u/Medium_Flower7456

problem/goal: whenever my parents try to talk or connect with me, i feel so annoyed, irritated, or snappy with them. but i love them with my whole heart

context: i have built up resentment towards my parents for years since i was growing up, i'm 28 now and about to get married. medyo naayos naman na kami, pero di ko alam bakit sobrang triggered ako whenever they want to talk to me. minsan lang ako lalabas ng room ko or magkikita kami sice night shift ako and whenever that happens, parang kakausapin ako agad ng dad ko at kahit ano gusto lang itanong. di pa ko nagigising ng maayos tanong agad. anything na sobrang obvious na itatanong parin. sobrang mema lang ba. gets ko naman na miss nila ako at gusto nila makiconnect sakin pero i really dont get why i feel like that. i dont know why i dont feel like talking to parents is normal like other people do. my brother talks to them normally naman. its just me who has issues.

i love them so much, i really do. i want to heal so bad but i don't know how. something in me cant seem to move forward and hold grudge eh.

previous attempts: i tried talking to them about my problems but i felt so invalidated lang. walang kumakampi sakin whenever. i am seeking professional help now. i've booked an appointment but no confirmation yet. thinking about how i'm gonna go down to eat later with them and my dad talking to me right away just triggers me already.

i know this is vague and wide, but i just want to know if i am working too long on my tasks because of my suspected adhd or burnout...

say for example, as someone who works in ecommerce where images are usually detailed, how long does it take you to edit photos? a product listing? a product packaging? an a+ content?

is it normal for me that it takes me hours to finish an image? cause admittedly i don't fully lock in and i get side tracked when i'm working and i want to know if that is normal or not

so far my manager says good things about me and nothing about delays but i feel like i take on tasks too long sometimes

this is actually for my partner 😅 i'm looking for people he can be friends with since i want him to go out more but he likes it when people play his games!

games he likes:
- helldivers
- warframe
- warhammer
- any, he is always willing to try new games :)

about you:
- any, as long as you are also as active as him in playing.
- if you are also willing to do some activities with him like bouldering, hiking, running, etc.
- feel free to also add him on gcs!
- don't be a weirdo

hi! looking for girl friends i can hang out with! im g to any activities like cafe hopping, going to flea markets, or co working (im night shift thoo)

- 4'11! many people say i dont look like my age LOL
- loves going to concerts
- kikay/anik anik girlie
- artist :D
- swiftie! i love niki, keshi, the 1975, malcolm todd, etc
- kanal humor 🥀
- taken, so this is for GIRLS ONLY

we can also send random tiktoks!!

pls send me a dm or comment if u are available! i am not sure how to send money if u are from US though 🥹 if u do free readings or if there's anything i can offer in exchange, pls let me know!

my dad just resigned from his job because of too much stress and toxicity. it is affecting his mental health, as well as how our family functions. me and my brother have our own jobs na but we still have bills to pay as a family.

both of them wants to start their own business na lang. where they can be together and we still have our family time. can you give me some ideas? we are thinking of buying pasalo laundry shops or sarisari/feeds shop.

we are also around gentri/tanza area.

thanks in advance.

planning to get satin or chartreuse fabrics for my girls so they can style it on their own na lang. where is the cheapest but good quality suppliers in divi? planning to go around 168 sana or dragon8 mall