Hospital told my wife's procedure was authorized, now it’s in collections and nobody can explain the bill

I’m really hoping someone here has dealt with something like this because I honestly have no idea what I’m supposed to do.

Last summer, my wife's ENT told her she needed 4 procedures. One was in-office and the other 3 were going to be done at the hospital. A few months later, they started working on scheduling and prior auth. One of the procedures, involving the Eustachian tube, was apparently having trouble getting authorized. We told them very clearly that if insurance doesn’t authorize it, we're not doing it. They told us they were working on it and would cancel if they couldn’t get it approved.

A few months later, they told us everything was authorized. I asked multiple times because I had already warned them that we wouldn't do the procedure if it wasn't approved. The hospital was very weird at the beginning, asking us if we would still do it if unapproved. Like, who would? They said yes multiple times, everything was approved, so we carried on.

Before the hospital visit, the hospital told us we had to pay a little over $2,000 up front. They showed us the breakdown and it included her deductible (we each have a $600 one), so we paid it. Then the bills started showing up later.

The earlier in-office procedure was billed separately, came in the mail later, and suddenly I had another bill for about $900, including around $600 toward my deductible. That made no sense because we had already paid the hospital over $2,000 and the hospital's own estimate showed her deductible being included.

We've spent the last 6+ months going back and forth with hospital billing and Accolade (which we have to use for our insurance). Nobody will give us a straight answer.

Eventually, Accolade told us that the Eustachian tube procedure was never actually authorized. Apparently that’s why we're now responsible for the full charge, which looks like it could be tens of thousands of dollars. But the hospital told me multiple times that it was authorized, and I specifically told them I would not do it without authorization.

And somehow!!! (this is the even more ridiculous part) the other numbers still don't make sense either. I am a numbers guy, and none of them line up. It doesn't matter how many times i try getting on the phone with their billing department and/or Accolade, it all ends in word salad, non-answers.

Last week we sent the insurance a written dispute after Accolade told us to do that. Accolade said they would contact the hospital/provider for letters of medical necessity. Meanwhile the insurance responded saying they won't even review the dispute of the insurance claim without a letter of medical necessity. When we asked Accolade for an update on "where is it?" they are suddenly giving us the same word salad that the hospital did. I can't believe it.

I have no idea what that is supposed to mean. Isn't that something the doctor/hospital sends to the insurance company? I've never been given one. Now, to make things even worse, we got a letter today saying the debt has gone to collections. We haven't ignored this debt! We've been fighting with the hospital and insurance for months trying to get someone to explain what the hell happened.

So what do we actually do now?

Do we need to get the full claim history and all the EOBs? Demand the hospital's prior auth records? Ask for proof of what was submitted and approved? File an insurance appeal? Dispute it with the collection agency? Talk to a lawyer?

Does the fact that the hospital repeatedly told us the procedure was authorized, after I explicitly, multiple times, said I wouldn't do it otherwise, matter here? I mean who even in their right mind would do a unapproved procedure?

I'm completely lost. Any advice from someone who's dealt with hospital billing/prior auth/insurance appeals would be hugely appreciated. There is a clock ticking on both this debt collection notice and insurance claim appeal and we just feel so defeated. I hate this system.

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u/McFlurriez — 1 day ago
▲ 1 r/gpu

FB Marketplace GPU Scams?

Here is yet another RTX 5090 marketplace item that I am pretty sure is a scam (clearly a chatgpt-written description):

https://preview.redd.it/cigg3eaph6kh1.png?width=360&format=png&auto=webp&s=fda0cd74c9569321de97dc0af418c84579da38f0

The fact that this person even wrote "I know there are a ton of GPU scams on Marketplace" is something...

All of them say the same things. "I don't have the receipt anymore." "I bought it from a friend." "It's in storage but I'll pull it out before we meet." What is the next move for these scammers when it comes to testing it in a rig if I say let's meet? Are they expecting people to not test them? Are the chips swapped out with some other chip?

The last person I talked to, his profile photo looked AI generated with that typical bokeh filter. I did a reverse image search and not a single hit across multiple sites. Are they even expecting to come as a different person? Or is there some last minute "My cousin will drop it off" sort of thing going on? Trying to navigate the minefield here, any insight appreciated.

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u/McFlurriez — 1 day ago

Walmart changed the price of my groceries after ordering them

Hopefully this helps others, I just can't believe this happened today. Small amount of money, but the principle of it pisses me off.

Oui Mango Yogurts were on sale. $1! The usual price was $1.82. I got all excited with my wife and ordered the max, 10. Exciting day for me.

Later on my wife wants me to add green onions to the order while the window is still open to add things. I do that, then I happen to check the order page. I then see my 10 mango yogurts for.. $18.20. I couldn't believe it, and I thought maybe they just put the current price on shelves back on this order page but not on my invoice. I go to the print invoice button... $18.20.

