u/MathematicianNo8975

Being Telugu parents Baadithulu about marriage pressure, has anyone ever considered contract marriage or marriage in just name.

I keep having this thoughts as a woman after hitting 30 since my Mum is treating me as I have commited Treason.

And all the nosy relatives asking the questions of marriage just putting her in bad mood who is in turn pressuring me.

I feel this is the only ideal solution that satisfy everyone but can be too dangerous as I will not be sure of safety and may involve financial risks in the institution of Indian marriage

My Mom is resenting me a lot as I am yet unmarried at 32. I have noticed this as soon as I hit 30s.
She questions every choice of mine.
I am in a very high paying job and it also demands lot of my time.
She knows I work long hours still taunts me for not helping on house work.
She compares me with my married cousins who are handling kids and job knowingly that their jobs are not that demanding. Both of them full time house help BTW

I have suggested hiring full time house help but she is not okay with as there is not lot of “work” to deal with and house help will not be doing good job

Today I was just suggesting cutting my hair short since it’s right now at buttocks length and had become thinner due to various factors.

Somehow our argument landed in me not marrying because I am lazy to not take “responsibility” of husband and kids.

Mind you I am already handling everything financially and mostly shopping to health care and everything apart from house chores. And I know I would be responsible for her even if I had to get married. So yeah it would be double the responsibility.

Honestly I don’t want to really take additional responsibility and that’s my choice. Why cannot they understand it.

Hi y’all,

Due to lots of stress in recent days, I was looking for Therapist. Found one based on Internet review and had my first session. I was little emotional and based on our conversation, They said it’s clear cut case of depression. They also prescribed some meds and said it’s very important for me cut some slack on my work for at least next 1 week. So still wondering can someone based on 30 mins conversation?

Edit: He is Psychiatrist. He is done MD in psychiatry. One of the reason I have shortlisted him was 20 year experience and provides Psychotherapy.

Why I am second guessing is basically I expected no diagnosis for at least 2 - 3 sessions

Hey folks,

I am looking for Therapist in North Bengaluru. Please recommend some of the therapist I can consult for. Preferably in Vidyaranyapura, Yelahanka, BEL, Sahakar Nagar. Can’t trust google reviews. Please suggest from your own experience

Hey Folks,

We are visiting Koh phangan for next full moon party.
We are trying to book the stay.

We found a good AirBnB which is 6km far from the location. So want to understand the transport part of it?

Should I find something closer. Any recs for stay is also appreciated

Hi all,

I am currently working as senior software engineer with 10 YOE.

I have partnered with Security team in many of my projects review.

I do find the role very interesting.

So was thinking of Pivoting to Security

My idea is that currently look for Appsec first then transition to AI security.

For this move,

I am planning to start with CCSP prep. Is this right thing to do?

Has anyone pivoted at later stage in your career?

If things work out, should I consider starting as junior prodsec pr can I use leverage my experience to take the leap?