u/MajesticRate1818

There’s this girl I always see at events in my city. Met her a couple times and have had conversations with her before but there always one issue.

Every-time I speak to her it’s almost like the conversations reset to zero. It’s like I’m a complete stranger to her at every event I go to. Plus she doesn’t even say hi or anything unless I have to go up to her and get her attention otherwise she can walk right infront of me and pass me like I don’t exist despite having convo with her in the past where she was engaged so it’s like she pretending to not know me.

Today was invited out by friends, and we got to an event that woman was there again. But then my friend recognises her and decided to go talk to her but I was just there he and my other friend were talking to her and her friend I was just in my phone.

After that we engage in 4 way convo but I don’t bother to pay her any mind there’s times we stand almost side by side but I pretend I don’t even know her. No look at her no hi no nothing unless if my friend talkin to her about something I just join in but I don’t make it direct convo to her. Am I being an asshole?

Tldr:Girl I see regularly at events acts like we’re strangers every time despite multiple conversations in the past. At the latest event I matched her energy and didn’t acknowledge her either unless it was through the group conversation. Was I being an asshole?

There’s this girl I always see at events in my city. Met her a couple times and have had conversations with her before but there always one issue.

Every-time I speak to her it’s almost like the conversations reset to zero. It’s like I’m a complete stranger to her at every event I go to. Plus she doesn’t even say hi or anything unless I have to go up to her and get her attention otherwise she can walk right infront of me and pass me like I don’t exist despite having convo with her in the past where she was engaged so it’s like she pretending to not know me.

Today was invited out by friends, and we got to an event that woman was there again. But then my friend recognises her and decided to go talk to her but I was just there he and my other friend were talking to her and her friend I was just in my phone.

After that we engage in 4 way convo but I don’t bother to pay her any mind there’s times we stand almost side by side but I pretend I don’t even know her. No look at her no hi no nothing unless if my friend talkin to her about something I just join in but I don’t make it direct convo to her. Am I being an asshole?

Tldr:Girl I see regularly at events acts like we’re strangers every time despite multiple conversations in the past. At the latest event I matched her energy and didn’t acknowledge her either unless it was through the group conversation. Was I being an asshole?

I would assume the investment don’t need to be too much an to don’t need to take them to dinners and plan loads of activities with them. What is the right way of setting up dates or meet-ups with them especially on a Sunday ?

Had a good chat for around 20 mins mostly platonic had few laughs here and there and she asked for my insta and said she doesn’t usually remember to add ppl when she comes to these event? Do women typically ask guys for their social media… she complimented my accent too

Had a good chat for around 20 mins mostly platonic and she asked for my insta and said she doesn’t usually remember to add ppl when she comes to these event? Do women typically ask guys for their social media… she complimented my accent too