I did chats with Walmart support but they were useless. They did say the price can change.

So watch your orders before they arrive people. Walmart can change the price before it gets delivered.

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u/McFlurriez — 2 days ago
▲ 4 r/oMLX

Favorite 3rd Party Fan Apps?

I watched a video of a guy running oMLX inference with and without an external fan attached to his MBP, and he had at least a 50% speed up. I confirmed with the stats app that by default macos lets the gpus get way too hot before turning on the fans. I tried a couple apps but nothing was low footprint. Does anyone have recs for an efficient process to trigger fans on for the gpu more aggressive than the default?

Update: I ran my own tests, doing a speed bench on my M4 Max while running stats and having stock fan profiles. I'm seeing average GPU temp at 165F / 74C. That is nuts. Significant thermal throttling happens at that point.

Update 2: One of the comments pointed me to the project that is used inside MTPLX: https://github.com/ProducerGuy/ThermalForge

I believe this is the best option right now (I have tried alternatives but they either have high resource usage or require manual control).

All profiles use max(cpuTemp, gpuTemp) as the single decision input. Hopefully more fine tune control can be implemented eventually. For a quick read, below is the exact speed each profile applies at each temperature.


Balanced

Start: 55°C → Ceiling: 70°C → Max: 60% | Curve: ease-in (quiet start, accelerates as heat builds)

Temp Fan Speed
55°C 0%
57°C 1%
59°C 4%
61°C 10%
63°C 17%
65°C 27%
67°C 38%
69°C 52%
70°C 60%

Performance

Start: 55°C → Ceiling: 65°C → Max: 85% | Curve: linear (direct proportional)

Temp Fan Speed
55°C 0%
56°C 9%
57°C 17%
58°C 26%
59°C 34%
60°C 43%
61°C 51%
62°C 60%
63°C 68%
64°C 77%
65°C 85%

Max

Start: 65°C → Ceiling: 65°C → Max: 100% | Curve: instant (binary on/off, no proportional zone)

Temp Fan Speed
< 65°C 0%
≥ 65°C (sustained) 100%

Smart

Start: 53°C → Ceiling: 85°C → Max: 100% | Curve: S-curve (smooth at both ends)

Temp Fan Speed
53°C 0%
58°C 7%
63°C 23%
68°C 45%
73°C 68%
78°C 88%
83°C 99%
85°C 100%

Notes

  • Silent profile hands off to Apple's fan controller entirely — no ThermalForge fan control.
  • All profiles have a 5°C hysteresis deadband between stop (50°C) and start (53–55°C) to prevent fan chattering.
  • Global safety override: anything ≥ 95°C forces fans to 100% regardless of profile.
  • Sustained trigger: fans won't engage until the temp stays above startTemp for the profile's trigger duration (4s–8s).
u/McFlurriez — 20 days ago

Real parallel task execution with 2 local machines?

Hey all,

I have two physical machines running local OpenAI-compatible endpoints simultaneously:

  • Machine 1: Running Qwen 27B Dense
  • Machine 2: Running Qwen 35B-A3B MoE

I’m trying to get actual parallel DAG execution on local hardware, but with low effort prompting (i.e., I don't need to make some sort of yaml config for every thing I want to do).

My goal workflow:

  1. My "pool" of machines has 1 heavy model and 1 fast model.
  2. During scoping/planning/investigating, the heavy model will pick the task and run it. The machine running the fast model will be idle.
  3. Tasks generated from the scoping/planning/investigating can then be shared by both the heavy model and the fast model.
  4. Independent tasks execute in parallel at the same time across all available machines (in this case, 2).
  5. Once there is only a heavy task remaining in the dependency graph, heavy model kicks in again while fast model is idle.

I saw one post here from 2 months ago that used llama-swap on a single GPU. That configuration is sequential turn-by-turn swapping. Since I have two warm endpoints, I want both GPUs saturated when there are independent tasks.

I know that you can "just build it yourself," but I would like to know if anything like this has already been built and/or if people are using it? There's a ton of code out there being generated these days, and each experiment into a different tool takes significant effort to investigate for feasibility. I'm trying to narrow my search down before I spin my wheels too hard looking for something that works.

For people who have actually got this running:

  • Can you effortlessly use this tool via simple prompting?
  • How are you handling workspace isolation and/or build locks when running parallel editing subagents?

Thanks you!

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u/McFlurriez — 24 days ago
▲ 11 r/ollama

Best C++ Local Model? (July 24th 2026 Edition :-P)

I apologize that this question has been asked in various flavors over time, but I couldn't find anything in the posts before that matches the options I have.

