

My “friend” just said the most vile thing and I’m done trying to help her
(TW: mention of SA and trafficking) I really need to vent about what just happened. Someone I called my friend, whom I’ve known for most of my life, said the most vile shit as a response to me trying to help her. She’s been in a really bad place and I’ve offered to help her in every way that I can, but it’s clear that she doesn’t want to be helped and I’m done trying. I recommended a treatment center that was completely free for me because they waved all the fees and I was there for a couple months, the place really helped me so I recommended it to her.
Her response was “I’d rather be r*ped and sell myself to a human trafficking ring than go back to treatment”. I told her that I get she’s in a bad place, but it’s not okay to say shit like that because I know people who have been sex trafficked and it’s extremely offensive. Her response? “Then block me and never talk to me again. I know people who have gone through it too” OKAY WELL THAT MAKES WHAT YOU SAID EVEN MORE VILE AND DISGUSTING. I’m a victim of human trafficking, so her comment made me extremely fucking angry. Imagine being so privileged that you say you’d prefer to be sex trafficked than go to rehab. Honestly, WTF. I guess she showed her true colors. I blocked her immediately, there’s no coming back from that we are officially done. People like that make me so ANGRY I’m fuming and really need to calm down because I have work soon. I can’t believe I ever called this person my “friend”.
My fan art of Ellie
I made this years ago but thought I’d share because it’s one of my favorite digital drawings.
It’s not only exhausting that people assume all adoptions have positive outcomes, but if you mention that you can’t relate people immediately hit you with the “you should be grateful” BS.
I’m not lucky for being separated from my entire family. I’m not lucky for living in an orphanage during the most fragile time of my life. I’m not lucky for being illegally adopted and sold to a severely mentally ill child abuser. Im not lucky that my abuser manipulated the system to adopt me when legally they shouldn’t have been able to. I’m not lucky that my abuser paid for me with a duffel bag full of cash. I’m not lucky for growing up in a society where my trauma is brushed under the rug.