u/Majestic-Gas-9825

This is seriously affecting my confidence which is already shot, but when I was in a relationship, I couldn't finish even after 15-20 minutes of sex. Usually after that time I would stop because things were getting boring and I would grow more and more frustrated or I would continue masturbating until I was close to finishing (which sometimes also took a while) and resume having sex to get the orgasm.

There's also the aspect that I wasn't physically attracted to my ex girlfriend so I thought because I was forcing myself, things were getting more difficult than it should be. And I was also into porn daily and I thought my dick was dead from all that masturbation over the years.

Fast forward and after my relationship ended, I met another girl. It was exciting to meet a new person after a long time, we dated and things were nice and I was looking forward to meeting her again. But then again, same situation as before, I am not truly physically attracted to her but I thought if I wanna rebuild my life, I must start somewhere. After our date, things escalated quicker than I expected and we ended up at my place to have sex. Although we sexted just minutes prior to that and it actually turned me on, when it came to having sex I had troubles getting it up. Eventually I got a bit hard and we started having unprotected sex which is stupid but it is what it is. However I got turned off again by her, don't wanna get into much details but it felt like she was really inexperienced and it felt she did nothing right, the way she moaned was more like something you'd hear when someone is in pain rather than feeling pleasure, the kissing and even the thought of having her naked in my bed made me feel uncomfortable.

We stopped having sex after I had a lucid moment and told her we shouldn't risk without protection, we cuddled for a few minutes and she seemed dead set on making me cum even though I told her it takes more than the average time for me to do so, so she gave me a blowjob but I don't remember having finished from one ever and after a while she finally stopped. At that point I was already in my head, I wanted it to stop completely and have her leave but I didn't say anything because I didn’t want to hurt her.

Anyway, I tried sleeping on that whole situation because after it, I felt awkward and freaked out. I am not sure what seems to be the problem with me, like is it psychological, is it hormonal? I kept telling myself I should do some blood work and get that T levels checked because I suspected for a while that it might be low (I feel like my libido was high in my 20s and it has dropped in my 30s).

Salut, de ceva timp am observat ca nu reusesc sa maresc greutatea cu care fac exercitiile. Aici ma refer cam la toate exercitiile, ca un exemplu la lat pulldowns am ramas de ceva timp la 58 kg si daca fac cu urmatoarea greutate, de 64 kg, nu pot sa fac mai mult de 3-4 repetari si nici pe alea nu le fac cu o forma foarte buna. Nu stiu daca merita sa fac asa pana reusesc sa ma obisnuiesc si sa ajung la 8-10 repetari cum urmaresc sa fac de obicei.

Intrebarea mea e cam care ar putea fi cauza/cauzele? Nivelul de testosteron? Alimentatia? Am 1.76 si vreo 76 kg, incerc sa fac un lean bulk ca mi se pare ca nu prea am pus masa musculara in anul asta de cand am inceput sa merg la sala. In principiu merg la sala 5 zile pe saptamana, fac un fel de PPLRPP.

Been on Tretinoin for a few years now, I started using it mostly for its anti-aging benefits and from what I've seen, 0.05% is the sweet spot so that's what I am using for a few months/year.

Anyway, even with Tretinoin, these pimples keep showing up from time to time. The worst part is that they leave these red marks on my face and they stay there for a very long time. This is extremely frustrating for me and I can't seem to find the root cause. Like I try to eat as healthy as possible, been cooking my meals for almost a year, I try to keep myself hydrated, I change the pillowcase every 1-2 weeks and still nothing seems to work.

I don't know what else to do at this point. I am using Cerave cleanser + Vitamin C (only added it recently) + Cetaphil moisturizer + Beauty of Joseon/Roche Posay Anthelios sunscreen in the morning, then Cerave Foam Cleanser + Tretinoin 0.05% + moisturizer in the evening.

Edit: it won't let me upload photos directly, so I had to use Imgur:

https://imgur.com/a/x27eoSx

Salut, sper sa nu fie contra regulilor sub-ului, dar daca e cineva din Iasi in cautare de anvelope de vara cu specificatiile din titlu, ma puteti contacta si le dau la un pret cinstit. Anvelopele au fost pe masina mea, cred ca am facut 2k, maxim 3k km cu ele, apoi le-am schimbat pe ceva CrossClimate si raman cu alea de-acum.

Am zis sa intreb aici mai intai ca sper si cred ca sunt oameni seriosi si mai degraba incerc aici inainte sa pun anunt pe OLX.

Daca e nevoie, pun si alte informatii + poze.

DOT 2125

I'm on Finasteride since 2019, I started it without medical supervision because where I live, doctors are reluctant to prescribe it for hair loss. When I started it, I vaguely remember that my libido increased for a few weeks, I was already high libido (or thought so), so it was a bit annoying because my partner at that time wasn't as driven as me, but it toned down after that initial phase, like back to baseline.

Anyway, to the point: for a year or two, I felt my sex drive has dropped. I can't tell for sure if it's all in my head, if it's porn, if it's other factors I can't point out right now contributing to it aswell, but for this period of time, I didn't enjoy nor want sex with my partner anymore. There's one thing to mention, I wasn't really attracted to her to begin with, but for example back then if I'd go one week without masturbating, I'd still wanna do her and I'd have orgasm pretty quickly. In the last year if I went one week without masturbating, I'd feel some urge but not all the time and sometimes it'd be pretty weak compared to what it used to be.

Bottom line is, my question is can this be attributed to Finasteride use, like I'd expect that after a few years of usage where I had no issues, it shouldn't become an issue after that. I know it's hard to tell and probably would need to do some blood work to get a better idea, but I was wondering if anyone else experienced this.

In the meantime, I started eating more clean, stopped porn frequency, started working out, but broke up with my partner which sort of made me depressed tbh and I don't think much about another partner anymore.