I have a PC and a mac, both available in my network for agentic work.

My PC specs are:

  • RTX 5080 16 GB VRAM
  • Intel i7-13700K
  • 32 GB RAM

My mac specs are:

  • M4 Max
  • 48 GB RAM

I have been using unsloth's qwen3.6-35b-a3b on both machines with Kilo Code as my harness. Both of them have been performing subpar with a small (<10 source files) C++ project. On my PC, I get around 80t/s with a context window of 200k. On my mac, I get around 90t/s with a context window of 150k.

Am I already at the pinnacle of local models for C++ agentic work? Is my model optimal? My harness optimal? I feel like I'm spinning my wheels with the results I get from my current agent. Thanks in advance.

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u/McFlurriez — 26 days ago

The best supported agent with clear docs on llama.cpp usage?

Someone asked this question 5 months ago for ollama, but I'm hitting this issue with llama.cpp. I've been banging my head on this for a day, so any help would be appreciated.

I have a llama.cpp server running locally. I would like to simply use an agent on jetbrains that has all the proper bells and whistles attached.

Every agent I try has issues. If they don't hang or have other weird quirks, when I finally go to add a "custom" or "open ai compatible" model server, it always tells me "credits are stored in our database, but you must edit your own settings file."

There is never a way to peak into the database, see the connect/disconnect between this database and the non-existing settings file, make sure the ids match, or even find the docs that can just say "here is how you integrate with jetbrains IDEs." I have tried kilo, tried opencode, tried omp, and I never get to a working solution.

To note, I am purposely not running this through LM Studio on Windows, because there are performance and resource issues. Similarly with ollama.

Could anyone direct me on how to do this? Or if not, any blog they found that literally says, "here is the config file that you need to drop into this particular location so that the Jetbrains integration works"? Thank you!

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u/McFlurriez — 27 days ago
▲ 1 r/piano

Fixing Digital Piano Body Scratches?

As a surprise for my wife, I would love to be able to fix the scratches on her Yamaha P-125A. Unfortunately I don't know where to start. The body feels somewhat smooth, but somewhat matte, if that makes sense. Is there any kits or products or processes that are common to fix something like this? Thank you!

u/McFlurriez — 1 month ago

MusicXML Import Broken?

I made a previous post about MIDI to score translation, but then I found out that Synthesia supports MusicXML (or so it says). I first opened a MusicXML file in MuseScore Studio to confirm that the score is correct. Then, I loaded that identical MusicXML into Synthesia, and it's completely wrong.

Did anyone else encounter this?

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u/McFlurriez — 1 month ago

Any automated way to improve MIDI to score translation?

I downloaded the most popular MIDI for Fantasie Impromptu by Chopin, but I noticed that the left and right hand assignments are off compared to the score when imported into Synthesia.

I believe there is some manual editor, but I'm worried about spending more time editing scores than playing piano. Are there any tools to help this score translation process? Or does everyone just live with the best guess that Synthesia does?

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u/McFlurriez — 1 month ago

Severe road rage incident, will there be justice from filing a report?

I am shaken up from an intense road rage incident. A driver floored their car to get in front of me from another lane, then proceeded to break check me three different times as I attempted to get out of the way over and over. I have dashcam footage and their license plate. If I file a police report, will it actually be addressed? Will I find out the resulting action? Is there anything else I can do?

Thankfully my baby daughter was not in the car for this drive, but it terrifies me and I want to make sure this person does not do it again to someone else.

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u/McFlurriez — 1 month ago

4 days of no groceries, Walmart support says they are "out of drivers", thoughts?

I have been using Walmart+ since last November. There have always been hiccups here and there, but overall it was providing it's value. However, the last 4 days, every order I made became "delayed" where it would eventually never arrive.

I have read some other threads about some company named Spark? Is all of this new? What is the point of paying for Walmart+ if you can't have your groceries delivered?

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u/McFlurriez — 1 month ago

Recs on Muscle for Hire / Furniture Moving Help?

I have to move a sofa from one unit to the other in my apartment building (I am changing units). Does anyone know of alternatives to TaskRabbit or Lugg for something like this? Or perhaps a Facebook group? It looks like TaskRabbit has up to a 50% service charge and Lugg isn't too far off. I wish I could do it myself, but I'm not strong enough.

If anyone has recs, I would greatly appreciate it! It's honestly a small job.

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u/McFlurriez — 2 months ago

PSA: If you a visiting, non-local, Marketplace automatically puts your messages in SPAM

For days, my wife and I tried to get a baby play mat while visiting family back home. It was immediately clear that something was up on the 4th day of us trying. I went as far as messaging people about their croissants or cookies on sale and getting no replies.

