa očakávajú vedomosti z biológie a chémie podľa osnov z gymnázia (Prif UK – medicínska biológia a MUNI – lekárska genetika a molekulárna diagnostika, experimentálna a molekulárna biológia).

Biológia na zdravotníckej škole je zameraná najmä na klinickú časť a s učivom na gymnáziách sa takmer vôbec nezhoduje. Neviem, ako sa mám na prijímačky pripraviť sám, keďže je toho obrovské množstvo. Preto by bolo najlepšie nájsť si niekoho, kto pripravuje študentov na prijímacie skúšky a zároveň by bol ochotný so mnou dané učivo prebrať a vysvetliť.

Zároveň sa chcem spýtať, či nepoznáte niekoho, kto má skúsenosti s týmito odbormi alebo univerzitami. Ďakujem za každú radu!!!