Taking my relative's phone, I attempted to contact any of the sellers we tried, and INSTANTLY, we get a response back. I dug into this, and the answer is that you are literally thrown into spam by FB if you are trying to contact sellers outside of your home region. EVEN IF your location is set to that place, it does not matter, you will be put in spam.

Hope this messages gets to those who were as dumbfounded as we were. What a waste of time.

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u/McFlurriez — 2 months ago

Exam Academic Integrity Email, Standard Procedure?

In an intro CS course, we received an email about reporting any irregularities during our exam. Is this a standard, send-after-every-exam sort of thing? Or does this imply that something happened? I ended up below average on the exam (again), and I have been very suspicious of cheating, because I really didn't feel below average, but maybe I am just stupid. Curious if this is standard procedure or not? Thank you!

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u/McFlurriez — 2 months ago

Surviving CS103, Is 3 Hours of Review Session Worth It?

There is a big 3 hour slot for review before the CS103 final exam. Every other exam review in CS103 that I attended never helped for the actual midterm. Instead of going over questions at a meta competitive level, they would zoom in to particular question nuances only and not teach tips/tricks to actually be better at a high level. Is the final exam review session typically different? Are there ever actual hints that can save a couple percent?

If anyone has experience passing CS103, I would greatly appreciate the input. I got a 50% on the last midterm.

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u/McFlurriez — 3 months ago

Recommendations for ADHD Primary Care / Psychiatrists in LA?

I came from Northern California, where I could meet with my primary care doctor once every 3 months and have my ADHD medication filled for 3 months. I was of course first diagnosed with a psychiatrist, but then I transferred my medical maintenance over to my primary care doctor.

I have been struggling to find a similar situation in LA. Cedars Sinai does not at all prescribe ADHD medication from any doctor in its network. I tried ZocDoc, and that doctor also refused anything longer than 30 days (because he wants his copay every month). Then he left ZocDoc less than a month after I saw him.

Could anyone at all provide me with their doctors that are willing to prescribe ADHD medication to a long term case of a 30+ year old stable adult with no other comorbidities? Regulations (Pharmacies?) started pushing that your doctor needs to be local, and that is why I had to find a new one here. I have tried for over a year with no luck. Thank you.

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u/McFlurriez — 3 months ago

This school is difficult, and sometimes you just fail.

For those of you who failed like I did, just know you aren't the only ones.

After losing my job in tech, and having death in the family due to illness, I wanted to attempt a master's degree here. I wanted to have enough credentials for people to take me seriously, so that I could contribute to solving this illness. It's been a long time since my undergrad, and I wasn't the strongest student due to family difficulties, although I was always curious. I joined as a CGOE here, paid for two courses out of pocket, and put as much time and energy as possible into getting good grades with two courses. I was doing great until the very end, in which case I somehow completely failed my midterm exam.

I had planned to take CGOE courses for a year, keep up with the minimum B average needed, and use my good performance to go back to school. But I failed. I'm just not bright enough, and sometimes that's just how it is. Sometimes we can't be the change we want to see in the world.

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u/McFlurriez — 3 months ago

Any escalation paths when individualized grading is being refused for group projects?

I'm in the standard nightmare group project scenario. It is nearing the final weeks, and I have been the one doing 90% of every deliverable. I have talked to the professor before, and they said that they "may" do individualized grading with "one" of the 3 other group members, for one of our deliverables, and that was a much smaller weight.

Since day 1, I have been pushing my group to contribute and nothing comes of it. It is all malicious compliance where they say "yeah definitely for sure it's happening!!!!!!" and literally nothing happens. Every time.

After my previous conversations with the professor, they added "team contribution" sections. However, I have confirmed they are literally fluff designed for the students who aren't smart enough to confirm/deny they actually imply individualized grading or not.

Everyone has their own situations, and I have my young infant to take care of, yet I am still delivering. I am really hoping there is some formal escalation path I can take to make this fair. "Academic Integrity" seems to only work against you, but never in your favor. Can someone here please tell me otherwise?

Edit: I don't understand the down votes. What was the issue with the post?

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u/McFlurriez — 3 months ago

Closest Consumer Electric Scooter Comparable To Lime?

I have been using Lime in my city quite a bit, almost daily, and I have been thinking about getting one myself instead of continuously paying for it. With that being said, I have been having a hard time finding an electric scooter that has the same commercial beefiness of a lime scooter:

  • always on gps tracking 24/7
  • electronic immobilization
  • motion/tamper detection
  • remote disable
  • loud tamper alarms
  • etc.

I know that the only true deterrence is of course keeping it with you at all times, but sometimes things happen, and I want to have a back up plan in those events. Is there any consumer scooter that can meet these requirements, assuming money is no option?

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u/McFlurriez — 3 months ago